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  • Is it cheating?   13 years 21 weeks ago

    Borrow milk? Do you live in Mayberry? What a load o' shit. BTW, your NO friend if you'd do that behind her back & he's a tool as well...

  • Is it cheating?   13 years 21 weeks ago

    You were taking advantage of him while he was in a particular situation.

  • Truth or Dare   13 years 21 weeks ago

    Wow, you REALLY showed him! Oh No, not eating pussy!... :roll:

  • Is it cheating?   13 years 21 weeks ago

    You have never wanted to just to do something like that? I didn't set out to do it, it just happened because he was rubbing that big cock.
    If had a planned to do him, that would be different, this was kind of an accident. I could have not done it but damn, it was a gift from the gods.

  • Is it cheating?   13 years 21 weeks ago

    You did that to your friend? With friends like that who needs enemies? Gosh, you just don't know do you? Things will never be the same now. He doesn't respect you, he knows if you would do that to her, it's untelling what he could expect. Your friend is going to be devastated, cause she didn't just lose him, but you too.

  • A Special Christnas Gift   13 years 21 weeks ago

    Funny thing is that you say you have the freedom to do what you want as long as you dont break the law. Well what your doing is called adultery, and it is against the law.

    Just thought youd want to know.
    You may want to re think your defense.
    Otherwise your calling yourself a hypocrit.

    Good luck.

  • Blowjob in the Laundry Room   13 years 21 weeks ago

    Sorry to burst your bubble chead118 but that's not what XL9 stands for. :roll: As far as looking ya up. I doubt that'll happen. :wink:

  • A Special Christnas Gift   13 years 21 weeks ago

    You speak of freedom and people trying to attack your freedom.

    Well when you got married you gave up a little bit of that freedom.

    A married person is supposed to take into consideration their spouses.

    A married person no longer can just do whtever they want when they want.

    A marriage is 50 50., or at least used to be.

    If your that unhappy just get divorced, then you can do whatever you want, whenever you want, which sounds a lot like you want to do anyway.

    If your husband knows and doesnt care is one thing, but doing it behind his back is deceipful, not a freedom.

    Just one of many opinions.

  • A Special Christnas Gift   13 years 21 weeks ago

    You speak of freedom and people trying to attack your freedom.

    Well when you got married you gave up a little bit of that freedom.

    A married person is supposed to take into consideration their spouses.

    A married person no longer can just do whtever they want when they want.

    A marriage is 50 50., or at least used to be.

    If your that unhappy just get divorced, then you can do whatever you want, whenever you want, which sounds a lot like you want to do anyway.

    If your husband knows and doesnt care is one thing, but doing it behind his back is deceipful, not a freedom.

    Just one of many opinions.

  • breast pain   13 years 21 weeks ago

    Hey,

    I'm no doctor but it could just be hormones. The best thing to do is go to your GYN. Don't play around with your health! If it's nothing, the worst is the bill. But if not... well you know the deal. And good luck. Also so if your man is big on sucking, ask him to try licking till things get better. Oh and girls, wait till you try breastfeeding, men will seem timid!!!

  • A Special Christnas Gift   13 years 21 weeks ago

    I am not forcing my opinions on anyone. Nor Am I opressing anyone from the right to freedom of choice. I am just sorry that you can not see what your doing directly negates the reason for being married. I guess you havew short term memoey and dont remember taking vows. I am also sorry to hear that you could frankly give a shit less about hurting your husband, filling a void is such a bullshit excuse. If there is a void thats what the art of communication is for, tell your husband and maybe you could help solve the problem. But I guess its just so much easier to take the easy way out and just fuck your neighbor.

    I guess your just part of the if it feels good do it generation.

    I am sorry that people like you cant see how you hurt people through your actions. How would you feel if you were being honest and you found out that your husband was the was fucking the neighbor. Just something to think about.

    And as far as this sight, yes it is to share ones thoughts and feelings, which is exactly what I am doing. I am sorry if you cant handle the fact that someone just might not agree with you and voice a different opinion.

    What do you expect when you put your dirty laundry out for evryone and anyone to see.

    Dont put up a billboard unless you want people to read it.

    In short I have just as much right to say what I want to say as you do.
    Its freedom of speech dont you know.

  • A Special Christnas Gift   13 years 21 weeks ago

    Cheating ended my marriage and I always viewed the woman that he slept with as being a home wrecker. True it takes 2 to tango, but she wanted him and now she has him. They have been living together for over 5 years now. I nearly killed myself as the result. I felt like I had lost the air that I was breathing. I lost over 25lbs. in a month. I held on finally, for my kids. So, I'm not saying any of this to put anyone down. I haven't always been an angel, but these things that we do can effect a great many people and their lives as a whole. So just be careful, and if your marriage is that empty, maybe it's time for a change.
    P.S. Just a note, I am still single, mostly cause I have been afraid to trust again.
    P.S.S "It's all fun till somebody puts an eye out!" :?

  • Does bad porn ever get you hot?   13 years 21 weeks ago

    :shock: I Love all porn, especially the bad stuff.

  • One After The Other   13 years 21 weeks ago

    I am in a similar situation. For the last couple of months, I have been involved in an on again/off again sexual relationship with my boyfriends best friend. We keep trying to stop, but I think I am in love with him. I can't have both, but I want to do this guy everytime I see him. What am I going to do?

  • MAN ON MAN???   13 years 21 weeks ago

    Yes we are open about our past. but you have a point jealousy can take over. Same with having another girl in our bed. I could never do it. I t would drive me nuts to see him even just look at her.

  • Barbershop romance   13 years 21 weeks ago

    I was so turned on by your confession,can I put it in your butt too.

  • MAN ON MAN???   13 years 21 weeks ago

    Ok, is there any possibility that your boyfriend might be bi-sexual or gay? If not, and he's just looking to experiment with you, than that's fine. But be aware, if you see your boyfriend enjoying his time with this other male, a little bit more than he enjoys your time together, you might not be able to recover. Women have a hard time sometimes seeing their man in a much more submissive role than the one a woman might put them in.

    Again, some woman can get over it, but speaking from experience, I was turned off, because I saw the bitch creep right out of this guys ass, and I am all about the manly man. I couldn't allow him to touch me again. We are still cool to this day, and yes, he's openly bi-sexual now, but in the beginning, he just wanted to see...he's definitely seeing now!

    PS Remember to protect yourself always. If this guy has been experimenting with other men without you...you don't want to contract anything. I'm not pointing fingers, but just be careful all the way around.
    And don't think you know everything about your man...does he know everything about you?

  • A Special Christnas Gift   13 years 21 weeks ago

    Hey, lets stop beating up on her...men do it all the time, the difference is they do it with your sister, instead of your neighbor. Fuck it, have fun, but always be aware of who's watching in the neighborhood. Your husband might not want to touch his wife, but a horny female neighbor scoping the ordeal might just be the one to make a move on your hubby, so just stay on your p's & q's.

  • A Special Christnas Gift   13 years 21 weeks ago

    It is called "free will" and it is people like you who want to squash our freedom to do as we please that is ruining this country. This country was built on freedom. That is also what this web site is about, being able to have the freedom to share thoughts and ideas, but when you become opressive then that is just not right. I would gather that you wish we all had to carry around papers so that when we travel we have to stop and show them and have a good reason for what we are doing, but we don't live in a place like that, we have free will to come and go as we please, to do what we want as long as we don't break the law. Everyone has their own morals that they live by, if you don't like mine then that is too bad, you need to get a life and have some fun.

    What has happened between me and my neighbor fills a void in my life. My husband works long hours and my neighbor fills some of those hours. We never do anything when the kids are home and we never will. As for getting pregnant, I can't, and as to him sleeping with other women, he isn't. Now I am sure you are going to say how can I know that, well I do know, it is just a female thing, and since you did not register I am making an assumption that you are a man or an egotistcal woman who feels she has to try and push her beliefs on other peopler wheather they want them or not.

    This site was set up so I as a woamn could express my sexuality and my views on it, if you don't like what I am saying or doing then go someplace else and leave us who enjoy our freedom and our country the fuck alone.

  • Vibrators/Dildos   13 years 21 weeks ago

    you go girl :D

  • Vibrators/Dildos   13 years 21 weeks ago

    cherrybomb wrote:
    I didn't purchase my lollipop or get it as a gift. I got it in a gift bag at some club event. At first, I didn't think that it could get me off. I was used to big vibrating dildos with rabbit ears or some metal balls etc.

    It looked just like a big red lollipop. And when you turned it on it had a sustained vibration but nothing too crazy. One day I was bored at home and decided to masturbate. I got started with my finger but needed more stimulation. Then I remembered the lollipop.

    I ripped open the packaging and turned it on. I placed it over my clit and started moving it around in a circle from my clit down to my lips and back again. I liked it. I flipped over on to my knees, arched my back tight, and went to town. I wasn't disappointed. And as an added bonus I could use it to stimulate my nipples - and my lover wasn't as intimidated as they ususally are with the prospect of my dildo.

    :D

  • MAN ON MAN???   13 years 21 weeks ago

    Sounds good to me............

  • I hate you   13 years 21 weeks ago

    Fujitagirl,

    It sounds like this guy really isn't worth all this energy. I can understand that he hurt you and treated you badly and that you need to vent about it but don't waste your breath or energy hating him. He's not worth it!

    JV

  • Your thoughts....   13 years 21 weeks ago

    Guest,

    I saw your post after I posted...sorry about that :)

    Yes it is more or less where you described. But it isn't usually stimulated by going from side to side, or at least by what I have experienced, its more of a "come hither" kind of gesture. It will make a woman squirt if stimulated properly.

    I would agree with you about guys loving a woman squirting on them. I'm included in that group!

  • Your thoughts....   13 years 21 weeks ago

    Hi Roz,

    Yes, my book will cover how to find and stimulate the g-spot. I go into a discussion on different areas of a woman's body and my intent with that area, specifically, is to de-mystify it and in doing so, help men and women alike learn how to find it and stimulate it.

    pretty kitty,

    The G-spot can be found for example, if the woman is laying on her back. Inserting one or two fingers so that the palm of your hand is facing up, curl your fingers up toward you, as if you were closing your fist with just the two fingers. There is a fairly soft, fleshy spot at the base of the bladder that will become firm when stimulated. It can take some fairly intense stimulation, depending on the woman of course. My experience has been that can withstand some significant stimulation.

    It is, by the way, one of the ways a woman can be stimulated to ejaculate, or more commonly known as squirting. I will be talking in detail about all of this in my book.

    Thanks for the interest. Feel free to contact me if you would like to provide your valuable input via my email address. Its .