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Now I remember why I don't do overnights when it comes to hook ups.

mssaigon73's picture
Fri, 07/17/2009 - 19:52
Submitted by mssaigon73

This past wednesday July 15th. I decided to spend the night with a guy i occasionally hook up with. Such a bad idea on so many levels! Normally with a hook up we will goto a motel. Three hours and I am out the door,no time for cuddling or anything that would lead him to think I want more.  This guy wanted to hangout overnight,he is going back to India at the end of the month and wanted one last fling.He is a nice guy, and I get orgasms despite the lack of skills he has. This time though all I wanted was to be home. I worked overnight into that wednesday,he had no consideration for this. I manage to have sex with him three times despite my exhaustion. But when I tried to make it tolerable he didn't seem to get the hint. He didn't kiss instead he suck my lips,he made my nipples sore from sucking on them wrong. I told him to take it easy yet he laughed.He kept poking at my nipples and saying he will fix them, I have inverted nipples he is a idiot!!!!He kept touching my stomach or sucking on it,I told him stop I don't like that he didn't seem to care. He wouldn't change position, missionary is his only position. And "the straw that broke the  camels back", he didn't use deodorant!!!! I scrubbed my skin raw trying to get his scent off of me!!!!! I called Carlin and told her everything, she said this goes into my bad sex hook up stories.Considering he shower three to four times, his hygiene was disgusting.His body odor was extremely offensive, he didn't bring a toothbrush or deodorant. That is an extreme pet peeve of mine. He had no consideration of my sexual needs, which killed my sexual desire along with his lack of personal hygiene. If someone tells you they don't like something a normal person would be considerate and stop doing the offensive act. He needs to stop looking at porn for sexual technique!!! Porn is for entertainment not a how to for sex skills!!!!!!  My breast are not to be used as a squeeze ball or to be poked at!  When I asked him to let me sleep cause I have been up for over 24 hours he didn't take the hint until I got a little nasty with him. Its going to take me a while to get over this wasted overnight. I could have been sleeping peacefully in my own bed!!!!

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Now I remember why I don't do overnights when it comes to hook u

mssaigon73's picture
Sat, 07/18/2009 - 12:48
mssaigon73

Newbie,

I hooked up with him a couple of other times but due to the fact that it was quickies,I didn't linger to find out his flaws. I am thinking I am getting orgasms so just enjoy that aspect. Spending the night made me see that he is someone I don't and won't have do deal with anymore. Overnights are a totally different avenues as opposed to quickies. I think I need stay away from them unless I get into a relationship with someone.  I just take it as a lessoned learned. There will always be good and bad experiences.

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Fri, 07/17/2009 - 20:49
newbiehere

mssaigon,

OMG do i feel terrible that this happened to you. my question is, though... you mention you hooked up occassionally with him... had it not been this bad those other times or not smelled so bad those other times to indication to maybe never hook up with him again? did he smell when he was fully clothed? if so, i woulda bolted right then. i can't even imagine the horror of not being able to get his stink off of you!!

i was occassionally hooking up with a guy who was extremely hairy and whenever we would have sex, he'd be dripping sweat by the gallons all over me... it was so gross to me, but YOUR experience is even WORSE! oh my!

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