Boyfriend Has Small Penis & Can't Orgasm

Help me please, Doctor Betty!

My new partner, whom I adore, struggles for his orgasm. I was married to a man with a larger cock (8inches, filled me, hurt sometimes) and my new man has a much smaller one. I feel guilty all the time and am frantically doing pelvic floor exercises! I frequently suggest anal sex, assuming he needs something a little 'tighter'. My gorgeous man is very sexually experienced and I am now expressing my sexuality and enjoying threesomes with him and he loves to watch me with other women, but now I can't relax and enjoy our threesome sex as I'm thinking...is she tighter than me? Does he enjoy her more than me? Can you give me some reassurance about my vagina and my ability to please my man? I've never had this problem before. I have had 2 children and am very aware of keeping myself fit. I experience mild stress incontinence when doing very high impact exercise, but generally it doesn't bother me. I went to a physio after the birth of both of my children to rehabilitate my pelvic floor. I'm feeling dreadful right now. I am an attractive 40yr old woman who could pass for 30 something, own and operate my own fitness club and I should be feeling a whole lot better about myself...especially my vagina. My man is now feeling insecure about his penis. Please help us,

Doctor Betty, we're in a bit of a mess!
Alice

Dear Alice,

Whoa there girlfriend. What's all this worry and concern about "your man" struggling for his orgasm? How do you know or why do you assume it's the fault of your vagina? And why on earth are you feeling guilty because your new dude has a small cock? With all that you are offering him including accommodating every man's traditional fantasy of watching two women along with offering him anal sex, he should be down on knees worshipping you.

Sounds to me like you've gone overboard with the concept of sexually pleasing a man to keep him. Have you been reading too many women's magazines? He's damn lucky to have you so consider re-evaluating your situation. How are you having your orgasms? Are your threesomes pleasurable for you too? If so, you must NOT compare or worry if her vagina is tighter than yours. Puleeeeze!!! That's a recipe for disaster. The reassurance you ask for can only be granted by yourself. Women have got to stop protecting the male ego at the expense of sacrificing their self-worth. Any attractive successful business woman like yourself can have her pick of the litter. For all you know, a more fabulous lover with a perfectly sized dick is just around the corner. My prescription for you would be to appreciate yourself more fully. Men come and go, but the love affair we have with ourselves really does last a lifetime.

Dr. Betty