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Eric Amaranth, Sex Life Coach

Sex Life Coaching: The New Sex Therapy

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Eric believes that for the majority of people, appreciation for our partners through shared affectionate touch and great sex is one of the best sustainable resources there is to continuously renew love, connection, and attraction between partners, spouses, and the relationship to one's sexual self. It's what makes the hard times not nearly as divisive as they could be. It makes partners into lovers, not distant roommates. It creates real confidence, not imagined, and makes us feel alive and vital.

Amaranth envisions sex life coaching, relationship therapy, marital therapy, and psychology-based sex therapy covering the full range of private client-based personal life and sexuality development options. Eric is not a psychologist, so does not do "sex therapy." If you have past issues of sexual abuse and acute psychological disorders, a sex therapist is a better choice right now. However, if you are free of those issues, your sex therapy sessions have changed your life, sex life coaching forward your goals for sex life enjoyment beyond what psychology professionals are trained to provide. The same goes for marital therapy or relationship coaching. If marital therapy has lead you to a comfortable, affectionate place in your marriage, but left sexual issues and interests largely untouched, now is the time to make things even closer and more intimate via sex life coaching.
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Amaranth works with clients in two core ways. The method he primarily utilizes is called Talk Sessions. Talk Sessions work through one-on-one individual or couples discussion with or without sex technique practice via sex toys per the client's preference. The client chooses the formality of speech and sexual terminology from clinical to casual. There is no nudity or actual sexual display during Talk Sessions. Clients are strongly encouraged to play, practice, and experiment on whatever you went over in-session: healing something in your sex life, new sex skills, or improvements on existing sex interests. Amaranth has a very strong foundation of physical sex skill sets, however he also coaches clients fluently on mental, social, and emotional skills.

For those who feel ready, Amaranth also offers Guided Sessions where he guides, fully-clothed and without participating or making sexual contact, while the client(s) engage in a practice session of sex, solo or partnered, to learn while doing. The same idea as a dance teacher, sports coach, or personal trainer in the gym. Guided Sessions are based on the Private Sessions Eric's mentor Betty Dodson has offered women for the past thirty years. Betty pioneered this form of sex coaching and taught the process to Eric as part of his ten year apprenticeship with her.

Many of Eric's Guided Sessions clients value him being there to keep them going, keep their developing skills on track moment by moment, and answer questions in real time. Some sex life goals are more easily reached through Guided Sessions, like first time orgasm and improving intercourse skills. This method allows Eric to see fine details that clients wouldn't otherwise be aware of and therefore wouldn't describe to him during Talk Sessions. A small number of clients are sexually advanced already and value this form of coaching over Talk Sessions to develop even greater levels of sexual expertise.

Eric’s knowledge and training cover a broad spectrum of sex and relationship topics.  Some areas of expertise most popular with clients include:

  • Intimate communication and cooperation skills
  • Intensifying sex and orgasms
  • Longer-lasting sex
  • Spicing up a couple's sex life
  • First time orgasm
  • Low level sexual desire in women or men
  • How to have a great sex life as parents
  • Demanding jobs' and careers' effects on sex
  • Female orgasm during vaginal intercourse
  • Premature ejaculation or difficulty with ejaculation
  • The clitoris and clitoral orgasm
  • Basic to advanced clitoral stimulation
  • Vaginal orgasm
  • Masturbation skills for women or men
  • Male and female multiple orgasm
  • The G spot and G spot orgasm
  • Female ejaculation or "squirting"
  • Exotic female orgasms 
  • Advanced female orgasm combinations
  • Creating more time and energy for more sex
  • Problems due to fatigue or energy-inefficient sex
  • Integrating a fetish smoothly, or reducing fetish dependency
  • New ways to make sex mentally hotter and more arousing
  • Safe and super-safe sex
  • Developing and deepening sexual intimacy in a relationship.
  • Basic to advanced penis and prostate skills.
  • Oral Sex, basic to advanced
  • Anal sex, basic to advanced
  • Unexplained vulva and vaginal pain during sex
  • Pain during anal stimulation or anal intercourse
  • Basic to intermediate D/s play.
  • Authentic masculine or feminine presence

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Client Success Stories and Testimonials:


Looking back over where I was just a few short
months ago is a testimony to Eric’s ability to meet someone where they
are and work from there. It’s hard to put in to words but he helped me
to face one of my biggest fears in a comfortable and non-threatening yet
honest setting.

First I did Talk Sessions, then felt Guided Sessions was the next best step. The thought of Guided Sessions was hard for me at first- little did I know how
healing being self-sexual in front of someone safe and non-judgmental would
be. Eric is professional but also very real which is rare to find in any
field, let alone one with ’taboo’ subject matter. The vulnerability feelings came up, but went away very quickly to a trusted words to
describe. I felt like I was seen and accepted and that alone was worth
the experience. Not only have I felt changes in my self confidence but
parts of my life have unlocked I never knew existed. So much of my fear of sex is gone. I know I still have some ways to go but THANK YOU Eric for making such a difference. --J.

Great article Eric. And thanks for the coaching session today - can't
wait to put it into action tonight! You've completely revolutionized our
marriage over the last few months. --Victor 

My blog on a young, twentysomething, newly-single woman client's thank you letter --E.A

Two Women's Successes With Talk Sessions Sex Life Coaching --E.A

A jubilant update to the success story below this one! --E.A

Here is one of my blogs with an engaged couples' wonderful transformation after sex life coaching. --E.A

Also I wanted to thank you for meeting with me today.I was nervous and
it was very comfortable and definitely helpful. I'm excited to work on
this and be excited about sex again. I'll let you know how everything
goes.... --April

Sex life coaching gives me a whole new world of sexual freedom and
enjoyment within the boundaries of my relationship. I don't have to
choose from that dismal list of options. I can have big orgasms and
powerful sex with my husband and him with me by learning with you! Who
knew that he had a hidden erotica writing talent?! Your first session
brought that out in him. --Joyce

Click here for a glowing testimonial and more info on how my sex life coaching Guided Sessions work.--E.A

It was good for me to hear that I'm not "broken" -- that there are tons of options for anyone looking to improve their sex lives, regardless of personal "limitations." :) --Lucy

I learned some good skills that I will hopefully be able to put into practice soon! I also typed up all my notes so I have a nice reference sheet to refer back to! (What a Virgo!) You were very easy to talk to and I was not embarrassed or uncomfortable at all. I just wanted to say how much I admire your sex skills. You are so knowledgable and repectful of women and their bodies, which is way cool. You definitely have a gift. --Irina

I tried a sex coaching session with Eric for problem I had with my boyfriend, and I have seen a huge improvement in just one
session.  The ideas he gave me, I have implemented.  Yes, it does require being willing to try some new things.  One of the techniques he gave me, probably the most important one, is how to talk to my boyfriend, something totally unexpected from a sex coach.  I thought it was all technique.  I can't wait what more I will learn, hmmmm...--Wendy

I loved the sessions. They changed me and my husband's life forever. You have a good style and it worked for me. Have a fantastic weekend! Thank you
so, so, much. --Tina

If I hadn’t gotten a sense of who you were from reading your blog, I never would have contacted you or felt you could help me, or wanted you to help me. You made me feel very safe and that is so huge for me, re: the baggage stuff I talked about during our consult. I mean I'm taking care of myself for the first time but a big part of that is allowing myself to be completely honest with you. --Eva 

Great first conversation! I felt comfortable talking to you about this, you have a very reassuring, warm but professional manner. Trust is essential here. The Guided Sessions is the best method for me. I need someone to keep me on task so to speak and I think a Guided Session will help you figure out where I need to focus. Also I know I will gloss over the steps that I'm not comfortable with or I get frustrated with and if you're there (via skype) you can help me to avoid that. I feel like a need a personal trainer, only for sex, to get me through this. On my own, I'll just give up. --Irene   

Before hiring Eric, I was an avid reader of his erotica. In the end it was Eric's expertise and naturalness in the area of human
sexuality that were the deciding factors in my choosing his Guided Sessions option, along with the fact that he trained with Betty Dodson for over ten years. Eric's comfort with and support of his clients' pleasure can only enhance the experience of those that are ready for this powerful learning experience. During our regular Talk Sessions, Eric answered many indirectly related sex and dating questions. All this was done over skype, which I thought would make the interaction a bit cold, but it didn't and within the first week I was recommending him to friends!"

glowing feedback after a month of sessions once or twice a week for three hours each. --E.A   

Working with Eric is a great experience.  His extensive knowledge and
experience made me feel confident and his suggestions were both
practical and creative.  He provides the kind of information and support
that is both rare and incredibly valuable to men who are building
sexual confidence with women and enjoying the kinds of sex they want the
most. --Jorge

My husband and I are doing great. You certainly helped us with new ideas
that work great and more importantly, with making time (longer time) for
good sex mostly focused on me and my pleasure. My husband is all about
that, too. For most of our marriage we didn't do that (I certainly
didn't demand it), so it's great to do now! --Tina

Eric's doing a great job so far with helping me be more confident and caring
with women. I love women, but had such fear when with them. That's much
reduced now and dates are going much better for me. Looking forward to a
night of sex with a new girlfriend. Eric covered that too. I feel so
much better prepared than ever before. --Larry

Thanks Eric, for another fun, inspiring, completely useful…and on and on….and
on….(this is me going on and about you!) session. But seriously, for
about a year now, I have been focused on putting the intimate and erotic
spark back into my loooong term relationship with my husband. Since I’m
not one for romantic gestures, I knew that more romance, the typical
prescription, would not suit. A few good books started me down the right
path, especially as I redefined myself, started to SEE myself as a
sensual woman, not only a wife and mother. That was important, but until
I found your practice, through enjoyment of your blog (crazy fan
excitement level), I was inching along in the partner sex area. So thank
you for being that super experienced advisor and confidant that I
absolutely need to take my sex life where I want it to go. Also, the
afore mentioned husband thanks you several times a week, in an indirect
way.  Well…he doesn’t scream your name or anything, but that would be
weird for me ;) Enough gushing! Gotta run. I have this wonderful list of
new sex things that my advisor wants me to work on…. --Rachel


Eric proved to me and supported me in accepting a vibrator as my preferred
form of clitoral stimulation to orgasm. That I could love oral and sex
from my husband, get very turned on from it, then when it was time for
my orgasm, uptake the vibrator while he provides other hot stimulation.
It fits my body's needs and no guilt from pressure to come a certain
way. Also, Eric showed us how the two of us (and me by myself) can move
toward manual and oral sex clitoral orgasms gradually over time. Thank
you, Mr. Amaranth. --Jennifer

I love the better understanding of what places on my penis feel better
when stimulated and stimulated the best way for me. It's made my
masturbation and intercourse better at the same time. It makes it easier
to know what my penis needs at this point in my life to orgasm during
intercourse, which was a problem for me. I lasted forever, and women
loved that, but I and they also wanted me to come in them too. Eric
rocks. --Roger

A comment on my blog: "It's fantastic! I love it!! and I told all my friends about it." --Gail   

Intense, groundbreaking, revealing, memorable session. Thank you! Will follow up
with a technical question on something I learned last night! --Jennifer

Having Eric in my home, learning from him, felt genuine, comfortable, and exciting(!) from the very first session. --Lily


My partner Mark and I have been wanting to spice our sex life back to where it was for a while now and
Eric made it natural and enthralling, showing how the pieces all fit together. Great
teacher! --Michael


My premature ejaculation is finally history! My girlfriend is loving life and so am I. --Arthur


We were skeptical to say the least that a straight man had anything to
teach a lesbian couple in need of a resurrected lovelife. After our
consultation, it was clear that Eric loves women and pursues their
pleasure the same as we do. The results were far greater than we
expected. He knew more about p***y and what to do with it than we did,
but not anymore, after hiring him. ;) --Kim

My second month learning with eric and the new discoveries in myself and
my husband (and new pleasures) just keep on coming! --Sandra

Thank you so much for your time and energy while working with me. You were
extremely patient with me and my frustrations, and you impressed me with
your wealth of information and ideas. You offered options that I'd
never considered, and you certainly were willing to give me whatever
time was necessary for me to understand your suggestions and ask
questions. --Jocelyn

My husband and I are sexually experienced and we had no idea how eye
opening your information would be especially in regards to the
physiology of good sex and the strength and impact of your techniques.
You were right that we may have gone for years never discovering these
things, or taking forever to find them on our own. --Rachel

Thanks Eric. We were very pleased with our sessions with you. Far above
expectations. You're very impressive at what you do. I'd love to hear
your thoughts on places we might want to venture next! You're a
lifechanger! --Sandra

I want to thank you again for our conference call this morning and tell
you that it was a very beneficial start to my 'awakening,' shall we say.
You clarified the basic questions I had and helped me understand some
new things. I also appreciate your last statement about recognizing my
own emotions within what I would call an energy exchange with someone
new. I made a conscious decision when I decided to talk to you. It was
scary because you are tied to sex and eroticism and I have never allowed
myself to fully open up and stay in that place very long. But now I
have spoken to you and it was fine. I can speak further with you
sometime. So, thank you and until we speak again! --Cynthia

Hey there! Just wanted to let you know that with the communication I had left with him last time and a bit
of fantasy --- I had some bliss last weekend .... So it was very good
!!!   Thanks so much for helping me create it around fun and not
accomplishment ... :D -Katherine

Speaking and Media Appearances: Amaranth has co-presented on sex education at NYU Medical School on sexual technique and ejaculatory control with Dr. Dodson.  He has presented erotic sex education salons at Kiki De Montparnasse. He has been featured in national publications including Marie Claire,, a feature article on his health and female orgasm information and a feature article on Eric's guide to better kissing.  Eric has appeared on The View  with Betty in 2005.

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