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  • If Men Lived in a Woman's World   24 weeks 1 day ago

    Being a woman and being a mother is not EASY. We should applaud our mother's and wives in doing a job well done when it comes to juggling a lot of responsibities at home, work and to our children.  Let us be like the women from Edusson reviews who knows their priority in life.

  • The Absence of Pleasure Leads to Systemic Violence   24 weeks 1 day ago

    Dear Carlin,

    I am so sorry to hear that you were harrased by the ACS, it is un deeply upsettling , please know that the work you and Betty have done has literally transformed lives, thank you for the risks you have taken, your bold beautiful courage has been such a gift to us all, hope you are your family make it through this witch hunt, my thoughts and prayers are with you

  • Learn a New Orgasm: How to Upgrade Your Masturbation Technique   24 weeks 1 day ago

    As I've aged, my libido has declined and my prostate has enlarged. Men need to orgasm at least three times weekly to maintain good prostate health (per my highly regarded urologist).

    One new way and very stimulating way to orgasm is with external prostate massage by my wife. She makes me edge and delays my orgasm by deftly controlling the ebb and flow of my ramp up. At the PONR she clamps down on my urethra to maximize the explosion of my O.

    I've also learned how to O from the use of an Aneros prostate massager by rocking back and forth on an inclined lawn chair. It may take a bit of time, but when the PONR hits me, the O is indescribably prolonged, exhausting, and extremely pleasurable beyond any kind of O I have ever experienced.

    All this at nearly 70 years old. Still learning new tricks!

  • Wife Feels It Takes Me Too Long to Ejaculate   24 weeks 1 day ago

    Divide your love making into thirds.

    Focus first on foreplay, mutual masturbation, some anal play, anything and everything to her delight, etc.

    Then ask her to let you know when she wants to come. Do anything and everything to maximize her pleasure and help her reach her O.

    After she has been satisfied, then the two of you can focus on you. Perhaps you need some time for PIV pumping or oral sex, even further masturbation. Just be certain that you don't make her sore or wear her out. Reach your O in a variety of ways.

    If, perhaps, you only want to O through an extensive PIV thrusting period of time, it's clear why she is frustrated and it's physically hard on her. You'll need to figure out ways for her to be maximized fulfilled and you as well.

  • Wife Feels It Takes Me Too Long to Ejaculate   24 weeks 1 day ago

    Divide your love making into thirds.

    Focus first on foreplay, mutual masturbation, some anal play, anything and everything to her delight, etc.

    Then ask her to let you know when she wants to come. Do anything and everything to maximize her pleasure and help her reach her O.

    After she has been satisfied, then the two of you can focus on you. Perhaps you need some time for PIV pumping or oral sex, even further masturbation. Just be certain that you don't make her sore or wear her out. Reach your O in a variety of ways.

    If, perhaps, you only want to O through an extensive PIV thrusting period of time, it's clear why she is frustrated and it's physically hard on her. You'll need to figure out ways for her to be maximized fulfilled and you as well.

  • Gender Roles are Created by Society Not Biology   24 weeks 1 day ago

    The human science of sex inspects how society impacts our understandings and impression of contrasts between manliness what society regards suitable conduct for a man and make my assignment womanliness what society considers fitting conduct for a lady.

  • Can You Orgasm From Nipple Play?   24 weeks 1 day ago

    We are in our late 60s, and my wife loves long dry nursing foreplay sessions. We 'work together' as I suckle and as she masturbates or I suckle only. She likes to do this to maximize her edging and she or I will back off in order to prevent her from reaching a PONR. When she can't stand it any longer or is on the brink of going over the edge, she'll beg me to let her come and I'll oblige her in any manner that she desires. She has lost it and gone over the top with just nipple sucking.

  • Will I Still Ejaculate After My Hysterectomy?   24 weeks 2 days ago

    My wife had an oophorectomy years ago, and she generates plenty of arousal lubrication. We supplement it a little with KY Ultragel. Generally, after mutual masturbation and extended breast dry nursing, I'll bring her to her O with a combination of anal massage and finger penetration (increasing the penetration as she ramps up to her O), plus a two finger technique to penetrate deep in her vagina and massage her G-spot. When she Os, I can feel significant FE on my fingers in her vagina and feel it seep out. There is no question that my wife generates FE - she and I experience it in terms of volume, flow, and wetness. So, yes, FE is possible for an older woman with no ovaries!

  • Masturbation Saved Our Marriage   24 weeks 2 days ago

    We are nearing our 70s and fully celebrate solo and mutual masturbation. If we are apart, we encourage each other to enjoy a 'jack and jill' solo session - then we'll share, tell if asked, or smiling knowingly when we are together again. If I'm horny around the house (she is extremely attractive) we talk about options - I'll jack-off by myself, she'll ask if I'd like her to jack-me-off, or she'll ask if I want her to just watch me.

    We love to engage in mutual masturbation. Nothing turns us on more than hearing and seeing each other ramping up, edging and pulling back, absolutely losing it at the PONR, or begging for each other to take over and bring us to an O. We are very verbal and enjoy the freedom of full expression of our mutual and individual moment of ecstasy.

    She had an oophorectomy in her mid40s, but staying sexually active has helped to offset the typical older woman's lower libido and being a long time FEer has made sex easy and a messy fun. She tells me that her Os are different in her 60s than in her 20s, but they are every bit as intense. My BPH and prostate surgical treatment along with lower testosterone has diminished my libido. Our advice to oldsters is to NOT neglect the physical, emotional, and spiritual benefits of solo and mutual masturbation. Just do it, enjoy it, encourage it, and celebrate it!

  • Why So Negative About a Man Ejaculating on the Woman?   24 weeks 2 days ago

    We are an older couple that enjoys mutual masturbation and its consummation in a variety of creative ways. Typically, we lie side by side and self-stimulate without touching each other. This gives us full personal control over our build-up and edging as we treat each other with visual and verbal effects that turn each other on as we delight in each other's self-stimulation. Depending on how we get worked up at different paces will prompt us to take ourselves over the top or help out each other to reach our O. My wife will sometimes join me as I self-stimulate and skillfully work massage my boys (I crave pretty rough play, and she's very deft at playing with them) and then she'll expertly, externally massage my prostate to squeeze out my semen from my prostate. Then as she brings me to the PONR, she clamps down hard on my urethra at the base of my penis in order to hold back my ejaculate. She absolutely delights in maximizing the force and volume of my ejaculate, positioning the head of my penis at an angle that directs ejaculate where she wants it to go. It may end up on her belly, on my belly, on her breasts and my chest, or sprayed all over us including some on our face. By letting her take control of where my ejaculate ends up, we find that the sharing of my ejaculate to be very erotic. We'll lay there or embrace, exhausted and satisfied with the warmth and mess and then clean-up when we're ready the cuddle and go to sleep.

  • Why So Negative About a Man Ejaculating on the Woman?   24 weeks 2 days ago

    We are an older couple that enjoys mutual masturbation and its consummation in a variety of creative ways. Typically, we lie side by side and self-stimulate without touching each other. This gives us full personal control over our build-up and edging as we treat each other with visual and verbal effects that turn each other on as we delight in each other's self-stimulation. Depending on how we get worked up at different paces will prompt us to take ourselves over the top or help out each other to reach our O. My wife will sometimes join me as I self-stimulate and skillfully work massage my boys (I crave pretty rough play, and she's very deft at playing with them) and then she'll expertly, externally massage my prostate to squeeze out my semen from my prostate. Then as she brings me to the PONR, she clamps down hard on my urethra at the base of my penis in order to hold back my ejaculate. She absolutely delights in maximizing the force and volume of my ejaculate, positioning the head of my penis at an angle that directs ejaculate where she wants it to go. It may end up on her belly, on my belly, on her breasts and my chest, or sprayed all over us including some on our face. By letting her take control of where my ejaculate ends up, we find that the sharing of my ejaculate to be very erotic. We'll lay there or embrace, exhausted and satisfied with the warmth and mess and then clean-up when we're ready the cuddle and go to sleep.

  • Is My Hymen Still Intact After Tampons?   24 weeks 5 days ago

    Hi R I think if you have been pushing tampon up your nagina and never felt any resitance then your hymen may have gone years ago.

    In women some they just go some are a bit thicker till you get to the ones like a tramperlin and these need a doctors help to get through them.

    So I think it would be safe to says yours has gone. OK

    NOWHARD

  • Thinking of Labiaplasty for My Large Dark Labia   24 weeks 5 days ago

    Hi Just go to http://beautifullabia.tumblr.com/ and your see just how all women differ when it comes to your vaginas and the shapes and colours, your just normal, any guy not wanting you as you are is not worth worrying about. OK

    NOWHARD

  • If Men Lived in a Woman's World   24 weeks 5 days ago

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  • K   24 weeks 6 days ago

    Tell him that you love to masturbate while he's asleep because it feels so good knowing that you could get caught. Tell him how your fingers feel on your clit, and how you wish he could help you or watch. He will likely need no more invitation than that.  Good luck. 

  • All the Horrible Things I’ve Masturbated To: Chikan Porn   25 weeks 1 day ago

    I just watched a Japanese Chikan movie in which a girl was held down while her skirt was lifted and three men took turns eating her pussy, sucking on her clit. I loved how she was unable to deny the pleasure, and the shame that she obviously felt at wracking with orgasms forced upon her by captors exposing her pussy and asshole, and by licking and touching her naked, vulnerable flesh. There were many closeups of the men using their fingers to pull her lips up and back so that her beautiful, wet inner flesh was exposed.  Whoever was directing made sure that the girl did plenty of squirming and mewling, and the men sprinkled kisses over her unwilling cunt. One man squeezed her lips togther and kissed the resulting tight slit before spreading her open again. The camera came in close to show the man's lips pulling the girl's hooded clit in and out of his mouth, her pussy leaking pleasure juices, her clit stiff and pink from sucking. The captive girl, arms and legs pinned by 2 of the men,  shook, her body wracked with pleasure.  The men pinning her down lifted her shirt and began sucking her tits. The girl screamed in protest, but still..her nipples hardened in the men's mouths, betraying her.

    The men traded places, and the two men doing the pinning pulled the girl's legs up and back so that her pussy gaped, her clit popped out, her lips swollen and parted, showing her glistening pink pussy. The new position parted her buttocks, exposing her tight, pink anus. The man on the pussy pulled those silky buttocks apart and went down on her asshole while the girl bucked and twisted. The man licked her butt cheeks and then returned to eating her asshole while the other men used one hand each to grope her body. One of the men diddled her clit, then slowly inserted a finger into her vagina while the third man licked and sucked her anus. The girl wailed as her violation intensified, the finger dipping in and out of her vestibule, slick with her moisture.

    I heard myself thinking 'Oh, yes. Penetrate her.  Penetrate her vagina." I hoped that they would each take a turn putting their penises into her vagina, and maybe even violating her anus with fingers and penis. I hoped that one of them would suck her clit while another was violating that precious pink asshole. God, I love to see women fucked in the ass against their will.
    The delicious vulnerability and the helplessness against pleasure mixed with shame had me cumming without touching my clit.  I wanted to take my turn eating her pussy. I wanted to feel that stiff little clit jump in my mouth as I licked and suckled her to her next orgasm. I wanted to watch all three men sully that little pussy. I wanted to join them, and flip her onto her belly so that I could rub her clit from underneath while the men put their penises into her helpless holes. I wanted them to stick their tongues into her asshole, and pull her fig apart to tongue her introitus.
    It was important not to call it fucking.  Penetrated. Spread. Exposed. Filled. Inserted. Fucking sounds too much like it was consentual. I wanted to watch her penetrated again and again by tongues and fingers and penises, knowing that that beautiful little body was unable to stop the pleasure and that each orgasm was a testimony to deep embarrassment. Mmmm. 

  • My First Tantric Massage   25 weeks 2 days ago

    I've experienced tantra massage once 2 months before, thinking it could be something with so called "happy ending", but it was actually not. They differ (you may read it here - http://teusner.eu.org/prague-travel-guide-tantric-or-erotic-massage/), and in a good manner I can say.

  • The Best Use of Your Vibrator   25 weeks 2 days ago

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  • "Dad Uses Facebook to Teach Daughter a Lesson"   25 weeks 4 days ago

    i am not sure what assignment lesson he virtually taught her. That it's ok to air her dirty laundry in public, that destroying possessions is ok in case you're upset? I mean, get real...the training that had to be learned..like cultivating recognize for others, appreciation of what you have were not truely taught..at all. Plus, the public shaming doesn't educate something and ultimately just causes greater damage.

  • Nudity with Strangers Makes You Happy   25 weeks 5 days ago

    Yes, totally agree.  Love being nude and not tied up in clothing.

  • A Woman's Erection Needs 20-30 Minutes of Adequate Clitoral Stimulation   26 weeks 2 days ago

    I don't always read all the comments following an article. The place to send questions is on front page......Ask Dr. Betty. Send me your question again so I can respond.

  • A Woman's Erection Needs 20-30 Minutes of Adequate Clitoral Stimulation   26 weeks 2 days ago

    Hi Betty!
    I just found your website recently and really love everything about it. I don't think you have done anything to bash men in any way. We need society to understand this information, because there are definitely some men on here who have been deceived by their partners to protect their egos. Yes women fake climaxing, way to often at that. I think they need to open their minds to these facts! I can say that I am an orgasmic woman, I can cum quickly if I put extreme pressure and fast paced clit stimulation, and at that point it has nothing to do with the mans cock. I have faked a lot of orgasms even with my husband because a few minutes of clit stimulation and then straight to banging isn't enough to make me cum unless of course I'm in a good position to stimulate my clit fast and hard (with my legs squeezed together) which isn't ideal if you want to have more options of positions during sex. Men are so lucky they get turned on and hard within seconds, and can cum within minutes sometimes seconds of sex! It's really not to much to ask for them to stimulate us enough so that we don't have to work so hard to achieve that climax. I know I've felt defeated and unequal as a women for way too long, feeling that my obligation is to make a man cum and go masturbate in the shower after (yep I've done that). I now realize I need to open up with my husband and stop faking orgasms, get real with him and let him know I need more stimulation before sex. I really don't want to hurt his feelings and I'm very shy even after a few years of marriage so that's something that I find hard to do but I'm sick of putting myself on the back burner. Betty I do have a question, we don't do a lot of oral sex I do on him and I like doing so it turns me on watching him get hard and hot, however I'm not a big fan of receiving it. This might be due to the fact that I find it hard to relax and fantasize and also if the stimulation isn't perfect it doesn't do anything for me at all. I would rather stimulate my clit before sex, do you have any suggestions on how I can do this with my husband and a gentle way of bringing it up? It's kind of hard to tell someone you love that you have faked orgasms for so long without hurting their feelings!

  • A Woman's Erection Needs 20-30 Minutes of Adequate Clitoral Stimulation   26 weeks 3 days ago

    I don't know about 8 inch penises, but my ex-partner was extrenely (I mean that as in extemely, abnormally) multi-orgasmic, and she'd very rapidly orgasm if I hit her cervix.  And again, and again. Now, she, I found out later, had severe, diagnosed, hospitalised, Narcisstic Personality Disorder, NPD, and acknowledged she had non-violent masochistic fantasies. So, I would in no way suggest she was 'normal', but I think we need to beware generalizations.

  • I Get Horrible Cramps After Clitoral Orgasms   26 weeks 3 days ago

    I have worked at an adult novelty store for 6 years so I'm pretty intouch with all the toys and body parts and what does what. I'm 24 years old and have had one natural birth 5 years ago. The same exact thing happens to me any clitoral stimulation sends me in horrible pain. The only difference is even with something inserted I still get the same results! The pain is worse than contractions! It's gotten to the point that I have to take a pain pill if I want to masterbait. Iv noticed after if I rub my stomech in circular motion the pain eased up and almost turns into gas pains. I can't live like this forever! Any answers or ideas of what I could do?

  • A Woman's Erection Needs 20-30 Minutes of Adequate Clitoral Stimulation   26 weeks 3 days ago

    I've never had partner sex but when I masturbate the longest I can keep going before I come is about 10 minutes. Usually it's more like the first couple minutes when it happens. I can't really seem to stop or control it. Am I missing something by not going the full 20-30 minutes? I think I have really good strong orgasms but then I've never gone that long so don't know what that would be like.