Aroused Breasts, The New Videos, Threesome Ideas, and Condom and Sex Technique Fine Tuning

Here's the link to our new streaming videos page that at the moment, has two brand new Dodson and Ross short erotic sex ed videos. One is called Condom Basics, showing how to put on a condom, tips for better condom use, and some smoldering footage of vaginal sex with clitoral stimulation done by the man. (see also my blog post on my Advanced Condom Tips) The other video highlights the basics of anal sex for women, but can be applied to men as well. When I watched this one especially, it showed me in third person how hot sex skills not only feel, but look.

We also have, in a series of six segments, Betty's popular female masturbation erotic sex ed video, Orgasmic Women. All the clips very affordably priced too. It's learning that's hot.

Discovered a good way to help remedy a consistent problem I have with condoms: how often they slip off after more than ten minutes of consistent intercourse. Also, women with strong PC muscles and/or consistently hard, full, erectile tissue located (as in all women) at the first inch or two inside the vaginal opening will be able to apply more grip to the penis. Incredible for the penis, but makes pulling a condom off even easier, especially if doing any kind of intercourse that's medium paced or faster. Was with my new lover, Bilie, (like Billie Jean) who was pulling condoms down and stretching them out one right after the other due to her PC muscularity and erection strength. I realized that often I, and many of us, begin sex with oral or manual stimulation of the penis. Especially when he's not already hard enough for intercourse. Normally, saliva, water-based, or oil-based lubricant lubricates the shaft during oral and/or manual to bring the cock up to capacity. Next step is the condom goes on. However, now the skin of the penis is slippery from the lube/saliva. After the condom stretches during intercourse that lasts 10 mins or more, it slides off much easier due to her tightness and the obvious back and forth friction. When this occurred to me, I grabbed a kleenex, dried off my hard cock, then put the condom on. Success. One condom stayed on all the way through Billie's first and second orgasm (comboed with a Magic Wand on her clitoris).And yes, you'll all get to read about her in time. ;)

Why you should care about condoms slipping off is obvious. It takes practice to know when it's happened/happening. Sex comes infrequently at best for many men, and they often aren't familiar with how that feels. Or, they're into the pleasure and hot sex and don't think about it. This is serious stuff. Condom breaks have happened maybe three times in my life. Condom slip-down/off, many more times. It's harrowing for the woman to hold still and hope I can grasp with my fingertip the edge of the condom that's up around my cockhead, then withdraw. How many men out there withdraw without securing the condom first and it comes off in the process? Lots of capacity for error. It makes intercourse much less safe for pregnancy and STD prevention.

Aroused breasts. I remember when I saw Desmond Morris' documentary on human sexual function, or it may have been the Miracle of Life video. Not sure which. The narrator said how female arousal has as part of it the swelling of her breasts by up to 25% in volume. For a while I didn't believe it because I never saw it happen myself. I realize now that the narrator never said how long the woman had to be aroused or the level of her arousal, and that breast hardons, so to speak, dont happen quickly. Like most women's erectile tissue ring inside the walls of her vagina, which I refer to above, it takes much more time than a healthy penis needs to become erect.

I was with Olivia one morning and once again, suckled at the areola of her breast nearest me while she played with her hard clit and I moved a dildo inside her wet vagina. After she came and the sex was all over, we both went to the bathroom and I saw that the breast I was on was huge and even rounder than normal, and the other was normal size. I pointed it out and Olivia giggled gleefully at the new discovery of what her breasts could do when properly... motivated. A woman's breasts are a part of her reproductive system. How often have I seen normal sized nipples and areolas until she's coming or about to come and they're big, hard, and wrinkled up with turn on? Never touched them and there they are, big as life. I said to Olivia, it's one of the things I love about threesomes: two heads. What if each areola was getting hot suckling, one person did her clit while the other dildo-pumped her pussy to an orgasm or two? Now you have two fully-full, big, supersexy and sensitive breasts at hand that take some time to return to normal size. All those pleasures are possible now, as one person oils them, grips, holds and caresses them while the other indulges her pussy in more pleasure, changes to g-spot play now that she's come once or twice, or goes to work on her ass while her clitoris calms and returns for more. Another idea, the bigger aroused breasts may make it possible for cleavage fucking that before wasnt possible or easily done. For the bondage lovers, binding a lover's breasts first, then areaola suckling them both up nice and big will create more of the erotic tightness she loves without having to tie things tighter. And, breasts getting bigger and fatter from arousal, whether she likes it or not, is very fucking hot to feel and create. Use your imagination for more ways to utilize breast arousal action. Comment to this post on ways you do it already.

About sex technique. One of my clients is currently learning how to slow down while doing a handjob. What is interesting is her body had a very hard time slowing down below a certain point. For whatever reason, it was a slow precision that her life experience, up to that point, never had to do very often. This underscores the role of setting aside time for practicing sex and sex technique. Her husband often tells her that what she's doing is too much. That his cockhead is too sensitive for the level of stimulation she's using. Problem is, she didn't know till we started working together that the first thing you do when someone tells you stimulation is too much is cut the speed and/or pressure of what you're doing down by roughly half, then even slower if it's still too much. Or speed up a little more. It's like dialing in the station to its best clarity on the radio. That's part of the power of strong physical sex technique-- staying on the right channel and the clearest channel. That's one very effective way to make things feel their very best and moving toward orgasm, if that's what's on the menu of the moment. Practice sex also takes the pressure off to do everything well. It's not making love. Youre not in the flow. Practice sex allows you to not be perfect so that you can become perfect.

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