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Pictured below are a stick of lip balm (for scale) a tube of Aloelife water-based lubricant, which is my current water-based lube of choice. Beside it is a mini spray bottle from a store called Muji. Below is our first time trying the Muji sprayer and other first times last weekend morning.

We woke up together and had sex three different ways. First with some sex massage for Kira, then I stood at the edge of the bed and gave her a sexy pounding on her knees from behind, then came inside her while she was on her back with her knees pulled back to her round breasts, which I had in both hands and oiled up good and proper for caressing and squeezing while I drove cock in and out down below. Her pretty face had that look on it when she's particularly taken with sex happening to her. When her face is in view that is. That lips-parted, doe-eyed, heavy breathing stare while she looked into my eyes and at my body, which she likes in towering over her in that position. Kira had her favorite vibrator, the Mystic Wand, on her clitoris in all three sexdishes.

I wish there was words for the feeling a guy has when he's simultaneously owning her sex and her hot breasts at the same time. Two of the major bodily desire focal points blended together. The mental erotic of each is distinct for me and when combined feels even more incredible. Kira loves the female desire end of that where her man is in complete control of her pussy and boobs and doing it well. It has a subtle dominance, enhanced by how I look at her and my hot talk, mixed into the recipe that makes her feel fully feminine. I heartily suggest this position as it gives easy access to her breasts the whole time all the way to my orgasm- and hers.

A few helpful tips that made our morning sex easier and better. The little spray bottle from Muji is unique becaue with each squeeze on the sprayer, it squirts out only what would amount to two droplets of water all in a single big drop- not a cone-shaped spray that gets all over everything. I've advocated using sprayers like this for a while for rewetting water-based lubes like the Aloelife Personal Gel, because it saves on your lube usage dramatically. However, regular sprayers can put out too much water or spray it all over everything which is jarring and may thin out the lube present on my cock too much. The muji sprayer is perfect. Tiny too!

The other tip involves using a female condom to make sex with an IUD present better. Anyone who has had sex with a woman using an IUD will tell you how the string coming out of her cervix will push painfully against the urethral opening of the penis when you do fast and hard fucking. I didn't want to use a regular condom, so we tried the female condom. It was Kira's first time with one and she was also curious. I left the ring in the end inside and it encircled her cervix. I could slam into her as fast and hard as I and she wanted and the condom protected my sensitive cocklips from the IUD string. She also liked how it felt! The female condom takes away too much sensation for me, but this is a great combination for when you don't want to orgasm and the woman wants lots and lots of fucking. Further, the female condom doesnt move once it's inside the vagina or rectum, so there's no vaginal chaffing possible like you can experience with a standard condom after vigorous forms of thrusting. Go to your local STD clinics to pick them up for free. Female condoms arealmost three dollars each in stores.

-Fin

For those new to my blog, I write on my and others' sex life, in erotica form, because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible in sexual pleasure. It so often lights a desire to "Want to do that. Feel that." They want to learn how to have better sex through developing their sexual sophistication maybe for the first time in their lives. I also intend to present to my readers the reality of great sex from basic to advanced to inspire them as it will. Finally, ever wonder how good the sex that your sex therapist is having in their own sex life? I have. I'm not a sex educator, nor a sex therapist. I don't do sex therapy. I'm a sex life coach. I guide, I teach, and I do.
   

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