HELP! I am meant to be having first time PIV sex tonight and I over stimulated my clit yesterday it now feels over sensitive

Mon, 02/08/2016 - 09:44
Submitted by JCL

Hi everyone!
Well I just stumble across this site great find! I haven't had partner sex before (had a religious upbriging) and to cut a long story short decided to sleep with a guy I really fancy off Tinder (though he just wants casual I figured I ought to practice as it will be fun and its time I had it) he doesn't know or suspect I am inexperienced I was just going to say go slow am a late developer type of thing....
So i brought a vibrator (not a mini) one and tried it yesterday with some silicone lube - i have been fingering myelf for years but think I over did it with the machine as my clit got very swollen and i had difficulty orgasming and now everything feels tighter than normal...I am due for my period on Friday and away from Wed so decided today (Mon) would be good -  I also have this genetic connective tissue disease Ehlers Danlos and POTS (postural orthostatic tachycardia) which means that the blood flow is different ie i get drunk quicker, and also i can injure joints more easily. I have told my future lover this and he's cool with it but not that am inexperienced I am now freaking out as i feel tighter than even normal and that even if i use lube masturabte before and try and use a toy it might be too much as I read that if your clit os over sensitive you need to give it a rest (since alst night) i dont want to cancel on him but wondering if i ought to delay a day or just get drnk and go with the flow......
I feel my whole laba is swollen and it feels uber sensitie to the touch, dont know if i should finger myself or what....

any advice welcome

Hope it ended up good

Thu, 02/11/2016 - 23:26
Anonymous

Just read your story and I'm about a week late but still wanted to comment, if anyone else has this same type of situation. First off, I hope it was a rewarding experience for you if you went through with it. As someone who is experienced, what I would have said is to tell him to take it slow because it has been a while, if you don't want him to know he is your first. As you wait to have sex the vagina can become tighter as time goes by and if he is experienced he would understand this. But, on the other hand, as a mom I would recommend telling him that he is your first. Most guys would actually think this is a turn on to them & he would take care of you in that situation.