Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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As a sex coach, I have started to see clients in my home office and the phrase "Have you given yourself permission to be sexual" crosses my lips daily. I should really heed my own advice as I have taken that permission away from myself in the past months. When I was ready to become a sexual being again postpartum, I was intent on not losing myself in baby and ignoring my sexual relationship with my husband.

I found myself getting my intimacy and sensuality needs met by my baby and had to make a conscious decision to not abandon the intimacy in my relationship. It is hard work and I am exhausted all the time but i know my investment now will pay off later.

We have been on a nice roll for months 4 and 5. We have switch things up a bit and leave the babes in our bed, go downstairs and have sex. Being creative and thinking outside the box keeps things spicy for us.

I am also enjoying the end of a long day fuck in the sideways position. I attended a great workshop on oral sex skills and g-spot orgasms with a live model where I got to observe a pre-peri-post g-spot through a plexiglass viewer. Being of the voyeur variety myself, this made for some great fantasy material!

Vagianal penetration is still occasionally uncomfortable due to breastfeeding but until my estrogen returns on a more permanent basis, I am using lots of lubricants, especially oils. I love the feeling against my skin and they never seem to dry out. Sex-after-baby sex is different, but it is there to help us rebuild our intimacy and reaffirm our intimate connection!