Ladies-Describe your 1st sexual experience with another woman...

Tue, 09/08/2009 - 21:03
Submitted by sexycat33

I am a 34-year-old female and have never had sex with another woman.  I've been thinking a lot lately about what it would be like.  I would love to have that sexual experience at leat one time.  So far I've been too timid.  I'd love to know from all you ladies what your 1st sexual experience with another woman was like!


Wed, 06/15/2016 - 20:14

I had been curious for a long time and after i turned 35 i wanted to do something about it. About a month  ago i invited a female friend to come around during the week for a swim. I had feeling for her but did not know how she felt about me. I put a two peice swims on that was very small. When she turned up we talked for a while until she asked to go for a swim. She took her dress off and she had a one piece swimmers on that fitted her tight with high sides. It looked really nice and showed off her boobs and her crouch. We swam for about 1hr and i said i was getting out to get some lunch ready. I got out, dried my self and went inside. Sue got out and followed me inside. She asked if she could have a shower , so i got her a towel and led her to the bathroom. As i finished getting lunch sue walked out with the towel on. As i looked at her i started to get wet. We sat on the lounge opposite each other and eat our lunch talking. I looked down as we had lunch to see she had  opened her legs and she had nothing on. I started to get wet as i had never seen another pussy. After lunch i went and had a shower and come out with only a towel on. I was getting so turned on. When i came out sue asked if she could sunbake before going home. We went outside, she took off her towel and laid down naked. I was getting so turned on. I sat on the chair next to her with my towel on talking. I got the nerve up and opened my legs so she could look straight up to my pussy. A a few minuites she smiled at me, looked straight up between my legs and asked if i wanted her. I nodded yes, she got up on her knees took my towel off and kissed me. I felt her hads all over my body, squeesing my nipples and then down to my pussy. We kissed some more and i started to feel her. She did not feel the way i thought, she felt so smooth, we fingered each other untill we both cum. Sue worked her way down sucking on my nipples, put her tounge in my belly button and then down to my pussy. I was in heaven as she sucked my clit and put her fingers in me. It was the best orgasm i had ever had. After i  had calmed down i returned the experience of sucking her nippled and my 1st time licking a clit. She held my head hard into her as i licked her clit as she cum. The taste was great as i licked  her until she finished cumming. We kissed some more and this time she put her tounge in my mouth which started to get me wet some more. We sat naked outside for a while talking and sue said she had wanted to have me for a while only did not know how to ask me. She then told me it was her 1st time as well. We have been seeing each other know since. She has asked if i want to join her husband and her with my husband to show them.   

My first real experience

Sun, 12/13/2015 - 04:53

I had some crushes in the past and also some encounters and experiments. But I had my real full sex with a woman only this year after I turned 35. I met this woman for whom I was babysitting her daughter. We were good friends for 3 years. But then she started showing signs of interest in me. She was appreciating my features like thighs, legs, boobs etc. As we started getting closer discussing these I was getting very aroused every time she talked to me. She said she was getting excited too. We spoke about sex almost every day. Then one day she called me to her house. I was at my peak that day about my craving for her. She was very excited also. We sent our kids to play. I picked up courage and proposed that she allow me to touch her bod. I could see her blush but was saying no no. Then she said ok and let me unbutton her shirt. I got my first orgasm when I just touched her boob. I rubbed them for some time and she started moaning. I could not resist from kissing her. We kissed for almost 2 minutes. She then stopped me and said she wanted to see my boobs. Before I could open, she rushed and pulled my shirt and bra out. She could not wait lol. She could not stop touching and squeezing my boobs. Then before we knew we were completely undressed and on bed. She still had some body hair and that excited me even more. Every time I sucked her tiny boobs she asked for mine. We had loads and loads of sucking. Then I went down to remove her panties. It was soaking lol. She had cum several time. I knew it was working. So we went for it. We tribbed for some time and both of us saw heaven. She was asking for more and more. I could not just stop it. Then I heard my husband at the door as he came looking for me. He found out what we did. The. Her husband came to know. My husband knew and he was cool. Her husband was mad. Now she pretends she is hetero but I was the one who made her do it. I did really initiate it but she was interested more than me and also had more orgasm than me. Anyway, it was an experience I will never forget. I am just hoping I can do it all over again with her. Every time I remember that evening I masturbate!

Husband getting mad

EpiceneMT's picture
Mon, 11/07/2016 - 00:09

The husband was getting mad because his wife had sex with a woman? How insecure is he anyway.
I would like nothing better than my wife having the experience of sex with another woman. I have told my wife many times to go for it.

So True

Sun, 01/01/2017 - 12:44

Oh absolutely. Women don't typically fall in love with the woman they have fantasies with, they just wanna try something they've never done before. I've always had the fantasy to do it with a girl, & ive told my boyfriend. He says he would just love to watch the whole thing.

Wow, you guys.

Tue, 07/06/2010 - 00:03

I've never been with a girl before, but I definately don't dislike the idea. It's such a turn-on for me but I'm pretty sure I'd just chicken out at the last second if given the opportunity. I can only hope that if I did get the fortitude to go through with it that it would be as good as it was for all of you.

I'm an advocate of the idea that nobody's completely straight and I've admitted (to myself, at least, but I wouldn't deny it if a friend or non-relative asked) that I'm bisexual. Big deal.

I think that realisation came when I was reading an interview with Bat For Lashes and I realised, looking at the semi-nude pictures accompanying the article, that I had a strong desire to lick her nipples and play with her small breasts and kiss those luscious, perfect lips of hers. Out of nowhere, this was, but I accepted it as part of myself and just let the thought wash over me as I realised that I did, in fact, like girls.

Just not as much as men.

My first

Sat, 05/15/2010 - 02:24

I remember being about 9, and I don't know how it started, but my friend and I used to have sleep overs and found it felt good to grind our pubic mounds against each others, basically. Like I said, I don't know how we got the idea, but we did know if we were caught, we would be in trouble though. Parents...

Anyway, my first orgasmic experience with a girl was with my best friend at the time, we were sophomores in high school and we took a trip to Germany with some of our friends from school. We started kissing one night while we were drunk, backed off, and then that started our friends-with-benefits relationship. We were kissing one night - completely sober - and shoving each other against walls, taking turns being rough with each other when we felt the urge to. I pushed her down on the bed and started grinding against her. It was a great orgasm.

My 8th grade girlfriend

lulabelle's picture
Wed, 04/14/2010 - 18:20

I don't know if this counts as another woman since we were just girls at the time, but my first sexual experience with one was in the girl's bathroom.  I leaned in and kissed her.  Her mouth was softer, somehow, than a boy's and her lipgloss was sweet.  A few weeks later, we would pop into the bathroom for some abrupt nipple licking.  The thought of someone discovering us was thrilling; maybe that's why I liked it so much.

My first!

Tue, 04/06/2010 - 11:35

My first was not really much different from the other posts. I was about 17 and in high school. Me and some other girls were at a sleep over and doing a kind of "truth or Dare" game. One girl dared to me to make out with her so I did. We all giggled about it, but later she and I made out some more but this time I stuck my hand into her panties. I remember how excited I got as my fingers first touched her pubic hair and then as I mover lower and slid my middle finger through her folds over her clit. I was sooooooo wet that I wanted her to do the same, and she did. We spent much of the evening looking at and fingering each other's pussies. I think we tried to see how many fingers we could get into each other with-out hurting each other. Kind of silly, but so much fun.


I didn't try eating another girls pussy unti college. That was with my freshman room mate. We use to lounge around our dorm rooms naked. Since boys were not allowed on the floor after 8:00 pm we could wear very little nad feel safe that some guy would not see us and get a cheap thrill. My room mate and I were both naked and discussing, of all things, our "Bushes". We were considering shaving our pussies, but didn't know if we should go bald and how our "Kitties" would look with out hair. A few beers later into the evening and we were talking about girl on girl sex and wondered how it really was. We decided to see if we could do this girl-girl thing and soon I had my face just inches from her pussy. I remember thinking, "Gosh, am I really giong to do this?" I thought, well I'm here I might as well try. I remember first just kissing her pussy lips at the top near her clit. It felt really funny having her pubis hair brush against my face. it was soo soft and wet and the arroma drove me mad! by the end of that semester, we would god down on each other at least 3 to 4 time a week.


To this day I still engage in some girl girl fun with a close friend of mine. I'm much more at ease and toy's are involved. Sooooo much fun. We shave each other pussies at the begining af summer to prepare for the bathing suites. That ussually leads to my tongue on her clit and her tongue on mine. Getting close to that time of year. Can't wait!

By the way, I still love a really hard penis, and as so many of my posts have indicate, I love watching cum squirt out of my boyfriends penis. (Yummy)

I was out of town with my

Mon, 04/05/2010 - 12:27
suem (not verified)

I was out of town with my coworker, it came to be bed time and she hinted around that she wanted to get a porn movie, i had always wanted to be with another woman after having spent years masturbating over the thought. I was 23. So i hoped i knew where it was heading . After getting a movie i just went for it and moved over to her bed. We kissed and i slipped my hand between her legs and away we went. It really was that easy but i guess we were all on the same page. I am 43 and still masturbate thinking about it

My first experience with a

Mon, 10/05/2009 - 13:43

My first experience with a woman was just like Christina's.  I was at a slumber party when I was 12 or 13 and someone had the idea of "practicing" french kissing so we'd have skills for the boys.  There we were in our pajamas on our sleeping bags rolling around making out with each other.  Soon the kissing turned to rubbing and grinding our bodies against each other.  I don't remember having an orgasm.

The best part was that we'd break up giggling every so often.  Thinking back on it it was very much like one of Betty's Bodysex groups minus the masturbation.  I think every young girl should have her first "experiences" with her girlfriends.  It's safe and so much fun.

Start slow with massage and kissing with a friend or someone you meet when it feels organic.  Just play and see where it goes.  Don't worry about pussy eating skills.  When it's time to be sexual just have some almond oil or lube around, kiss her, and play with her clit.  You can move on from there.

"most people are fools, most authority is malignant, God does not exist, and everything is wrong" Ted Nelson

I Was In My 30s

Miss Moonlight's picture
Tue, 10/06/2009 - 13:33

It was few years ago and I was in my early 30s.  The beauty was the softness which made it very special.  I have had 2 more experiences since, although I think I would regard myself as "straightish" as opposed to bi!  However, I think all women have something in them which attracts to same sex too (some stronger than others).  Hence girls are far more tactile.

By the way in my last experience she spent almost an hour undressing me.  One garment went and then lots of cuddles and holding.  I love being undressed and the slowness was beautiful and something very few men achieve.


Miss Moonlight's picture
Mon, 10/25/2010 - 21:22

My last contribution on this subject was June 2009.  It's now October 2010.  The2 mentioned above has now increased to 5.
I still remember my first time so well, I was working away from home and it started with a coffee, she then started to stroke my hair and then....
Up until then I had never knowingly seriously considered sex with another woman.

I was the same way when I

Fri, 11/05/2010 - 20:29
Christina Cicchelli (not verified)

I was the same way when I was with a woman. I must have been 15. It was at a sleepaway camp for artists, writers, and performers. She was 17 and beautiful, unlike anyone at my high school. I remember this image of her coming out of the shower. She unwrapped her bath towel and shook out her hair, letting the water sprinkle all of us in the hallway. She had just colored it a deep orange. And I was so curious about her, so overwhelmed. Eventually, one night I went into her bedroom to listen to some CDs. I listened to Bjork for the first time. I don't know how it happened really. One moment she was sitting close to me (or I to her) and she wanted to touch my hair. And I wanted to touch hers. Then we kissed. And somehow we ended up masturbating and making out with each other until curfew (when I had to run back to my room across the hall). I went down on her and she on me. But, at that time, and at our age, that really wasn't important. We just liked touching each other. That's the fun part about being with girls at that age, all you want to do is touch and play. Hell, it's fun at any age!
"Illusion is the first of all pleasures" - Oscar Wilde

Was curious for years but didn't happen until my 30s

Sat, 09/03/2011 - 19:30

Like Moonlight, I wasn't sexually intimate with a woman until my 30s. It was a friend of a friend. It was both nerve-wracking and exciting at the same time. Unfortunately, the experience was soured by the fact that she turned out to be a pathological liar and did not tell me she had herpes after the fact (yah nice huh?) I got tested and luckily, I was fine. But that bad experience didn't deter me. I have a good friend who is bi and we've been friends and flirted and always had a connection and she always knew I wanted to be with a woman (and we had exchanged naughty emails and texts in the past so we definitely were leading up to being together). The first time with her was amazing and we have been together on and off since then (which was about four years ago). I experimented online first with women - exchanging emails and even indulging in some fun, naughty phone and cyber sex but nothing beats the real thing. It's been awhile since I've been with my friend and would love to be with her again - unfortunately, we are a few hours away from each other and there are no females I've met close by who I'd like to be sexually intimate with.
Just remember not to push yourself - it will happen when the time is right and wow, it's incredible. It really is so different from being with a man. The touch and softness of a woman - so beatiful and sensual. 

my bestfriend

Tue, 08/04/2015 - 21:10

I need a little advice. I have a friend who I was curious about but of course I was to scared. Years passed and nothing. About 4 years later we were drinking and she kissed me closed mouth. I got so excited but its been a year nd a half since then nd nothing. I'm tired of waiting so I gave up. Then she called me to go out this weekend 080815 for her bday. I don't want to go but I really want to go if I knew she would stop teasing me. I'm so attractived to her. Do I go r no lol.

me too

Wed, 11/18/2015 - 04:18

I have the same issue. My friend kissed me . It got me so excited then 2 years passed and nothing. We don't talk anymore every now and then. I think she's scared because her sister came out the closet and she was pisted. Well I'm not gay or bi but she really turned me on. I wanted to try it but now that's it has cooled off I'm ok. I guess lol.