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I am on my Meds

Wed, 05/12/2004 - 16:16
Submitted by JamesChristopher

I just have to rant a little.. I am on my medicine again and it seems that I am crabby so every one says.. i don't see it I do believe I am being quite nice considering.. I haven't had the oppertunity to get any ass in the last two weeks or so and yes that makes me crabby.. I mean I am not expecting my girl to drop on her knees every time she sees me but a little affection from her end wouldn't help.. I hate having to be the one to start our sexual experiences all the time that just isn't fair..

It makes me feel as if I am not that attractive to her any more, I also don't see why she would be less sexuallly active she lost so much weight she looks great I would Love to fuck around with her.. but it seems that I am asking for too much.. I know I am an attractive man and I am very secure with my self and what I like.. I am just getting really pissed that I have been mistreated in this department when I have entirel;y been the one to bend backwards to make her Happy

What the fuck do I do.. I mean I don't want to be like those guys that say that their wives or girl friends drove them to cheat cause I can see it comming. I have respect for her and myself but this isn't going to last long and I fucking hate it when she pulls this shit any suggestions
especially from the ladies cause maybe I am missing something that the guys cannot point out

Thanks

James Christopher

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sex...

Fri, 05/14/2004 - 11:06
ccr

Sometimes you have to accept that the person you want has a different sexual appetite than you. That sounds like the case for your girlfriend. If so, then you either moderate yours or find someone with an appetite similar to yours. (BTW, why are you on steroids? If it's for bodybuilding or something, ultimately those can have dangerous effects on your sexuality and erections...) You could try being sexual with her without her direct participation - would she let you masturbate and tell her your fantasies? Or would she have phone sex with you while you jack off?

Sometimes though, there's more to it than just horniness or libido. Some women withhold sex as a tool to get what they want. Sometimes they want or need so much foreplay - hours of romancing and sweet-talking, etc - that when they don't get it, they turn off. Sometimes stress can kill all interest in everything. Some people have sex as a way to feel better about themselves - the self-esteem boost has little to do with what we'd call horniness - it's about some internal needs that could be met in other ways.

I do know that you cannot ever force her into sex. It's dangerous and criminal. Good luck.

No

Fri, 05/14/2004 - 11:10
JamesChristopher

I am on steroids for my asthma and I have no choice but to take it.. Your absolutely right about the different sex drives cause mine is in over drive most of the time.. then again now that I think of it I am not interested in it at the moment This is why I climb walls cause I want one thing one minute and the next something else

oh well thanks for your advice
James

Fri, 05/14/2004 - 16:34
Lex

you know, a month ago you were raving about how fantastic your sex life was. Maybe you should wait this out and see how you feel once your body has adjusted to the drugs, and wait for a few weeks in general to allow yourself to not get really upset. I know that depression is a chemical reaction, but...if you train your mind and body to act and think a certain way I guarantee you that the results will be a little different. I am not saying that you will feel better, but you might not lose all of your hope. Wait for a few weeks. Remember, a month ago you were raving about your wonderful life. In a week it might find its way home.