Doggy Style or Rear Entry? & Safe Sex Blowjobs, Part One

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that they'd never thought of. It so often lights a fire inside to "want to feel that." To want to learn how to make sex better, maybe for the first time in their lives. 

It wasn't the first time Lora and I'd been together. We'd played with just gloved hands and condomed blowjobs once before. She sent me a text a week later saying,

"Heya-- you got a compliment from the bf today. He says my bj skills have improved notably since you. Kudos. :)"

We sat down on her bed and she brought that text back up. Lora explained further on how her boyfriend was reticent on her sharing pleasure with me. Grumpy would describe it. But after I learned her, he changed his tune: "Okay, He's pretty cool." Words to that effect.

So there we were, on her bed, lights low, the evening dusk coming in from her windows. Lora looks like a curvier Angelina Jolie. Full, fuckable diesel-lips and all. Her eyes are magnificent, especially... God... especially when she looks into your eyes while deep throating you gently, then going back to the steady suck and stroke-- your straining cock resting snugly against her tongue and loving the suction and friction combination. She has an hourglass torso and hips, flat femmy tummy, long strong legs, big natural C cup breasts. Straight out of the salon rich brown hair. I'd brought back the big box of nitrile gloves that I bought for us on our first time together, (which you'll hear about) and flashed a latex dental dam, telling her I couldn't wait to go down in her lovely wet cunt, then told her how best to help me hold the dam in place for our best protection. Both ideas greatly appealed.

We also discussed the female condom as a very good solution to the issue of maximum protection for the woman during sex. I learned this from Morpheus NYC, a male sex educator who travels in the swinger and D/s communities. (google him up if you please) I attended a short safe sex talk he gave describing how the wide ringed bottom of the female condom over the penis does a great job of completely eliminating the penis shaft from coming into contact with the vagina. Regular condoms can roll up if youre having sex with one for more than say, five to ten mins. Maybe fifteen? The downside to female condoms, in my opinion, is they are made of polyurethane (not polyisoprene; like the Skyn brand condom I like) and are not as thin as latex extra-thin condoms. However, they definitely will accomodate all penis girths. A big tip I learned from my lover Tira in better use of the female condom is to take out the ring that goes inside the woman and put the condom on the man's penis. Use it like a regular condom in effect. When I had sex with her last and got to the part where I pump her heart-shaped carved ass from behind as fast and hard as she wants, it didnt get pushed inside. Doesn't mean it isnt impossible though and that's another complaint of the fem condom.

I had my favorite regular condoms but couldn't find any female condoms though. They aren't sold at drug stores anymore! I looked for them at two, because I was aching to fuck this work of art of a woman. You can reliably find the gal-condom at sex stores and distributed for free at many state-funded STD testing clinics. (Per Morpheus' info) Lora is very very safe sexy, which I respect, so I didn't expect to finally push myself into her fucking hot, strong pussy. Turned out I was pleasantly mistaken....

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