I am circumcised and restored. I understand what a foreskin means to an intact male in the way of comfort and sensitivity. My question is regarding female preference during intercourse.
In most surveys I have seen, American females show a preference for a circumcised penis. This is because most American women are predisposed towards circumcision and few have experienced intercourse with a natural penis. That may be changing, but, oh, so slowly. European women, on the other hand, have little experience with circumcised men. Thus, European women are predisposed towards the natural male.
Meanwhile, I'd like to know the preference of women that have experience with both varieties, whether American or European. Can a woman realistically tell the difference during intercourse?
I am aware that Dr. Betty is against circumcision and I applaud her for that stand. I am firmly in the intactivist camp with regard to infant circumcision. However, I question intactivist statements that circumcision at any age causes of ED, RE, and other physical and psychological problems. Much of the intactivism information also claim that women that have experienced both natural and circumcised intercourse prefer the natural penis. I wonder how much of that is hype and how much is based on fact. Can a woman really tell the difference?
In my experience I would answer "Yes." Until I wrote that essay, I'd never given much thought to my own personal preference between cut and uncut. However after thinking about it and going over past experiences with both American and European men, the ones I picked as my best lovers were not circumcised. This article makes several points as to why a woman benefits from an uncircumcised dick or "Natures Cockring."
The absence of a foreskin reduces a man's sensation, and again in my experience, these guys often need more stimulation to come and sometimes can be what I call "hard fucks" as they need more friction to get off. I think the other extreme of premature ejaculation might also be the result of circumcision. For the guys who have been cut like Eric who is my apprentice, he has learned to be more gentle and go slow, which is my preference. I would say of all my sex partners, Eric is at the top of my list. He has also mastered a more fierce style for those women who want "rough sex." Personally I believe it's because they don't know any better and they mis-interpert this to be a sign of REALLY being desired.
Unfortuneately as long as organized religions hold sway over America, really good and decent sex information and education will continue to suffer. I don't want men who have been circumcised to feel "less than" but I also don't want to see them perpetuate this terrible cruel and inhuman surgery. Once again I repeat, for anyone who is undecided about this issue, I beg them to watch this short clip of an actual circumcision.
Thanks for asking,