Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
His hand brushed my breast and I almost came. We had been building to this for two month and now we were alone in the motel room. We had talked extensively about this moment. He has arthritis and a number of other illnesses, which entails many medications that can cause problems with keeping an erection. As we began to undress, I felt his body below my fingers. It had been more than two years. I reached out and pulled him close, quickly discovering kissing his neck was a turn on.
His hands slid down my back and I arched into him: he really was a good nine inches long. God I wanted him. As we eased over to the bed things faltered for a moment but we quickly got it back. I had read about this so it didn’t freak me out. He got me to come first which was critical because he could enjoy and cum at his pace and, secondly, because he was so large I needed to be prepared to take him all in. I’m sure as I climaxed I alerted the whole motel. He was quieter but still his climax was something I felt in every part of my body.
Over the next week, we both quickly learned hardness had nothing to do with desire. With disabilities and even age (we are 49 and 52) the penis doesn’t always respond the way we want it to. We learned to back up, start over and take our time.
We also learned that a hot bath or shower before helped and that me being on top was our “no fail” position. He would lie on his back with a pillow under his knees to help with cramps in his legs and with knee pain (a flatter pillow works best) and I would then move my breasts into his mouth which is a total turn on for both of us. Before we slipped on the condom, I would ease down and take his cock in my mouth to make sure he was completely hard. After the condom was on I slid down on top of that huge, wonderful cock and between us we worked out a rhythm that allowed us both to cum.
This requires a lot of communication though. When he became tired, I would take over the movement to let him rest and if we lose the erection we just stop with him inside me and do a bit more foreplay. If I leaned down and ran my tongue along his neck and into the collar bone area it almost always did the trick. At the same time, he traced my lower spine with his fingertips which can almost always bring me to climax. This position also gave him access to my clit which gets me off instantly. And when he does come it is, by far, the most powerful climax I have ever felt in a man.
But he doesn’t always cum and we are alright with that. We focus on the sensations of having sex and we have had him climax without coming. It’s about slowing down, working with the disabilities rather than against them and enjoying each other at every turn. Sex and disabilities can be a huge challenge but it has to lead to creative solutions and I have never cum so much with any other man.
bravo
This is a truly unexplored and vital part of the sexual, educational, community.
thank you for that erotic, accepting post. This is only a little baby piece of what some have experienced for a long time, and some of us --not yet , but no doubt soon,
I so admire your talking about this.
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