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Childhood Masturbation Technique Screws up Sex

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Thu, 08/21/2008 - 11:19
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty!

I found your website and I read that in your video Celebrating Orgasm: Women's Private Selfloving Sessions, you teach a woman which had the same problem with masturbation as I have. I have a technique of masturbation (involving pressing together the legs) since my childhood which prevents me from having an orgasm with a partner. I would love to buy your video and learn how to overcome this habit and be able to have an orgasm due to manual stimulation. But I live in Europe (Germany) and we cannot get your video here. My partner and me we are very sad and don't know what to do. How can I learn to get used to another masturbation technique?

Please help us, Betty.

Many regards,

Dear K,

First you need to retrain your body by contacting your clitoris more directly during your masturbation. Spend at least 10 to 15 minutes (longer if possible) doing clitoral massage with some nice chemical-free massage oil. Take it as far as you can then finish off and have orgasm with old faithful so you don't feel frustrated. Changing your childhood masturbation pattern takes time and commitment but it can be done. You can order my books and DVD's from my online sex store. Spend some time on my new website that now has search engine to facilitate finding the info you want. And Read my article on how to orgasm.

Dr. Betty

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