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  • Is It True Some Women Just Can't Orgasm?   1 day 12 hours ago

    Well, this is the answer we can get from a maximum number of women when they asked about sex and orgasm. Everyone wants some pleasure from their sexual life, especially among men we have found the percentage of desperation is quite high in comparison to women. This article definitely brings some light to knowledge about why women just can't orgasm. Thanks for this wonderful post.

  • Happy Independent Orgasm Day for All Women Everywhere   2 days 15 hours ago

    My dearest Sensei, Grasshopper would like to offer some thoughts about the notion that ""A woman, once liberated, is far more sexual than any man." with the scribed assumption that being sexual is contingent upon or a function of multiple orgasmic potential. Ergo, multiple orgasmically endowed women are by nature the chief executors of humanity's sexual assets while solitarily orgasmic men are resigned to the proletariat class. Yea, I guess your assertion works if the epitome of sexuality is to be multiorgasmic where women generally greatly outperform men. However, it seems to me that sexuality is much more than its coveted orgasmic crescendo. For me, sexuality is a path chosen by all those who yearn to discover the deepest, most intimate parts of their being, the materia prima of their souls, the essence of their spirits, the foundations of their divinity. Sexuality is a lifelong search for our inner Eros or Aphrodite who gift us with the power of love and the ability to liberate ourselves from ignorance and the traps of the ego. How about we try- 'being sexual is being liberated, being liberated is a sine qua non for becoming sexual' - for men and women, no limits, no distinctions.

  • Hysterectomy Broke My Orgasm   2 days 22 hours ago

    I had a total hysterectomy/oophorectomy, including taking the cervix. This was a prophylactic measure, as my mother had ovarian cancer, a sister had breast cancer before age 30, and we are of Ashkenazic Jewish background.

    I tried masturbating about four weeks post-op and had an absolutely mind-bending orgasm.  Direct clitoral stimulation has been more annoying than stimulating to me; I resond to pressure and attention paid to my mons and my lower abdomen. These mind-benders happened about a decade and a half ago. Now I have "nice", i.e. tamer,  orgasms, about one or two a week. Too often gives dimishing returns—absence makes the heart grow fonder? I think for me, there needs to be a period of rebound, and this may explain the mind-benders, that my anatomy being altered made for a new neuromuscular experience.

    Or sexuality is an amzing thing.  A vulva is the perfect meeting place of bone, muscle, cartilage, nerves, and headspace. We are exquisite!

  • Can Only Orgasm With My Legs Crossed Rocking Back & Forth   3 days 10 hours ago

    I actually thought I was weird for doing this... I can have three and four in a row if I really go for it... I've only had one orgasm from sex. I've been doing this since I was five or six years old, is that normal??

  • My Girlfriend's Vagina is Too Big For My Penis   3 days 12 hours ago

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  • Can Multiple Orgasms Give You Migraines?   5 days 23 hours ago

    If she experienced a sudden head pain, it could be blood pressure related. A sudden spike in blood pressure due to arousal may have been high enough to trigger an intense headache.

  • selfellatio - can you suck your own dick?   1 week 7 hours ago

    6_5by6, Thanks for the honesty to yourself and to others about this. I think few men are willing to talk about masturbation let along self sucking or auto-fellatio as it's called. I'd love to know more

    I have always been curious, and a little excited actually, about the idea of a man with a cock he can reach and suck with his own mouth. I have wondered how he would cope as I'm sure he would grow to need that pleasure often. I have read this is so but never get to talk with a guy who can do it.

    I can hardly imagine the unique, extreme  pleasure one would achieve from sucking one's self because we, after all, know ourselves best. So having to indulge in it several hours a day is understandable and I respect that. I can imagine your ejaculation has grown very strong and frequent from years of it. It quickly becomes a strong, recurring need according to what I read. Many can become sore from so much sucking and depend on lotions to sustain it as often as they need 

    This is certainly something that is uniquely make women just don't have the external anatomy that protrudes far enough we could ever hope to reach with our own lips.

    The feedback on technique would probably help you become much better at giving oral as well.

    Have you tried giving oral to find out how good you are and have you ever demonstrated to your girlfriend?

    If you want to tell me more my address is same account name on Yahoo.

    Marti

  • selfellatio - can you suck your own dick?   1 week 7 hours ago

    6_5by6, Thanks for the honesty to yourself and to others about this. I think few men are willing to talk about masturbation let along self sucking or auto-fellatio as it's called. I'd love to know more

    I have always been curious, and a little excited actually, about the idea of a man with a cock he can reach and suck with his own mouth. I have wondered how he would cope as I'm sure he would grow to need that pleasure often. I have read this is so but never get to talk with a guy who can do it.

    I can hardly imagine the unique, extreme  pleasure one would achieve from sucking one's self because we, after all, know ourselves best. So having to indulge in it several hours a day is understandable and I respect that. I can imagine your ejaculation has grown very strong and frequent from years of it. It quickly becomes a strong, recurring need according to what I read. Many can become sore from so much sucking and depend on lotions to sustain it as often as they need 

    This is certainly something that is uniquely make women just don't have the external anatomy that protrudes far enough we could ever hope to reach with our own lips.

    The feedback on technique would probably help you become much better at giving oral as well.

    Have you tried giving oral to find out how good you are and have you ever demonstrated to your girlfriend?

    If you want to tell me more my address is same account name on Yahoo.

    Marti

  • Can You Break Your Clitoris?   1 week 2 days ago

    Hello! When I was a kid, we had some metal pole and used it for limbo. Unfortunately I jumped over it and they smashed it right up there! Honestly I dont feel anything from the clot and wondering if it got damaged at a young age due to that? Thank you!

  • Am I Less of a Woman Because Penetration is Painful?   1 week 3 days ago

    I too have vaginismus. Or should say "did" as I've recovered from it. You are definitely not any less of a woman. I've been there and had those feelings. I understand. But you can't listen to those negative thoughts. You're still a desireable woman. And you can get better. Buy some vaginal dilators. Most come with a book that teaches you how to use them. If you can't completely improve just with those, talk to your doctor and discuss seeing a physical therapist. And if your pain seems like more than just tightness you might have vulvodynia too. I had both. But that can be treated too. It can get better. I was hopeless too but now I've overcome it. You can too. Don't give up.

  • Happy Independent Orgasm Day for All Women Everywhere   1 week 3 days ago

    You may or may not know how these little gems inspire and motivate us, even those of us following different paths - thank you very much!  I am in a committed long term marriage and enjoying the hell out of my newfound independant orgasms :)  I have read and re-read so much on this site and can tell you that, with so much male-centric sex cr@p on the internet, this has been a refuge and an asset.  Knowledge is power and you and Carlin are making all of us more powerful - and you do it with such joy that it is contagious.  THANK YOU!!

  • Need Oral Sex Tips for Curved Penis   1 week 3 days ago

    Well, it is very much essential to have a good sexual body structure even include the sex parts or private parts. So that, we can easily enjoy the oral sex. Apart from physical sex, in most of the occasion, people also start enjoying oral and verbal sex. The exchange sexual conversation and orally perform will give better satisfaction to them. But in the case of curve penis and other types of issues, we may disappoint with the sexual involvement. Here from this article, we can collect some valuable tips on oral sex. Thanks for such a wonderful article with useful information that helps to improve our performance in bed.

  • Why Do Men & Women Have Affairs?   1 week 3 days ago

    Jimmy,

    You ask what I would do, and I'm wondering why? If everything in the garden is wonderful, why write asking for an opinion? 

    Let's be clear, your situation would not work for me personally, not if I was you, your wife or your sexual partner. It wouldn't work if I was you because the dishonesty towards someone I love would make me feel dirty. It wouldn't work from your wife's perspective because of the fundamental lack of trust you're showing in her and the relationship. From your partner's perspective, it wouldn't work for me because of the lack of direction and consequently the lack of emotional intimacy.

    And none of this matters obviously, because I'm not the one in this triangle.  We all make and live with our own choices and if you were all happy with it, then it's no one else's business, least of all mine.

    But if people are genuinely comfortable with what they're doing, they don't even pause to consider other people's opinion or to canvass support for choices they know to be right for them, so what is making you doubt your own choices now? Are you okay with where you find yourself or are you looking for a reason to change things?

    You say that you love your wife, but that your behaviour in a relationship with another woman would destroy her. You write that you have a sexual relationship with another woman but it doesn't seem to involve regular partnersex. You provide support and care for you wife. You get on well with your non-sexual sex partner. You seem to be great at friendship and supportive relationships with women with not so much sex.

    I'm not in your position: Why are you?

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  • Why Do Men & Women Have Affairs?   1 week 6 days ago

    Hiya NorthLondonHousewife

    You may recognise my situation from a different alias a couple of years ago :)

    I've been happily married for 40 years next month. My wife is staunchly old fashioned and conventional in her attitudes. She has her roles and I have mine. No feminism there! She depends on me for more and more carre, which I happily supply. We love each other deeply.

    However, my wife has been stricken with arthritis pain for many years, and has had neither interest in, nor ability to partake in, sexual activity for well over ten years.

    On the other hand, I am horny. Sure I have my achey limbs and sometimes things don't work, but I NEED a sex life. I ADORE pleasing women.

    I have a "girlfriend", a lovely lady some 12 years younger than me. My relationship with her (she was my subordinate in our place of employment) led to my dismissal. Never mind that she was suicidal at the time and has blossomed into a happy, wonderful lady. Unfortunately circumstances have resulted in no partnersex for some months. We still get on very well - just no opportunity.

    So, conventional wisdom says that I have to be honest with my wife? Well, that very honesty would destroy my wife, and a 40 year marriage. What's the point? We remain a totally committed partnership, we love each other.

    I'm totally comfortable with what I do, but I'd love to hear some comments. In my positiion, what would YOU do?

    JJ

  • Almost 50 & Preorgasmic   1 week 6 days ago

    I'm 65, and I recently had the enormous pleasure of helping a friend (she's 67) discover her inner sexual self, by telephone. I've never met the lady - we just met online and somehow clicked.

    To be fair she had experienced a single orgasm, decades ago. Having now discovered herself, she was able to release the orgasmic beast within. She said "what have you done to me, I can't leave my pussy alone"! How wonderful is that?

    So, good luck and remember it's never too late!

    JJ

  • Happy Independent Orgasm Day for All Women Everywhere   2 weeks 9 hours ago

    Loved your look back Betty. You have truely CUM a long way baby! I totally agree that a woman just simply is not independent unless she can cross that threshold of taking her orgasm into her own hands and nurturing it to ever new heights. Only when we cross it do we realize we have always needed that so much and wonder how we ever got by withouth strong plentiful orgasms before.  As you said, "A woman, once liberated, is far more sexual than any man" and we should embrace and rejoice that!
    I truely believe that, these days, the conventional wisdom that men, on average, masturbate more than women is no longer true.  In large part thanks to your inspiration.  I doubt the average man could spend hours a day stroking his erection and riding waves of orgasm up and down, climaxing occassionally all the while the way I do. My boyfriends have only ever been able to masturbate in short sessions 2 or 3 times a day, if they're lucky, but lose their urge entirely in between each ejaculation.  A woman's urge can persist and grow and provide her with a lifestyle we all should embrace and enjoy.  It's no wonder our orgasmic lifestyle has become so popular and accepted.  I ca't wait to see what the next decade brings.
    Marti

  • Almost 50 & Preorgasmic   2 weeks 1 day ago

    So Betty you just give bull shit answers! You never answered the woman who can't orgasm and when you do answer it's the same old answer that doesn't work. Some women don't orgasm and they don't  have any mental or physical problems and nothing works, but you don't accept that.
    Magic wands don't work lleither.

  • What's the Best Sex Position to Avoid Deep Penetration (Intercourse is Painful Because of Retroverted Uterus)?   2 weeks 1 day ago

    Sex is very important but, knowing sex is more important. We should aware of the issues and problems that arise due to sex. Basically, to get better sexual pleasure we need to take some essential lessons from different sources and follow expert advice. People are asking questions about the best sex move and position, so that, they can easily boost their sexual life. So sex position is matters a lot and we should follow the safe position for better satisfaction.

  • Why are American Women Biased Against Intact Penises?   2 weeks 1 day ago

    That "excising" the frenulum was considered good! Not sure through chance or skill on the part of my surgeon, I still have that hyper-sensitive bit of flesh left :)

    Madness!

  • Why are American Women Biased Against Intact Penises?   2 weeks 1 day ago

    Having been circumcised at around 21 years old, I have always had the belief "why would an intact adult opt for circumcision, absent medical reasons?" 

    I was stunned to learn of the existence of a whole group of men choosing to do just that! And the more I read, the more apparent it became that it was mostly driven by women, to get their partners to "last longer". I won't say that proves my point that the circumcised glans is less sensitive, but it does add to my opinion.

    From an evolutionary viewpoint, "lasting longer" is not good, so maybe extra sensitivity in the uncut penis is part of that. 

    This is where I started my research. https://adult-circ.tumblr.com/

  • Why are American Women Biased Against Intact Penises?   2 weeks 1 day ago

    "This conversation... is often driven by women!"
    That is not my experience. Moreover, women are entitled to an opinion about the sexual
    merits of cut and uncut, because they are END USERS of the penis.

    "I had children whowere circumcised and they slept through it and experienced no pain or
    distress afterwards."
    Were you an eyewitness to their circumcisions? Was anesthesia used? If yes, keep in mind that the typical RIC in the USA still does not employ anesthesia.
    "More kids are traumatized by their first vaccinations or the first days of school."
    There is no way of comparing one unpleasant experience with another.
    "As far as nerve endings being affected, I don't suffer from any lack of sensitivity."
    A man circumcised in infancy has no way of knowing what he might be missing.
    "My penis is very sensitive and easily aroused. The sensations are awesome..."
    You have never been a sexually active adult male with a foreskin.
    "...I have had this conversation with guys who are in the same boat."
    Were they all circumcised in infancy?
    "...most of the people I had sex with love the look of a cut penis."
    Because that's what their brothers and previous lovers had. Also, women are well practiced in the art of telling their lovers what they want to hear. To say that one loves cut while admitting that one has never been intimate with an uncut dude, is to make a moot point.
    "...there is no reliable validated source..."
    Of anything in this realm, because of a dire lack of academic research on how sex interacts with anatomy.
    "...that can say uncut is more sensitive than cut since a guy is one or the other."
    This sword cuts both ways.
    "...it is up to the parents to decide..."
    Not the parents, but the person connected to the penis in question.
    "...just like all the other decisions they must make to keep that child safe."
    What is the connection between circumcision and a child's safety?

  • Happy Independent Orgasm Day for All Women Everywhere   2 weeks 2 days ago

    You are the best Dr. Betty, a light in the darkness and a savior of women and healthy sexuality!

  • Why are American Women Biased Against Intact Penises?   2 weeks 2 days ago

    There IS a difference between sensations of cut vs uncut. Ask anyone who was circumcised as an adult, like I was. The difference is MASSIVE!

  • My Girlfriend's Vagina is Too Big For My Penis   2 weeks 3 days ago

    My partner and i discovered early on in our relationship that we werent a good fit, she had previously had some partners that were on the larger, thicker side, mine is average length but on the thinner side of things.

    We have discussed options and now focus on other forms of stumulation and ivnite other men, with larger penis into our sex life to fill the void so to speak.