Do Women Like to Be Dominated in the Bedroom?

Do you agree that women like being led in the bedroom by a strong man who excites her. I know some women love to be man handled (oviously to a point) and taken by a real man. if the man knows how to have sex right she will have the best experience of her life. And feel a stonrger sense of exctasy all over her body rather than just in the vaginal area. Women have told me and also i see other products showing with similar responses. Women love being taken by a man inside the bedroom so she can just let go and unleash her sexuality. IN your opinion why is that.

Dear A,

When I hear words like "strong man" or "real man" I want more clarity. While it might be true that "being taken" or "man handled" will turn on some women, in my experience many of us prefer a more subtle dance. A strong lead is desirable but not to the point where there is pain or the woman has no input. While its' true I have rape fantasies and imagine being helpless, in reality I want to take turns leading and following. Don't assume that rough handling will drive her "wild with passion" unless you are role playing with prior agreements after negotiating a safe word to end the action.

I've had this conversation with Eric and he too claims some younger women like what I call a "hard fuck." It's my opinion this is the result of a lack of experience on the part of a young, inexperienced girl. All of the responsibility has been taken from her. She is only responding to being desired by him. In my mind, that's a fairly low level of sexual sophistication unless it is acting out a fantasy previously discussed.

Dr. Betty

Dear Betty,

Like alpha men that women are attracted too. Hes not a jerk, hes just got his shit together and is naturally attractive and gets a woman going. Women are slightly different i know in terms of attraction. They go more by attractive personality traits while us men get turned on more visually. There are new studies proving that women and men have different brains and why we respond differently. IN your opinion since on your site you say your a femienist, it would be interesting to hear that even the strongest women in a relationship like a man who is strong and alpha. thanks

A

Dear A,

As a feminist who would be considered an alpha female, I do appreciate a strong alpha male. My approach is still about taking turns as to who will run the fuck, terms that have been stated either verbally or tacitly between the couple. To be suddenly "taken" by someone who catches me off balance (I have to think back for the memory) is always exciting the fist time. But that's difficult to repeat on a regular basis. For me the bottom line is enjoying mutual orgasms no matter who is in charge.