Ladies-Describe your 1st sexual experience with another woman...

Tue, 09/08/2009 - 21:03
Submitted by sexycat33

I am a 34-year-old female and have never had sex with another woman.  I've been thinking a lot lately about what it would be like.  I would love to have that sexual experience at leat one time.  So far I've been too timid.  I'd love to know from all you ladies what your 1st sexual experience with another woman was like!

Wow, you guys.

Tue, 07/06/2010 - 00:03

I've never been with a girl before, but I definately don't dislike the idea. It's such a turn-on for me but I'm pretty sure I'd just chicken out at the last second if given the opportunity. I can only hope that if I did get the fortitude to go through with it that it would be as good as it was for all of you.

I'm an advocate of the idea that nobody's completely straight and I've admitted (to myself, at least, but I wouldn't deny it if a friend or non-relative asked) that I'm bisexual. Big deal.

I think that realisation came when I was reading an interview with Bat For Lashes and I realised, looking at the semi-nude pictures accompanying the article, that I had a strong desire to lick her nipples and play with her small breasts and kiss those luscious, perfect lips of hers. Out of nowhere, this was, but I accepted it as part of myself and just let the thought wash over me as I realised that I did, in fact, like girls.

Just not as much as men.

My first

Sat, 05/15/2010 - 02:24

I remember being about 9, and I don't know how it started, but my friend and I used to have sleep overs and found it felt good to grind our pubic mounds against each others, basically. Like I said, I don't know how we got the idea, but we did know if we were caught, we would be in trouble though. Parents...

Anyway, my first orgasmic experience with a girl was with my best friend at the time, we were sophomores in high school and we took a trip to Germany with some of our friends from school. We started kissing one night while we were drunk, backed off, and then that started our friends-with-benefits relationship. We were kissing one night - completely sober - and shoving each other against walls, taking turns being rough with each other when we felt the urge to. I pushed her down on the bed and started grinding against her. It was a great orgasm.

My 8th grade girlfriend

lulabelle's picture
Wed, 04/14/2010 - 18:20

I don't know if this counts as another woman since we were just girls at the time, but my first sexual experience with one was in the girl's bathroom.  I leaned in and kissed her.  Her mouth was softer, somehow, than a boy's and her lipgloss was sweet.  A few weeks later, we would pop into the bathroom for some abrupt nipple licking.  The thought of someone discovering us was thrilling; maybe that's why I liked it so much.

My first!

Tue, 04/06/2010 - 11:35

My first was not really much different from the other posts. I was about 17 and in high school. Me and some other girls were at a sleep over and doing a kind of "truth or Dare" game. One girl dared to me to make out with her so I did. We all giggled about it, but later she and I made out some more but this time I stuck my hand into her panties. I remember how excited I got as my fingers first touched her pubic hair and then as I mover lower and slid my middle finger through her folds over her clit. I was sooooooo wet that I wanted her to do the same, and she did. We spent much of the evening looking at and fingering each other's pussies. I think we tried to see how many fingers we could get into each other with-out hurting each other. Kind of silly, but so much fun.


I didn't try eating another girls pussy unti college. That was with my freshman room mate. We use to lounge around our dorm rooms naked. Since boys were not allowed on the floor after 8:00 pm we could wear very little nad feel safe that some guy would not see us and get a cheap thrill. My room mate and I were both naked and discussing, of all things, our "Bushes". We were considering shaving our pussies, but didn't know if we should go bald and how our "Kitties" would look with out hair. A few beers later into the evening and we were talking about girl on girl sex and wondered how it really was. We decided to see if we could do this girl-girl thing and soon I had my face just inches from her pussy. I remember thinking, "Gosh, am I really giong to do this?" I thought, well I'm here I might as well try. I remember first just kissing her pussy lips at the top near her clit. It felt really funny having her pubis hair brush against my face. it was soo soft and wet and the arroma drove me mad! by the end of that semester, we would god down on each other at least 3 to 4 time a week.


To this day I still engage in some girl girl fun with a close friend of mine. I'm much more at ease and toy's are involved. Sooooo much fun. We shave each other pussies at the begining af summer to prepare for the bathing suites. That ussually leads to my tongue on her clit and her tongue on mine. Getting close to that time of year. Can't wait!

By the way, I still love a really hard penis, and as so many of my posts have indicate, I love watching cum squirt out of my boyfriends penis. (Yummy)

I was out of town with my

Mon, 04/05/2010 - 12:27
suem (not verified)

I was out of town with my coworker, it came to be bed time and she hinted around that she wanted to get a porn movie, i had always wanted to be with another woman after having spent years masturbating over the thought. I was 23. So i hoped i knew where it was heading . After getting a movie i just went for it and moved over to her bed. We kissed and i slipped my hand between her legs and away we went. It really was that easy but i guess we were all on the same page. I am 43 and still masturbate thinking about it

My first experience with a

Mon, 10/05/2009 - 13:43

My first experience with a woman was just like Christina's.  I was at a slumber party when I was 12 or 13 and someone had the idea of "practicing" french kissing so we'd have skills for the boys.  There we were in our pajamas on our sleeping bags rolling around making out with each other.  Soon the kissing turned to rubbing and grinding our bodies against each other.  I don't remember having an orgasm.

The best part was that we'd break up giggling every so often.  Thinking back on it it was very much like one of Betty's Bodysex groups minus the masturbation.  I think every young girl should have her first "experiences" with her girlfriends.  It's safe and so much fun.

Start slow with massage and kissing with a friend or someone you meet when it feels organic.  Just play and see where it goes.  Don't worry about pussy eating skills.  When it's time to be sexual just have some almond oil or lube around, kiss her, and play with her clit.  You can move on from there.

"most people are fools, most authority is malignant, God does not exist, and everything is wrong" Ted Nelson

I Was In My 30s

Miss Moonlight's picture
Tue, 10/06/2009 - 13:33

It was few years ago and I was in my early 30s.  The beauty was the softness which made it very special.  I have had 2 more experiences since, although I think I would regard myself as "straightish" as opposed to bi!  However, I think all women have something in them which attracts to same sex too (some stronger than others).  Hence girls are far more tactile.

By the way in my last experience she spent almost an hour undressing me.  One garment went and then lots of cuddles and holding.  I love being undressed and the slowness was beautiful and something very few men achieve.


Miss Moonlight's picture
Mon, 10/25/2010 - 21:22

My last contribution on this subject was June 2009.  It's now October 2010.  The2 mentioned above has now increased to 5.
I still remember my first time so well, I was working away from home and it started with a coffee, she then started to stroke my hair and then....
Up until then I had never knowingly seriously considered sex with another woman.

I was the same way when I

Christina Cicchelli's picture
Fri, 11/05/2010 - 20:29

I was the same way when I was with a woman. I must have been 15. It was at a sleepaway camp for artists, writers, and performers. She was 17 and beautiful, unlike anyone at my high school. I remember this image of her coming out of the shower. She unwrapped her bath towel and shook out her hair, letting the water sprinkle all of us in the hallway. She had just colored it a deep orange. And I was so curious about her, so overwhelmed. Eventually, one night I went into her bedroom to listen to some CDs. I listened to Bjork for the first time. I don't know how it happened really. One moment she was sitting close to me (or I to her) and she wanted to touch my hair. And I wanted to touch hers. Then we kissed. And somehow we ended up masturbating and making out with each other until curfew (when I had to run back to my room across the hall). I went down on her and she on me. But, at that time, and at our age, that really wasn't important. We just liked touching each other. That's the fun part about being with girls at that age, all you want to do is touch and play. Hell, it's fun at any age!
"Illusion is the first of all pleasures" - Oscar Wilde

Was curious for years but didn't happen until my 30s

Sat, 09/03/2011 - 19:30

Like Moonlight, I wasn't sexually intimate with a woman until my 30s. It was a friend of a friend. It was both nerve-wracking and exciting at the same time. Unfortunately, the experience was soured by the fact that she turned out to be a pathological liar and did not tell me she had herpes after the fact (yah nice huh?) I got tested and luckily, I was fine. But that bad experience didn't deter me. I have a good friend who is bi and we've been friends and flirted and always had a connection and she always knew I wanted to be with a woman (and we had exchanged naughty emails and texts in the past so we definitely were leading up to being together). The first time with her was amazing and we have been together on and off since then (which was about four years ago). I experimented online first with women - exchanging emails and even indulging in some fun, naughty phone and cyber sex but nothing beats the real thing. It's been awhile since I've been with my friend and would love to be with her again - unfortunately, we are a few hours away from each other and there are no females I've met close by who I'd like to be sexually intimate with.
Just remember not to push yourself - it will happen when the time is right and wow, it's incredible. It really is so different from being with a man. The touch and softness of a woman - so beatiful and sensual.