Shaking a Fist at Censorship

Sun, 10/09/2011 - 13:41
Submitted by Helen Betty

Courtney Trouble and Jizz Lee the laureates of queer porn have started International Fisting Day. It is going to be celebrated on 21st October 2011 in protest of unjust US DVD censorship laws that will allow pornography depicting two cocks in one vagina but have deemed a fist in a vagina as too obscene for DVD release. WTF? This is clearly a prejudicial against queer sex as this is one of the primary sex acts for queer folks with cunts. 

It saddens me that I could go to the states and film with two unknown men fucking my cunt whilst another my mouth no questions asked but if I wanted to film the intimate loving sex I actually have with my wife it would be considered too obscene for other adults to see on DVD. Why the fuck is my hand more obscene that two cocks other than the fact that fisting is the only sexual act where a person can fill woman's vagina with a part of a body that is not a penis and without any additonal aparatus required? Is it because the age old homophobic question "what do lesbian's mean when they say fuck?" would too definitively and obviously be answered? 

My partner and I humerously refer to fisting as a punch in the cunt but don't be mislead, it isn't innately an agressive act...unless you want it that way, the same with any sexual act. This idea that fisting is obscene and deserving of censorship perpetuates the misconception that fisting is a violent/aggresive sex act when in fact more often than not it is by necessity a slow and incredibly intimate sexual interaction and requires communication, trust and consideration between partners. Anal sex often gets the same misconception of being an aggressive act, but it is not more aggresive than vaginal penetration...in fact often it is slower and more intimate because the passasge is narrower. The sex act is as intimate or aggressive as the people performing it and what they have agreed. If your curious but have never tried it check out this How To for Vaginal Fisting or if you like to learn visually then just the thing for you is coming up on Dodson and Ross soon. 

Yes I thoroughly adore the serendipity that Carlin wanted to try her first time fisting when we did a shoot together at her place in NYC and we're ready to release it in the newly declared International Fisting Month. Huzzah! I can't wait for you all to see what we made. I'm pretty fucking proud of us. It's insanely hot (not least because Carlin's spanking sexy arse is wagging in the camera for at least half of it) plus the setting sunlight brushes beautiful highlights over our naked skin AND it dispells a lot of myths and misconceptions about fisting. Fisting...*sigh* I love it. And now I shall regale you all with the theme song of our protest. 

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Jiz Lee - One 'z'

Sun, 10/09/2011 - 15:23
Allison (not verified)

FYI - Jiz spells their name with one 'z'.

Thanks! And great post!

LOVE!

Sun, 10/09/2011 - 17:30
Emily (not verified)

Nice post Liandra! Do you know when the video will be out? I can't wait to see it! "Kissing Carlin" was beautiful. 

Yeah I always use to think

Sun, 10/09/2011 - 19:09

Yeah great song isn't it :) I always use to think fisting was an agressive act that women wouldn't possibly enjoy. But then when I was 14  I thought women would find my fantsies about kissing a vulva disgusting. How terribly misinformed we have been about the mosst important part of our lives (without sex and hotness our parents would simply be really good friends and we wouldn't exist) and in many way's the more I find out, the more my mind is boggled by how misinformed we still are.

Right now it doesn't sound appealing to me

Sun, 10/09/2011 - 20:46

I read the primer on fisting and thought, "Ouch, sounds like too much!" Of course right now, I'm not all turned on, so maybe this activity might be added to Heylin's fantasy file, maybe not. It's not something I would ask my husband to do because, well, I'm not that interested and he would mess it up big time on the remote chance he agreed. Being a heterosexual male, he would probably suggest that he has something better to fill my vagina with.  But one thing I know is that when it comes to sex, if it's consensual and agreed on, have at it. I can't see why fisting would be censored when a woman could be filled up with multiple dicks. A lot of porn is pretty demeaning to women, the sex with your partner obviously sounds a lot more loving than some woman gagging on a dick that was recently in her anus while being choked and called a whore.
However I would like to watch this activity because I think it would be interesting to see but I wouldn't want to see it in a violent manner.

I think all that demeaning to

Sun, 10/09/2011 - 20:58

I think all that demeaning to women porn that proports to be what generic porn is, should be classified as male domination fetish and part of BDSM. Because that's what it is. It's also as repetatively unimaginative as much BDSM with it's clothes pegs and ball gags :) If male domination fetish was clasified properly it would represent a fantasy not a tuition on how everyone should have sex and there'd be the occassional link to female domination fetish with a woman coming on a mans face. If people are searching porn and just getting Male domination fetish, they're not be served well at all and I find this when people post on the forums of porn sites like IFM where they say things like I've been searching for 3 years (3 fucking years!! :) for a site like this. Anyway yeah, just my 25 cents on that little point :)

completely agree with you on

Sun, 10/09/2011 - 23:49
denariel (not verified)

completely agree with you on how wrong that censorship is....  and I can't WAIT to see the video you're talking about - you and Carlin - fisting! OMG how hot.  The first video of you two kissing was just so sexy, I enjoyed it so much.  The energy between you and the genuine enjoyment of each other - made me miss my days of kissing girls.  

Not for censorship

Mon, 10/10/2011 - 19:52

but I have seen a lot of porn that I feel is demeaning and I would not buy. Actually real BDSM stuff is less offensive to me than a lot of mainstream stuff. I feel like I am exercising my right as a consumer to mention that certain things are offensive to me and I will not support or consume them. Fisting is simply an activity that I personally have no interest in participating in, however as a woman, I reserve the right to change my mind. Gotta admit, that song was funny.

Oh I agree with you that it's

Tue, 10/11/2011 - 06:47

Oh I agree with you that it's offensive. Misrepresenting someones sexuality is kind of similar to all those racist hollywood movies that have demeaned people of colour by misrepresenting them and don't get me started on lost in translation!!! That's a current problem. I don't really have any ideas about what it would take to seperate male domination fantasy from the public notion that it's what all porn is, because that seems to be the notion in the heads of 90% of porn producers too. Would be lovely to type porn in google and get a miriad of sites that explore the real amazingness of sex and orgasms, just like you do when you type in nature and get all those wonderful sites that inspire with beautiful photography. After all it's really the same subject!! :) 

Thanks Liandra,

Tue, 10/11/2011 - 21:10

I found myself singing the song at work. Hope none of my coworkers overheard and thought I wanted one of them to be my sock puppet. I have to admit that I would love to see the video of you and Carlin to satisfy my curiosity.

Fist bump!

Fri, 10/21/2011 - 15:58
Jiz Lee (not verified)

I'm so grateful for the multitude of bloggers posting today about fisting. 
Thank you for this post, Liandra! 
Xx
Jiz

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