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Can't Orgasm Because I Can't Ejaculate

Published June 15th by Betty Dodson
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I love your website, I think it's great, and I've read your 'first time orgasm' but I still can't manage to come. I have what I think is and orgasm (I can only get this through clitoral stimulation, even though when I was reading your 'first time orgasm' I was penetrating too) but I don't seem to ejaculate. I have been masturbating for about 2 and a half years now, and I've had sex before, but I didn't come during that either. Is there something I can do to encourage ejaculation, or am I just simply unable to do it?

Dear LA,

Clitoral stimulation is how MOST women have their orgasms. Vaginal penetration heightens your clitoral stimulation but is rarely adequate alone. If you want to come during intercourse, stimulate your clitoris as you do during masturbation at the same time. Very few women ejaculate or "squirt" as I prefer to call it. If it happens naturally fine. More women today are asking how to STOP ejaculating due to all the extra laundry. Keep reading (more than once) the info on the website along with my books and DVDs. You're doing just fine! Stop fussing and enjoy your clitoris, a woman's primary sex organ for pleasure. All this "female ejaculation" hype is just another PR ploy to sell more products. Don't fall for it and trust your body.

Dr. Betty

 

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