We all know how massage parlors with "happy endings" have been available for men for the usual reasons for quite a while. It came up in conversation recently about whether women have done that, assuming the opportunity was there, and where.
Here is a story on a woman who went out on a quest in New York City to see which spa she could get her orgasm from and leave with that glow that men traditionally value in their lives.
I liked how the happy ending questing woman made quite clear her interests to the masseurs. A woman asking confidently for her orgasm now, please. That's inspiring. What was funny to me was the fact that she named each spa she visited in the story; regardless of the fact that sexual contact in exchange for compensation is prostitution in NYC. Naming the locations certainly would make a vice cop's job easier and eliminate the source. Oh well, I guess she didn't intend to write the article as a working how-to or rather, where-to.
I've heard of more instances of woman-on-woman happy endings after massages are complete than man-on-woman, as is depicted in the article. There's more trust between girls that it's just for now. Men, as constantly annoys me, have far less of a good track record for coolness, tact, and not becoming stalkers or wanting more than to use their hands.
To reply to some of the comments made that a relationship between a masseur/eusse and their client is like a doctor-patient one. That's true for therapudic and physical therapy massage. There's no way I'm going to get turned on from rolfing. (Although I imagine there are those that do.) A spa massage professional is different. Firstly, the setting is intended for pampering and relaxing forms of pleasure. There are massages that relieve tension, and ones that feel really good in a sensual way. Spa massages play in both pools in regards to the way they feel to the body.
Secondly, how many adults are touch-starved out there? Millions. Even when intimate partners are available. How often do people give massage back and forth in their relationships in addition to the hot sex? The more touch you have access to, the less starved you are for it. Doesn't mean you won't fantasize while you're on the table or go for it anyway, but when you have a source or sources for that in your life, you're less likely to consider going there. I say that for all the guys out there whose heckles are raising at the thought of their honeys having the opportunity to come hard with someone else just like men have for quite a while. My blog on my methods of what I call "sex massage", where the sex is part of the massage, not just what happens after the get-her-in-the-mood body rubbing part, is worth mentioning again in this context. It combines personal touch with an affectionate form of vaginal pumping that can escalate or not.
Don't neglect personal touch or take it for granted in your partners. Two of the biggest reasons for infidelity in my view is neglect and lack of needs being met on either side. It can be the same thing as what you do when you have sex and sometimes not. Sometimes carnal sex is more about groaning desire, satisfying sex hungers, and having big orgasms than it is about a different intention in touch. Massage from a spa closely imitates that form of sex that's so important in our sex lives and naturally triggers it in you while on the table. Not every massage is created equal.
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