Can Male Porn Stars Really Ejaculate Across the Room?

Sun, 11/15/2009 - 11:19
Submitted by Carlin Ross

Betty,

please settle an argument between my boyfriend and me. We watch and enjoy porn before we have sex a lot. We are both amazed at how much a how far the guys shoot off when they come. My boyfriend says that it is fake and usually not really them coming, I say that it is real and that they are just real studs and that most of them are really well hung which enables them to shoot more and farther. By the way, my boyfriend has never come like that, but he can have multiple comes in one love making sessions, so I'm not complaining.

Thanks, C

Dear CA,

It's well known in the adult industry that they choose guys with big dicks and often come shot can be enhanced with yogurt or a similar substance. I've been told the guys drink a load of gatoraid and eat bananas just before they are to perform to increase the amount of the ejaculate. Like everything else, there is a a lot of variation in semen; color, amount, flavor, texture, etc. It has more to do with the size of a man's testicles than the length or girth of his dick. I'd settle for your guy any day who can shoot more than once during a lovemaking session.

Dr. Betty

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Strong ejaculation can be built up

Mon, 11/16/2009 - 09:53
Trevor (not verified)

True, a man's testicles do have much to do with the amount he ejaculates. I know many of us have even confirmed this for ourselves over the years. But length and girth often go hand-in-hand with large balls so it's easy to see why people get confused. However, practice is necessary to build up ejaculation volume and strengh to its full potential, just like any muscle and organ. I know from personal experience. I had a friend growing up who was large in that area. We used to do the sort of things kids do exploring their bodies. We even competed as how far we could shoot. I was older and masturbated more often than he did and I ejaculated more than him ast first. We both worked on him though and it wasn't long until he was ejaculating much farter than me. But more interestingly, I was suprised by how much more he was ejaculating out. Loads more than me. The need in him grew so strong, I don't know how he managed.
Also, if I slow down for a few weeks, I can see my volume go down and I can't shoot as far. But if I practice hard at it, it'll go back up again... and it'll feel better and more complete each time I do ejaculate. Just seems to grow on you with practice.
So if you want to impress your mate, ejaculate often and the earlier the better.

Trevor

When my boyfriend was in his

Mon, 11/16/2009 - 11:47

When my boyfriend was in his teens he could shoot all the way across his bedroom with considerable force and volume.  My boyfriend is just a little above average, so it had nothing at all to do with size.

Who Cares?

Miss Moonlight's picture
Wed, 11/18/2009 - 16:50

I don't want to be a party pooper but what benefit does this have to either person in a relationship or even a one night stand?

I care

Fri, 11/20/2009 - 22:30

I care, sort of.  I like cum.  The more cum the better.  I also like squirters rather than dribblers.  It doesn't have to go THAT far though!

A few misconceptions

Sat, 11/21/2009 - 17:03

Seminal fluid includes secretions from the seminal vesicles, prostate and bulbourethral glands, as well as sperm cells. The seminal vesicles supply about 30% of the seminal fluid volume. The prostate contributes about 60% of the seminal fluid, secreting a thin, milky-white alkaline fluid similar to that of the seminal vesicles.

Therefore clearly the size of the testes is largely irrelevant to the question of fluid volume.

Dehydration may reduce seminal fluid volume and increase its viscosity. It is likely that the more viscous the semen, the shorter the distance it is likely to be propelled.

http://www.fertility.com/concern/Understanding_Fertility/Sperm_Production.jsp

The emission phase of Ejaculation involves the pelvic-perineal and bulbospongiosus muscle.

Alfred Kinsey measured the distance of ejaculation, in "some hundred" of men. In three-quarters of men, the semen exuded of the penis, "In other males the semen may be propelled from a matter of some inches to foot or two, or even as far as five or six (rarely eight) feet".[7] Masters and Johnson report ejaculation distance to be not greater than 30–60 cm.[8]. Distance of ejaculation however, has nothing to do with sexual functioning, as during penetration of penis in vagina the distance of ejaculation plays no role. Even dribbling of semen from the penis could be sufficient for impregnation.

If the scrotum is held at the neck and gently pulled backwards and down, thereby creating slight tension on the lower surface of the foreskin and the phrenum (sensitive underside of the glans), it has the effect of tightening the mouth of the urethra at the tip of the glans. This creates a similar effect to partly obscuring the end of a hosepipe with a finger to increase the distance that the emitted water travels. As the fluid travels through the tightened and marginally constricted aperture, it must accelerate in order to maintain the mass flow. In sexual intercourse this process is likely to take place naturally as a result of the thrusting movements as the scrotum is pulled back by the mouth of the vagina. However, when masturbating typically such tension does not exist. This may explain the 'dribble' that some observe, and find inappropriately disappointing.

man beans

Fri, 11/27/2009 - 21:22
BigWinkle (not verified)

It's real but there are some fakes like some of the old monstersofcock ones. I can tell you just how they do it... First off scenes are split up over time so the cum shot may not even be done the same day as the sex. Or by the same person. You also have to remeber that this is their career. These guys spend most days hanging weights from their cocks and doing jelqs. You can also tell by the weak erections that they have had their suspendatory ligament cut. They also take things like Clomid. Clomid will not only increase sperm count but also the amount of total 'load'.

FYI Clomid is not some natural herb. It's usually used for breast cancer but sometimes for sp count. Take that shit and you will fill half a glass. The distance of a cum shot is not only the amount of 'load' but in addition to the weighted penis regime, PC muscle exercises are done too. They really help ejaculatory control and will also increase the distance of a flying load.

The cum shot is very important in a scene. If they guy cannot cum he will get less $$ or not even get paid (if a cum shot double has to do it for him). There is a lot behind the senses here....

Now I have a question for you....

Do you think size really matters? be completely honest. From a completely lustful perspective, would you rather have sex with one of these studds? or in other words would you prefer a man with a HUGE penis that can go for hours over Mr average?

As a guy, I would probably pick 'Mrs Porn' over Mrs average any day (just talking sex not relationship). Is that the same for women?

Huge cocks are just plain scary

Wed, 12/02/2009 - 19:36

Huge cocks are just plain scary and I don't want a guy who can "go for hours" because I don't want to go for hours.  I don't even like penetration beyond a finger or two in my cunt while my clit is being fingered or licked.  Manual stimulation and oral sex is the kind of sex I enjoy.  A guy doesn't need a huge cock for that.  He needs eagerness, enthusiasm, patience, good technique and strong tongue and hands that don't tire easilly.  I enjoy being a cock worshiper as well, so a good 6-7" cock is very satisfying for me to play with, stroke, suck, etc. I'm also a cum lover, so the more cum the better.  Big cocks get the thumbs down, but big cum shooters get the thumbs up!

A tall stiff cock and strong ejaculation is a complement

Sat, 12/12/2009 - 02:07
GwenGirl5 (not verified)

Nothing says I want you like a tall, stiff, aching, throbbing cock. You can't deny mother nature. Trust me. If he's flacid for you but erect for the girl across the room, you'll realize this. All the words in the world can't change the fact after his cock has done the talking. Same goes for his ejaculation. If he's truely excited, it will explode, not just dribble out. That's why I take it as a complement the harder a guy ejaculates. My girlfriend thinks cum is gross but she still wants to be strong when its for her.
So my advice is for guys to simply work on ejaculating a lot if they want to show how much she turns them on. Research it all you want to but it always comes down to practice practice practice. Maybe a pill also for some but in addition to practice practice practice. If his body is used to ejaculating regularly and often, it'll be no effort or surprise when the time comes.
My best sex has always been with guys who masturbate often which is how I came to realize this. That fits with what I've read from Dr. Betty too. I want sexual capacity, not an STD, and if it aint though masturbation its going to be through sleeping around. Although, one guy I dated wasn't that way when I met him but I managed to ease him into it and our sex improved. He went from dribling to shooting past his chest when I was done with him and whata mess he made. I watched him grow stronger with each passing week with my own eyes. A guy needs to work out his body, his mind, AND his cock to stay fit in all those areas.
If only guys would loosen up on themselves and masturbate more I think they and their mates would be thankful. Go Dr. Betty!

Gwen

Male porn stars ejaculating

Sat, 12/19/2009 - 12:16
Anonymous (not verified)

When I was younger I could ejaculate over my head and hit the wall behind me. I would have to go a day or two without sex or masturbation and I could usually do two loads a day like that. I even got it so I could shoot in my mouth. I have a seven inch cock so you don't need to be really well hung to do it.

My best friend in high school shot big loads when we would jack-off together and he had a fairy small penis.

cumming more and farther

Tue, 01/05/2010 - 14:21
T-man (not verified)

My best friend in college and I used to jack each other off a lot. Neither one of us is gay but we did enjoy getting each other off. He had a really big cock ( 9 inches and very thick) and he could shoot some hugh loads all over both of us and he would sometimes shoot five or six feet. It turned me really on and made my six inch rod shoot so much more than when I would jack myself off. So I think being really turned on and practing masterbating with pc muscle control really helps with amount of cum and distance.

Real shots

Sun, 01/31/2010 - 09:28
nightgirl (not verified)

My boyfriend can explode like a horse all over me almost every time he comes , also I had a boyfriend in college who shot some enormous loads on me and he could send some shots from my feet to the top of my head with regularty, so I would say no it's not fake at all !

Robert Jensen explains in

Sat, 04/17/2010 - 10:31
THE WOMAN-HATING ACT OF MEN EJACULATING ON WOMEN IN PORN (not verified)

Robert Jensen explains in his great important book,Getting Off:Pornography And The End Of Masculinity whatever the genesis of the cum shot in the history of pornography we can ask why it continues.He then asks what does the cum shot mean? He says in one of the first films he watched for his study of pornography was the 1990 porn video Taboo VIII and one of the male characters offers an answer.He says that when this man refuses the request of a woman(whom he feels is a slut) to have intercourse with her he tells her,"I don't f*ck sluts I jerk off on them.Take it or leave it.'' He then ejaculates on her breasts.Robert Jensen says that this suggests that ejaculating onto a woman is a method by which she is turned into a slut,something -not really someone-whose purpose is to be sexual with men.He then says ejaculating onto her body marks her as a "slut" which in pornography is synonymous with "woman".

He then says that that assessment was echoed by a veteran of the pornography industry (porn star and director Bill Margold),who told an interviewer:I'd like to really show what I believe the men want to see:violence against women.I firmly believe that we serve a purpose by showing that.The most violent we can get is the cum shot in the face.Men get off behind that,because they get even with the women they can't have.We try to inundate the world with orgasms in the face.

Bill Morgold also said,My whole reason for being in the Industry is to satisfy the desire of the men in the world who basically don't care for women and want to see the men in my Industry getting even with the women they couldn't have when they were growing up.I strongly believe this,and the Industry hates me for saying it...So when we come on a woman's face or somewhat brutalize her sexually :we're getting even for their lost dreams.I believe this.I've heard audiences cheer me when I do something foul on screen.When I've strangled a person,or brutalized a person,the audience is cheering my action,and then when I've fulfilled my warped desire,the audience applauds.

It's not always fake

Thu, 07/15/2010 - 17:46
me_83 (not verified)

Some of the cumshots that you see in porn are fake, but quite many are not, so some of the guys are actually studs being able to produce a lot of semen and shoot it out. It all depends on your cuisine and whether you're working out or not and if you're masturbating regularly in order to stimulate the production of semen. As Glengirl says, it's about practice and practice!

I actually had the "problem" of dribbling myself in the past. Not that it's a problem, but it's not conceived as very "manly" by many women, which is why it's wise to learn to be a shooter. The thing was, I'm fairly well endowed, and many girls expect guys with larger penises to shoot larger loads. One of my girlfriends was not an exception, the first time we had sex and she wanted to see my load my shot all ended with a dribble, and her reaction "what was that" told me that she thought something wasn't right.

And that was just one side of the story, because at the time I worked (and still do) as a male stripper and erotic model. Although I'm not required to (since it's not porn, just stripping and nude modeling) I've occasionally been asked to end the photoshoot by doing a masturbation scene in front of the camera as a treat to the female photographer if there's a good and flirty connection between me and the photographer. Needless to say I didn't do that very often, it was sooo embarassing to dribble.

Tried once though, everything was great before I came, with sexy comments, smiling and laughter from the photographer all along. When I came, the sudden silence...none of us said a word. I put on my clothes, she packed away her camera equipment and we really didn't say anything to each other. When we chatted just outside the studio both waiting for the bus I was eager to "loosen" it all up and to ask her what she thought of my performance (well, kinda knew the answer, but to get it out anyway.) And her answer were something along the lines of "Well, you look very good, but I'm used to guys having more impressive cumshots", and that was basically that...

So, for a while I decided to do something about it, did some research online and spoke to my girlfriend (which is a physician and was more than willing to help!) about it and asked for her advice. After a period of more healthy eating, excersize, kegel excercizes etc. it all started to change, that was about one year ago. With consistent diet containing some sink and a lot of proteines and with kegel excersizes I've managed to turn dribbling into 7-12 juicy, powerful shots. My girlfriend is happy about that, and I'm no longer shy about giving female photographers an extra treat at the end during photosessions. The photographer that saw me dribble the first time...well, all I can say is that the silence after I came turned into comments like "ooh, wow, that was something else than last time" and "Wow, you're really a stud, arent you?".

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