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My Pussy is Bored & Lonely

Fri, 10/15/2010 - 09:40
Submitted by VirginMonoblogger

I'm a creature of habit. Seriously. I hate change and I'm satisfied with the same routine every single day. I've been this way since I was a little kid. I would make little routines for myself that I would always stick to. It makes me feel comfortable.

That being said... My pussy isn't very keen on routines. It's bored.... And unhappy. I don't know what I need to do in order to spice things up between us.

I got a glass dildo from the same awesome friend who sent me the rabbit. That, coupled with my Water Dancer, is absolutely fantastic most of the time, but not so much in recent days. After an orgasm, I always either feel satisfied or just ready to plunge in for another one. Lately, it's been very... "Meh". I mean, an orgasm is an orgasm and it's pleasurable enough, but I miss those mind-blowing, back-arching ones that left me doused in sweat and panting.

It's so funny, because at this point in my cycle, I'm sopping wet. It's fucking pussy juice galore in between my thighs right now. Normally, I take this chance to have as many orgasms as my fingers will allow. I spend hours circling my clit to reach an unattainable state of constant orgasmic ecstasy. I only wear underwear just so I can sniff them and revel in that delicious, sweet, and feminine scent that can't be duplicated in any other way. My love for my pussy is always passionately renewed mid-cycle.

I feel so apathetic towards my pussy right now, and it really makes me sad. I doubt I'll be able to experience this forever. I want to make excellent use of such sexual succulence while I can. My sexual balance has such an impact on how I feel and handle life in general. Stress from school is playing a large part in how I feel, but that normally just sends me into masturbation overdrive.

What can I do to reignite the spark between us? Do I take it out to dinner? Meditate? Go on another masturbatory hiatus and hope things pick up on their own? Force it and masturbate like I normally would? Maybe I need to be committed.

Okay, well, the latter is true, but not because of masturbation.

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How About a Mirror?

ChrisOnline's picture
Fri, 10/15/2010 - 12:37
ChrisOnline

I just read Betty's post about mirror play, via Eric Francis, and though that maybe, if you haven't already played while waching in a miror yet, that might mix it up for a bit. Creative minds need change to be simulated. I think the best stuff happens when something new, physical or mental, is introduced. Love yourself while watching in a mirror and think about how Mr. Francis uses the experience.

"Sometimes I see beauty, though getting there is a seduction. I can see my beauty in glimpses, as if from certain angles, and only if I am in a space of love. Seeing my beauty is more of an admission than an acknowledgment." - Eric Francis

sometimes a break is what I need

Fri, 10/15/2010 - 13:09
blueberryjuice

when I was single, I'd sometimes go a month or two at a time without having an orgasm. When I restarted, each time it was fun and exciting again. This might not work for everybody, but it worked for me. I needed a break sometimes to gain a fresh perspective, pick up some new inspiration for fantasy, etc. With a partner, it's harder, but sometimes I like to focus more on just him, and others more on myself.

Relax

WildOrchid's picture
Fri, 10/15/2010 - 13:16
WildOrchid

It will go away just as it arrived. Try to relax. If it feels good masturbate or watch your fave creampies. If you don't want  - don't force yourself. It comes in waves. Now you are at the low. Wait it out. As for the glass dildos  - my mum was a bit shocked when she saw how big mine was. Even when I explained that half of it is just a handle. I feel so afraid that I will drop it and it will chip. Today I dropped and broke a full, unopened bottle of a apple and gooseberry juice that I was dying to try.

Yup, Me Too

LilithLand's picture
Fri, 10/15/2010 - 15:34
LilithLand

I know the feeling. I'm a lot older than you. So, I'm in that weird in between state called perimenopause. Some days I feel like a nun, and some days I'm a nympho. My pussy is quite bored today. I'm not sure what to tell you. Sometimes, if you just make the effort anyway - desire kicks in. At least, that's what I do.

sex

Thu, 10/28/2010 - 14:21
MBM (not verified)

I am 70 years old and love sex.  My husband is 64 and can never keep a hard on.  Hasnt been able to for 20 years!!!  I have to rely on dildos just to feel good!!!

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