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  • My First Tantric Massage   20 weeks 3 days ago

    I've experienced tantra massage once 2 months before, thinking it could be something with so called "happy ending", but it was actually not. They differ (you may read it here - http://teusner.eu.org/prague-travel-guide-tantric-or-erotic-massage/), and in a good manner I can say.

  • The Best Use of Your Vibrator   20 weeks 3 days ago

    Thank you for this article, I will show it my marry order brides

  • "Dad Uses Facebook to Teach Daughter a Lesson"   20 weeks 5 days ago

    i am not sure what assignment lesson he virtually taught her. That it's ok to air her dirty laundry in public, that destroying possessions is ok in case you're upset? I mean, get real...the training that had to be learned..like cultivating recognize for others, appreciation of what you have were not truely taught..at all. Plus, the public shaming doesn't educate something and ultimately just causes greater damage.

  • Nudity with Strangers Makes You Happy   20 weeks 6 days ago

    Yes, totally agree.  Love being nude and not tied up in clothing.

  • A Woman's Erection Needs 20-30 Minutes of Adequate Clitoral Stimulation   21 weeks 2 days ago

    I don't always read all the comments following an article. The place to send questions is on front page......Ask Dr. Betty. Send me your question again so I can respond.

  • A Woman's Erection Needs 20-30 Minutes of Adequate Clitoral Stimulation   21 weeks 3 days ago

    Hi Betty!
    I just found your website recently and really love everything about it. I don't think you have done anything to bash men in any way. We need society to understand this information, because there are definitely some men on here who have been deceived by their partners to protect their egos. Yes women fake climaxing, way to often at that. I think they need to open their minds to these facts! I can say that I am an orgasmic woman, I can cum quickly if I put extreme pressure and fast paced clit stimulation, and at that point it has nothing to do with the mans cock. I have faked a lot of orgasms even with my husband because a few minutes of clit stimulation and then straight to banging isn't enough to make me cum unless of course I'm in a good position to stimulate my clit fast and hard (with my legs squeezed together) which isn't ideal if you want to have more options of positions during sex. Men are so lucky they get turned on and hard within seconds, and can cum within minutes sometimes seconds of sex! It's really not to much to ask for them to stimulate us enough so that we don't have to work so hard to achieve that climax. I know I've felt defeated and unequal as a women for way too long, feeling that my obligation is to make a man cum and go masturbate in the shower after (yep I've done that). I now realize I need to open up with my husband and stop faking orgasms, get real with him and let him know I need more stimulation before sex. I really don't want to hurt his feelings and I'm very shy even after a few years of marriage so that's something that I find hard to do but I'm sick of putting myself on the back burner. Betty I do have a question, we don't do a lot of oral sex I do on him and I like doing so it turns me on watching him get hard and hot, however I'm not a big fan of receiving it. This might be due to the fact that I find it hard to relax and fantasize and also if the stimulation isn't perfect it doesn't do anything for me at all. I would rather stimulate my clit before sex, do you have any suggestions on how I can do this with my husband and a gentle way of bringing it up? It's kind of hard to tell someone you love that you have faked orgasms for so long without hurting their feelings!

  • A Woman's Erection Needs 20-30 Minutes of Adequate Clitoral Stimulation   21 weeks 3 days ago

    I don't know about 8 inch penises, but my ex-partner was extrenely (I mean that as in extemely, abnormally) multi-orgasmic, and she'd very rapidly orgasm if I hit her cervix.  And again, and again. Now, she, I found out later, had severe, diagnosed, hospitalised, Narcisstic Personality Disorder, NPD, and acknowledged she had non-violent masochistic fantasies. So, I would in no way suggest she was 'normal', but I think we need to beware generalizations.

  • I Get Horrible Cramps After Clitoral Orgasms   21 weeks 4 days ago

    I have worked at an adult novelty store for 6 years so I'm pretty intouch with all the toys and body parts and what does what. I'm 24 years old and have had one natural birth 5 years ago. The same exact thing happens to me any clitoral stimulation sends me in horrible pain. The only difference is even with something inserted I still get the same results! The pain is worse than contractions! It's gotten to the point that I have to take a pain pill if I want to masterbait. Iv noticed after if I rub my stomech in circular motion the pain eased up and almost turns into gas pains. I can't live like this forever! Any answers or ideas of what I could do?

  • A Woman's Erection Needs 20-30 Minutes of Adequate Clitoral Stimulation   21 weeks 4 days ago

    I've never had partner sex but when I masturbate the longest I can keep going before I come is about 10 minutes. Usually it's more like the first couple minutes when it happens. I can't really seem to stop or control it. Am I missing something by not going the full 20-30 minutes? I think I have really good strong orgasms but then I've never gone that long so don't know what that would be like.

  • what kind of porn do you like?   21 weeks 6 days ago

    I love seeing women with small breasts naked.  I love porn with menand boys sucking on small breasts with puffy nipples. 

    I also love to see a naked women bent over a table or couch so that her ass and pussy are visible. The hottest scenes have  woman in the above position getting her pussy and ass licked by another woman, and then the woman who did the licking opens the bent over pussy and holds it open while inserting a man's cock into the vagina with her other hand. It really turns me on to see a woman getting used by another couple.  

  • what kind of porn do you like?   21 weeks 6 days ago

    I love seeing women with small breasts naked.  I love porn with menand boys sucking on small breasts with puffy nipples. 

    I also love to see a naked women bent over a table or couch so that her ass and pussy are visible. The hottest scenes have  woman in the above position getting her pussy and ass licked by another woman, and then the woman who did the licking opens the bent over pussy and holds it open while inserting a man's cock into the vagina with her other hand. It really turns me on to see a woman getting used by another couple.  

  • Almost 50 & Preorgasmic   22 weeks 5 hours ago

    Hello L
    Please take Dr Betty's advice. I was angry with my body for a long time blaming it for not working when my body was not the problem my mind. Put on the soft lights, look at yourself and I will garuntee you will see something you like. If you can't bear to be totally naked the first time, do what I did and put on some underwear you like. Your body is amazing and it can make you feel amazing- just love it and it will happen. I nearly always masturbate in front of a mirror now - nothing like it.

  • Almost 50 & Preorgasmic   22 weeks 5 hours ago

    Please be very, very kind to yourself. 
    I was 63 when I first had an orgasm....now at 65 I have full bodied...mind blowing ones!!
    But it has taken time and patience. First I saw a sex therapist and so slowly started to understand my body. So many repressions about masturbation and just sex in general...I still stuggle to relax with myself and enjoy my body.
    I have a wonderful lover who has ED and just wants to satisfy me and my arse is starting to play an important part in our love-making...thats where the mind-blowing orgasms start
    Please dont give up....I never thought I would or could orgasm...just remember they start very slowly.....just a feeling of a wave of pleasure...the earth wont move.
    You aren't sexually crippled, you are just sleeping and I hope you can awaken yourself
    Take care

  • All Women Should be Acknowledged & Supported by Feminism   22 weeks 7 hours ago

     since I've been doing it since 1970. But I'm with everyone in spirit out on the street here in NY and in Washington. Yes, this president is not the people's choice but he sure is mobilizing us to speak out like never before. I thank him for that. It's looking to be an interesting time in politics. Just wait until we mach for women's equal orgasms in partner sex. That's going to get me out in the street just one more time.

  • If Men Lived in a Woman's World   22 weeks 15 hours ago

    This blog talks about a movie which is based on gender issues. It is a topic with great improtance and it is one of the highly discussed topics. Buy research proposal and get more information about the topic discussed in this movie. 

  • Rape Culture Starts with School Dress Codes   22 weeks 16 hours ago

    Jess,
    I'm not at all clear about what you mean in your comment "Everyone knows how uncontrolled teenagers can be" Are you really talking about all teenagers or just the male ones? Having two teenage daughters, I don't really recognise your description of them as uncontrolled at all but to be honest it doesn't seem to apply to the sons of my friends either. The young people I know are all perhaps a little idealistic, occasionally self-righteous, but generally respectful of themselves and others. They obviously are new to the world and keen to explore and experiment, but that's not the same as being out of control. It's a parent's job to provide a safe space for their kids to grow, not to box them in or limit them.

    When you say you want "kids to become self-consistent" what does that mean? Consistency is a trait I've worried about as a parent, rather than one to worry about in my children. I've tried to raise my girls to value themselves and the people around them, to be empathetic, to be sensitive to the people around them and robust enough to demand the same treatment from others. If anything, it's the double standards around them that infuriate them most of all, the lack of consistency in the world that they struggle to accept, especially when it comes to discrimination and double-standards. 

  • Breastfeeding in Public is Beautiful   22 weeks 19 hours ago

    Fine with me that women want to breastfeed in public.  I love seeing them pull out their breasts in public places and putting the nipple into their child's mouth. I wanna look at your tits, girls, and while some women are discreet, a lot of women like showing off their titties in public. You can tell which are which, because the women who are merely feeding pick up the edge of their shirt, scoot their bra up and latch on the baby with almost no exposure. The titty exhibs pull the shirt way up or open it down the front, pull the bra all the way up so their curved breast and full nipple--usually hard--is exposed. They are slow about putting the baby on, and rarely use a cover. The exhibs look around to see who is looking at them. When they take the baby off, they let the tit hang, enormous swollen nipple exposed again while then do some bogus baby juggling, putting the baby to their opposite shoulder or handing it to the father to burp.  I've watched their nipple pucker and stiffen as it hangs in the air, because they know we are looking. Finally, they put it away, a little satisfied grin on their faces. 

    I always want to go over and whisper, "Can we see your cunt, too?".  

  • He Wants Me to Lick His Ass But Won't Eat Me Out   22 weeks 2 days ago

    I agree that this male sounds selfish by description. The fact that he wasn't willing to try and learn how to perform better makes that clear. I'm a man and I get my greatest pleasure out of being the best lover my partner has ever had....I ask questions and consistently improve on whatever needs work. I don't know about males in general not being able to deliver....I think it's a matter of character myself. My girl and I equally try to outdo each other in pleasing the other....that's how it should be. I wanted to bring up some other points of this issue concerning this guy not coming orally or from penetration. I have the experience on a few occasions where the woman kept moving around too much or out of the ideal stimulating orgasmic position. The oral could be an issue coming from technique...some men like fast...some slow, etc. But no matter what....getting your balls licked while you stroke yourself to orgasm is heavenly! Even if you have awesome penetrating and oral sex.....it's just another great way to climax. He wasn't communicating so you won't know what the exact is was. These are some practical possibilities that may be helpful in the future. 

  • Notes of a Recovering Squirter   22 weeks 2 days ago

    It appears that Betty may have some issues with men....hmmmmm. My woman squirted on her own and loves the intensity as well as when I equally stimulate her clitoris to orgasm....it's whatever turns the individual on....I think that's the most intelligent approach to this whole discussion.

  • When I Orgasm, I Poop A Little!   22 weeks 2 days ago

    I'm a man and I've had this happen with my woman. She had never had multiple orgasms or squirted in rivers, without the assistance of digits, before me. The night before last she squeezed out a milkdud from nowhere...she had used the bathroom before we had sex. I think this can just be a normal occurrence, given  that there are no known pre-existing medical conditions. She is coming soooo intensely that her contractions sometimes hurt me! Besides...I am honored that I'm able to bring that much pleasure and intensity...makes me feel super manly! Real men don't care about a lil poop that washes off with soap and water....has anyone ever changed a diaper? For me it's more important that my girl is thoroughly satisfied....she can poop all that she wants! I love her.

  • Sexualizing the Mother Child Bond   22 weeks 2 days ago

    Outrageous.

  • Sexualizing the Mother Child Bond   22 weeks 2 days ago

    Well, some people just giggle and do nothing. Others express their attitude in comments. I have found at least 6 articles on different bid4papers.com reviews that prove breastfeeding at the older age is really negative for the child's health and psyche.
    Some mothers create channels on Youtube to show how they feed their children and are accused of incest.

  • Rape Culture Starts with School Dress Codes   22 weeks 2 days ago

    Strongly disagree with you, jess!

  • I've Been Told I Have Nymphomaniac Disorder   22 weeks 2 days ago

    That's a strange tip. I don't believe the problem can be solved this. This piece of advice could be givenby some teenager but not a doctor. I believe the problem is much graver and you should consult a real doctor.
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  • First Orgasm at 33 with Hitachi. How Can I Orgasm with My Hands?   22 weeks 2 days ago

    I have the same issue, and didn't orgasm until I was 36. The wand changed my life. I too wanted to orgasm without a vibrator for a long time, and then I just began to accept it and really try to tap into my fantasies, being open about whatever came into my mind. I still need a vibrator, but orgasms come a lot quicker now (I'm 43 and more sexual than ever). I find that using a vibrator first is great and makes the sexual experience a lot more enjoyable. Most of all, be kind and understanding to yourself. And don't believe the hype about easy orgasms. I like to think that mine are harder to come by, but more intense.