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Update On My Penis Exercising / Enlarging Exercises
For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life, in erotica form, because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that they'd never thought of. It so often lights a desire inside to "want to feel that." To want to learn how to make sex better through sex education, consulting, and coaching, maybe for the first time in their lives.
Back to blogging after my computer was in the shop and i was busy with life, clients, and lovers. Continuously discovering, creating and testing new (for me) sex techniques, tips, scenarios, and principles since my last entry.
Been exercising for two weeks now, as I first told you about in my blog entry called "Day One Of Exercising My Penis," and have noticed my glans (the head of my penis) swells more dramatically than it used to when I squeeze my PC muscle tight. It's gotten a little bigger. My lovers, those who love giving head, have consistently lusted for the feeling of my cockhead getting fat in their mouths; the product of intense moments of pleasure they're giving me that my dick struggles against by tensing the PC muscle autonomically. It's my cock's equivalent of wincing from the feels-too-good. If I keep my PC tensed, particularly when the feels-too-good wont stop feeling good, it heightens my cockhead's sensitivity and will make it feel even better, but also makes me come faster. I keep a relaxed dick for sex that I want to last or when need to be there, in her vagina or bottom, the whole way toward my lover's orgasm no matter how long that takes. Sometimes while throat fucking her while she masturbates her clit with one hand and pumps her wet vag with the Silky dildo or her fingers. For lovers past and present who ache for hard penis, and not all do with the same intensity, the feeling of my cock slurping in her mouth and throat turns her on big time and for some provides realistic sensation with the fantasy behind her pretty closed eyes of taking two men, one facially, one vaginally, while she rubs her hard clit to orgasm. In this scenario, it isn't a blowjob for me, it's throat sex for her pleasure; and mine watching her make herself come, and reach down with both hands on both arousal-rounded breasts. Or with both hands on the sides of her head or gripping her hair. Then there are the times I cant take the sight and feel of her anymore and come into the back of her throat. The erotics of which often sends her over her edge into a huge orgasm.
Always looking for consistency, or lack thereof, in sex pleasure, again, one lover after another moans or mmm's a little while my phallus is in her face, when my cockhead swells to capacity in her mouth. Also when it goes to 110% capacity right before and during my orgasm and ejaculation. It's one thing several of them have said they love about fellatio: the close and intimate sensation of a hard penis's ejaculation convulses as only her mouth can feel in such detail. More than her pussy, her ass, or her hand. Don't forget that for women who are intensely physically attracted to cock, oral sex for them is as close as they can get to that belusted phallus as they can get with their pretty face. I mean, how often do we suck and lick and feel with our mouths body places and parts that turn us way on? How often do men do that to breasts or her ass, feet, hips, vulva, fingers? It's the same thing. We just dont hear it mentioned very often from women who are very attracted to cock the very same way. The same women who feel themselves grow wetter and get harder down there while indulging their man, and themselves, in a heart and cuntfelt blowjob. These penis exercises have already improved a subtle detail of my sex life and I and my lovers are looking forward to more. Literally.
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It's time for Eric Amaranth to leave this site. Any guy can sit at a bar and brag about how much women love having his cock shoved down their throats. This is simply offensive and egocentric.
clarification to PasserBy
I can understand your feelings on that, PasserBy. I used to think the same thing, that women who did that were all show for men and the male ego. And quite a few may be. However, I did and do connect with women who are 100% aroused by cock and getting as close to their lust object as they can. Who get soaking wet and hard clits from fellatio.
Throat fucking is a very advanced sexual practice. It's not for everyone. It takes patience, practice, desire, and a man who has heart enough to go very slow and let the woman get used to and master it. Of course, there is the occasional male who learns to do it so his strapped-on woman can watch it happen too.
Here is a link to a page on a woman's website I blogged on in the past that teaches the fine points of throat fucking. Here also is my blog entry on that site. One thing I'll add to that is she, very early in the writing, describes a scenario where throat fucking entails "railing" which is fast, sometimes hard intercourse. Every time I've done throat fucking, even when my partner knows what she's doing, it's been slow or a medium pace. Fast makes it so she feels like she has to hold her breath. It doesn't allow for an interval for breathing, or if it does, it's a very short one. Breath holding during clitoral massage can sometimes bring on orgasm faster if the breath iis held long enough in some women, which is a combination of auto-asphyxiation and throat fucking. Being made to hold your breath by someone is also a psychological turn on for some. Combinations are often powerful. Also, some women find the often dominant nature of throat fucking another big turn on. Last but not least, as you'll see on Alexa's blog, there are women who love the sensation of throat sex and the thought of their beautiful face being penetrated to its limits by cock that lusts for her. Same as the cocksman likes to do watch, know, and feel their hardon going all the way down into that beautiful face and neck that swells slightly when he's at depth. It's also intimate because a level of trust and communication is needed between partners.
RE: Passerby
I would just like to say, coming specifically from the female perspective, that Eric's above post discusses the distinct female pleasure of fellatio- not him "Shoving his cock down someone's throat." He doesn’t even talk about the pleasure he receives from it.
If you don't like what he's discussing you're not forced to read it, and don't knock the practice and appreciation of this particular sexual act just because you don't agree with it.
I Beg to Differ with PasserBy
PasserBy - sorry, I don't find his posts offensive or egocentric at all. I find it to be a huge turn-on. I LOVE going down on a man. I love it all: the sight, smell, taste, sounds, and all the small sensations that differ between sex and giving head. I once told Eric that a man's blow job face is different from his sex face, and it's probably my favorite! Also, Alexa's blog has some really helpful tips for taking oral to a whole new level. So, to read a man's perspective on something I find arousing is actually really nice, and rarer than you might imagine. You are right in that not every woman likes giving head - some find it too gross. In fact, that's probably the opinion of a majority of women. Which makes blogs like this an even better treat! So, let him keep talking. Although I may not be the one he's writing about, I think it's a special little shout-out to my other cock-in-the-mouth loving sisters everywhere!
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Eric
My comment was perhaps too brief. I am not ignorant about sex, as you seem to assume. I have had sex with hundreds of women, and just yesterday had a blow job that tore my head off, including some wonderful throat-fucking, and she swallowed every drop, as usual. That was the culmination of a couple of hours of sex that would have made you eat your heart out. My girlfriend loves to give me head and has the most expert technique plus honestly deep passion; yesterday I was in a position where she could not quite reach my asshole with her tongue but she was able to poke my perineum with it and hold my balls so she could lick them, running her tongue from stem to stern, and the sensation for me was overwhelming. I entirely appreciate what she does for me and love her for giving herself so thoroughly, and trust me, I reciprocate -- yesterday she had dozens of orgasms, a typical rendezvous for us.
My criticism of this piece, and several recent posts of yours, has to do with disrespect for women and a tendency you seem to have to twist reality around as if a woman's pleasure in giving you pleasure equals the pleasure you receive. Sorry, guy, but women are not going to have an orgasm slurping your cock, even if they are happy to do it. A dick down their throat makes it hard to breathe, it makes their eyes water, and they are only doing it because you like it. To pretend that women get off on the physical sensation of being being choked is wrong and dumb. They might tell you that, you should know better.
Sure women get wet sucking cock, my girlfriend gets wet talking to me on the phone, too. I have seen her literally leave puddles on park benches after a hug and a conversation. She came to my office last week and sat on my lap watching movies of ourselves on the computer and she showed me her panties afterwards -- you could have wrung them out, they were so wet. And yes, she sucked me dry that day, too, and loved every minute of it, after I laid her across my desk and ate her out till she couldn't see straight. She loves the control she has sucking me, hearing my reaction and feeling me respond to her, she loves the power she has over me, making me give up a big load and then proving she can take it all, she loves to hold me afterward when my eyes are exes, after the prolactin hits. It's exciting to the woman as an interpersonal interaction -- maybe you saw Deep Throat, where the woman's clitoris was in her throat, Eric, it's not really like that.
You are propagating the worst kind of male pipe-dream here -- and I specifically mean the sentence that says "it isn't a blowjob for me, it's throat sex for her pleasure." I started reading your blog thinking I could learn something from a man blogging for Betty Dodson about how to have good, satisfying sex with women without demeaning them and treating them like objects, how to have sex that is as good for her as it is for me. I have this site in my RSS aggregator and check it when there is something new. To tell you the truth, I would have been interested to find out that you could do exercises to make your dick bigger, I am not unsatisfied with mine but it is an interesting enough topic to make me click the link. Of course this post was not about that, despite the title, you're using the same trick all those email spammers use to get readers, and yes I felt short-changed by that, too, anticipating an informative report.
Women who allow themselves to experience complete pleasure are a treasure, we men should appreciate them and help them to grow into their eroticism despite the puritanical society we live in, and we should also allow ourselves to receive pleasure, and allow them the pleasure of giving it. Women who love to give pleasure are angels and we should feel blessed whenever they touch us, and we should strive to be angels for them, too. You are doing men and especially women a disservice by perpetuating the delusion that your blow job is "throat sex for her pleasure."
Even the post you linked to describes the pleasure of throat-fucking in terms of the man's sensation. That writer says that describing the sensation is as hard as describing what an orgasm feels like, but she is definitely not saying it feels orgasmic.
Eric, I could tell you stories, lots of guys have stories. We don't all have blogs where we brag about how much women just love to gag on our big cocks. But we could. I expected more from you.
PB
:) We can always agree to
:)
We can always agree to disagree, PasserBy. Take care!
E. Amaranth
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