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I think I broke myself...

Posted on: Mon, 12/08/2008 - 10:12
I think I broke myself...

I'm new to the site and all and let me tell you I love it here!! Okay so I'm 23...I'm pretty healthy and I've been a reigilous masturbator since about 18 years old. My problem is I only orgasm using my toys and I only orgasm when I use a toy on my clit.

I can never orgasm while having sex with a guy. I get super close but nothing seems to push me over the edge except for the few times I have used my toy with the person I'm having sex with.

What can I do to change it, besides have alot more sex which I have plenty of??

Should I stop masterbating for a while?? I really don't want to, but I don't know what else to do.

Thanks much!

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Posted on: Mon, 12/08/2008 - 11:09 #2
Stick With The Toys

There is nothing wrong with combining self play with having fun with a lover; it can be quite special.  Stick with what works for you and worry less about how you get there.  x

Posted on: Tue, 12/09/2008 - 03:48 #4
Exactly, bring your vibe

Exactly, bring your vibe into the mix. It won't hurt anything, and it'll even add a little to HIS stimulation if you hold it right.

Abstinence makes The Church grow fondlers.

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