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Breast Orgasms and The God named Girth, Part Two
First a note on my last blog which, according to Betty, is a departure from my usual format. New is good, and, I wanted to play with demonstrating mutually orgasmic and deeply intense intimate sex. I think sharing semen like that, especially between a heterosexual couple, is a very intimate act per how I define one huge form of intimacy: doing something with a sex partner that you can't do with just anyone. Guns-blazing dominant sex and tone too, but not parasitic. Like I said on my facebook page, what would it be like to be the nice guy and the bad boy with all of their strengths and none of their weaknesses? It's not easy, but that's the path I make available in my work. You know. That whole yang-yin thing. Develop em' both to their respective greastest strengths.
What made me smile was I got feedback from women and men I've never communicated with on facebook about how much they liked that post. I went to check out their pages. Pictures of picket fences, high school graduation photos, pet and kid pics, party pics. Americana. I sound like Garrison Keelor right now. You see where I'm headed. I was concerned after I wrote the last line of my previous blog. Am I going too far in the wrong venue? Then I felt, "What the hell. It's hot and makes my point." Americana doesn't mind either. You never know. I may use that format again: ordering the reader to do things. People are invited to comment to this post on what you think and felt on part one of this series. On with our regularly scheduled blog!
For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life, in erotica form, because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that they'd never thought of. It so often lights a desire inside to "want to feel that." To want to learn how to make sex better through sex education, consulting, and coaching, maybe for the first time in their lives.
Olivia wound her supercurves around me and sucked my tongue into her mouth. I gave back all that she came looking for, then when our lips parted, told her I wanted to try something new. Something I'd heard about from Annie Sprinkle and other women way back that Betty and I laughed at as poppycock. Fast forward through all the details and data, I revisited it after reading Sherri Winston's new book, Women's Anatomy of Arousal. I attended her maps of the clitoris class last year and it reminded me of much that I'd overlooked. Before reading Sherri's book, I'd heard stories of nursing women loving breastfeeding because it was pleasurable and sometimes they loved combining clitoral stimulation with it for a great orgasm during a private feeding time. One of Betty's long time friends said how her breasts would weep milk when she was turned on long enough to start getting aroused down below. Winston is a very specific educator, like myself, and she said that the areola is the nexus of this pleasure, not the nipple. I'd heard that hormones are released from the sensation of suckling and can cause breast orgasms.
I asked Olivia to lay on her back, knees up, feet flat on the bed. I let her use a new vibrator called the Eroscillator, which we sold in black on the site in the past under the name, Passionette. Well, it's back. And it was on Olivia's clit while I took up position beside her, lips latched over and around her areola. I made sure teeth werent an issue and with the Silky dildo in my hand, held the intention to literally breastfeed from my lover as if it were possible. I did what a baby does while my hand bobbed the head of the dildo just inside her wet vagina. And she vibed hard clit. Together we had four things in the groove: her clitoris, her wet vagina, her breast, and my intention to draw from her in a symbiotic, positive way. My lover's wide, sexy hips rocked gently then a little faster just before she came from the pleasure between her legs. She vocalized and I stayed right with her, keeping the suction strong around her areola, the pink realistic dildo pumping and pushing into her and against her clenching muscles. When the storm died down, she moved the vibe from her clit, I released my mouth's grip on her round D cup breast, and I let the Silky dildo sit nestled within her for the moment.
"Wow... okay I felt tingles. Like orgasm tingles up inside my breast when I came."
"What about your other breast?" I asked.
"No, just the one you were on."
"So it was like the orgasm you feel in your clit? Like I feel in my cock?"
"Yes," she stated.
I was very happy to get some hard confirmation on new erotic things to do to breasts, which are such a erotic draw for men. That they are part of a woman's sexual system and the pleasures involved therein in a major enough way to write home about, As long as you know how to suckle and how long! All the way there, baby! An addition to this info, I told one of my sex life consulting clients about this and it was she who gave me the idea of her husband moving the dildo while he suckled and she clit-played. She didnt say anything about orgasmic sensations in her breasts, but she did say she had a pass-out orgasm. Give it a try, and let me know how it works!
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Yes...the Breasts!
Reading this reminded me of how, during my pregnancies, I would wake up in the middle of the night totally turned on and craving, obsessing over, my husband's mouth sucking on my extra full baby ready breasts. They actually tingled at the thought. I knew he needed to be rested for work, but I would often decide to wake him anyway. In that half-sleep state of stupor, I felt more erotic, less inhibited, more selfish. I NEEDED him at my breasts, his hands below, until I was satisfied.
At least I didn’t force him to run out for ice cream and pickles.
I’m going to read your blog to him and remind him of those nights. Thanks for sharing another inspiring experience.
With gratitude,
A fan with a picket fence, 3 kids and a cat!
so hot
"extra full baby ready breasts..." that line made me hard and lust-burn in my chest and belly. I'm a sucker for the erotics of pregnancy and blooming motherhood. The, "I NEEDED him at my breasts, his hands below, until I was satisfied." was super hot, the visual it gave me, too. It's worth mentioning when you said selfish that I've had several lovers question, after coming several times with me in different ways, that they wondered if they were taking too much pleasure from me, in me. That they didn't know they could give back the same to me, or that they should be taking it all. When I gave them 100% permission, they felt a mini-liberation in savoring as much sex pleasure and orgasms as their bodies could unfold and release. Then, they were more viscerally motivated to give back to me in equal measure. And learn how if they didnt already know.
And yes! Jump back in bed and try that again tonight! Try a nice dildo this time along with your clit and see where that takes you. ;-)Post new comment