The Female Happy Ending to a Massage

Fri, 01/14/2011 - 14:53
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

We all know how massage parlors with "happy endings" have been available for men for the usual reasons for quite a while. It came up in conversation recently about whether women have done that, assuming the opportunity was there, and where.

Here is a story on a woman who went out on a quest in New York City to see which spa she could get her orgasm from and leave with that glow that men traditionally value in their lives.

I liked how the happy ending questing woman made quite clear her interests to the masseurs. A woman asking confidently for her orgasm now, please. That's inspiring. What was funny to me was the fact that she named each spa she visited in the story; regardless of the fact that sexual contact in exchange for compensation is prostitution in NYC. Naming the locations certainly would make a vice cop's job easier and eliminate the source. Oh well, I guess she didn't intend to write the article as a working how-to or rather, where-to.

I've heard of more instances of woman-on-woman happy endings after massages are complete than man-on-woman, as is depicted in the article. There's more trust between girls that it's just for now. Men, as constantly annoys me, have far less of a good track record for coolness, tact, and not becoming stalkers or wanting more than to use their hands.

To reply to some of the comments made that a relationship between a masseur/eusse and their client is like a doctor-patient one. That's true for therapudic and physical therapy massage. There's no way I'm going to get turned on from rolfing. (Although I imagine there are those that do.) A spa massage professional is different. Firstly, the setting is intended for pampering and relaxing forms of pleasure. There are massages that relieve tension, and ones that feel really good in a sensual way. Spa massages play in both pools in regards to the way they feel to the body.

Secondly, how many adults are touch-starved out there? Millions. Even when intimate partners are available. How often do people give massage back and forth in their relationships in addition to the hot sex? The more touch you have access to, the less starved you are for it. Doesn't mean you won't fantasize while you're on the table or go for it anyway, but when you have a source or sources for that in your life, you're less likely to consider going there. I say that for all the guys out there whose heckles are raising at the thought of their honeys having the opportunity to come hard with someone else just like men have for quite a while. My blog on my methods of what I call "sex massage", where the sex is part of the massage, not just what happens after the get-her-in-the-mood body rubbing part, is worth mentioning again in this context. It combines personal touch with an affectionate form of vaginal pumping that can escalate or not.

Don't neglect personal touch or take it for granted in your partners. Two of the biggest reasons for infidelity in my view is neglect and lack of needs being met on either side. It can be the same thing as what you do when you have sex and sometimes not. Sometimes carnal sex is more about groaning desire, satisfying sex hungers, and having big orgasms than it is about a different intention in touch. Massage from a spa closely imitates that form of sex that's so important in our sex lives and naturally triggers it in you while on the table. Not every massage is created equal.

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Female happy ending to a massage.

Fri, 01/14/2011 - 23:23
Thom Elliott (not verified)

My wife and I hosted two or three of Betty Dodson's female only seminars. I, of course, could not be present. I did have the honor in preparing the space for the seminar and returning our home to its original state.
Betty is great and her seminar broke down some of the items that were getting in the way of our already successfull marrage. We are now going on 37 years together.
I have just recovered from throat cancer and am getting my life back in order. So right now it is like dateing for the very first time. We are both rediscovering each other for this "Act Three" of my life. My wife had the difficult time of being my caregiver during this difficult time.
I love her dearly.
She is the best.
This concept of "Female happy ending to massage's" is a welcome idea/concept. It is about time. I am going to see what I can do.
Thanks for letting us know about it.
Yours truly,
Thom

Wonderful story, Thom!

Mon, 01/17/2011 - 14:53

So amazing that you're falling back in desire again after she cared for you and that my sex massage is part of that! Neat that you hosted some of Betty's Bodysex workshops. When was that?

Happy Ending Massage for Women. Why not?

Tue, 12/20/2011 - 01:32
Emily Nemeth (not verified)

Spa culture around the world is dominated by women and until recently, the female version of happy endings has remained a taboo subject that few women would ever admit to. However, women are finally getting comfortable with the idea that it's OK to feel erotic in what's already an really erotic setting. "Her Private Pleasures" in new york is one such place to indulge - candlelight, soft music, nice hands rubbing your body. The bottom line is that while we like massages, we really like orgasms, so why shouldn't the two sometimes come together?

I really REALLY want a sensual massage WITH a happy ending!

Tue, 01/10/2012 - 18:21
SatisfactionNeededforFemale (not verified)

..and I want it from a massage parlor in New York City.  I've searched high and low and have come up with a freaky website: www. HerPrivatePleasures.com that after reading through it in its entirety, made me feel very uncomfortable.  Although I wouldn't mind being sensually massaged by a man, I think, maybe for the first few times, I want to "receive"my happy "O" by a woman.  But..where can I go?  I also saw something about the Russian & Turkish Baths in the East Village, but again, not sure I want a big, hulky guy (described in article I read) scaring me to orgasm.
Can someone, anyone, help me?
I am in severe need of several happy ending sessions...as a stressed out college student, tired mother and wife, I just need somewhere safe to lay down and let loose..
Thanks!!
K

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