Erotica On A Man In Control Of A Woman's Vibrator, Part I

Wed, 08/26/2009 - 11:33
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

Olivia and I woke up together and after she seduced and emptied my cock of its come by hand and voice, (next blog post) she came back to bed from washing all the come off her hands and arms and said,Olivia and I woke up together and after she seduced and emptied my cock of its come by hand and voice, (next blog post) she came back to bed from washing all the come off her hands and arms and said,

"Will you vibe me?"

I was washed out to sea with oxytocin and morning drowsy.

"Hmm? Vibe you?"

"Yeah, I just had the idea. Use a vibe on me. The orgasm will keep my cramps smoothed out today."

"Um, okay!"

I stammered a little bit because my teacher, Betty Dodson, guides people to give the woman the control of the vibe because it's her clitoris and she knows what she wants from moment to moment. Also, it's more difficult for another person to use a vibe as effectively as they use their fingers. I agree with all of that, and, I'm also up for a new erotic challenge. I can't remember the last time I used a vibe on a woman all the way to orgasm. College or high school, maybe! When my girlfriends were too shy to control the vibe in front of me.

I reached over at the bedside for the water dancer vibrator. It still had its clear plastic cap on that it comes with. I know we dont have the cap pictured on our sex shop, but it comes with it. The cap was always fronted by the distributor, Vibratex, as a dampener for the vibe. For that reason, Betty and I always tossed it. That was when it hit me when I saw it there, capped and ready: The cap is for when you want to rub the clit with it while you vibe. The uncapped end isnt as smooth and rounded as the cap. Done! New angle to try!

To elaborate more on what I was saying, giving a vibe to the woman almost always works better so that she can get precisely what she wants. Massaging her clitoris with your fingertips is easier because you can feel what's physically happening to her clit and where it's positioned. With a vibe, you have to feel what you can through the very subtle contact between clit and vibe. You can understand better what I mean by picking up a pen and tracing the back end of it over any part of your body and take notice of what your hand holding the pen feels as it moves it over the contours. You can feel very little that would give you info as to how to continue touching to produce a specific sensation as compared to your fingertips. More on that below.

I started at her side, Olivia on her back, suckling at her breast combined with the vibe in my left hand, my non-dominant hand. Adding to the difficulty, I couldn't see her vulva from my angle. Here's what was happening on my end:

1.) I had to keep the suckling sensation that she loves most going,
2.) Had to keep the vibe's action feeling amazing, on the right area, moving her consistently toward clitoral orgasm, plus stay connected to her and enjoy the present moment.

The breast play worked. The sexologists claim their studies show that with enough time suckling at a woman's breast, her hormones will start rolling and her arousal with them. I got into the moment. Visualized sweet hot milk jetting into my mouth every time I drew on her natural-round D-cup breast. At first she didn't give much notice to it, but gradually, she would moan, say yesss, when my suction turned on over her nipple. In between sucks that I'd keep pulling on, I let my tongue feel her erect nipple. Betty's friend, who gave birth with the help of the Magic Wand on her clit, told stories of how her breasts would heave and drip milk when she was turned on. It took a ittle time, but milk would eventually flow a bit and soak through her clothing. Before that, I had no idea that lactation is stimulated by arousal in a woman. It's white-hot, and makes sense because women's breasts will sometimes swell around 20% larger with high and protracted erotic turn on. Love that.

Life was good. Except, due to my position and non-dominant hand, Olivia had to gently correct me four times with what the vibe was doing. I'd gotten so into her, her breasts, ( I looked over at the other one here and there for the hot visual) and my hottie-with-big-breasts-heavy-with-milk visualization, that I lost track of what she needed for her clitoris and the vibe. I'd meandered over to one side off where it needed to be. On the third correction, she grasped my hand, I held still, and she guided and used my hand holding the vibe to get what she wanted-- rubbing the oiled vibehead against her firm clitoris.

That's when I noticed the very subtle difference between what it felt like to have the vibe over and against her erection and what it felt like when it wasn't. It felt like the vibe was running over a raised and firm bump that the surrounding vulva did not have. Unless you're paying close attention to that little sensation, it's very easy to miss. You'd have to know that a clitoris gets hard when it's aroused, just like a penis, and use that info to direct your vibe movements. It was erotic to rub the water dancer vibe against that hard clit and hear her speak her approval. A very nice incentive for doing it right.

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One of my favorite ways to become aroused

Fri, 01/22/2010 - 01:36
Anonymous (not verified)

Good job on the nipple sucking. This is one of my favorite ways to become aroused. Drives me absolutely crazy. Unfortunately nipples don't get the attention they deserve. God bless breast play. I LOVE IT!

thank you anon, ;) and an addition to the post

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Fri, 01/22/2010 - 11:42
Eric Amaranth

 Thank you so much for the compliment and expressing your nipple play lust!

I may have said it in later parts to this series of erotica, but I want to say it here. It's hotter sensation-wise, for most women, for breast suction to work so that your lips are in a o-shape around the outside of the areola. The areola is where a large number of erogenous nerve endings are located. Nipple nerve paths are connected to clitoris/penis glans nerves in both genders. When you suck in and hold suction on the areola and not just the nipple, its feels better/hotter and simulates a suckling baby. When you create that sensation, her body will often respond with arousal and the breast being suckled will sloooowly swell in size. After Olivia came from our play that I wrote about here, I saw a big difference in her breast size on the suckled one. It made me want to do the other and slide my cock in-between her sexed up, aroused cleavage. It raised her cup size up by half, maybe. I think it's so hot that breasts can become erect, so to speak, if you pleasure the nipples long enough. I've never had that happen with only squeezing and caressing.

Carlin and I were talking yesterday and she said it would be so hot, and convenient, if women's breasts swelled up big for sex like a penis, then went small again afterwards. Could have the best of both worlds: voluptuous boobs during sex and no back pain, gravity pulling, uncomfortable jogging etc outside the bedroom. :) I have a fantasy of doing a threesome where both partners work on the woman's breasts, a mouth over each areola, suckling like i did, one doing clit stim, the other using a nice dildo inside her. Then after she comes, she'll have bigger breasts for more erotic incredibleness without the implants. Done threesomes where that happened, but the suckling never lasted long enough to make them bigger because we weren't aware of this special ability.

I wonder if it's consistent with the majority of women. In response to your statement that nipples too often don't get the attention they deserve, Betty and other women have told me how many men will go too hard on their nipples and leave out the areola. Then there's stinging nipple pinching that some women and men love. This morning with Olivia, she hard pinched my nipples while I was moving inside her and the two sensations were great when combined.

 

 An addition, I have heard

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Fri, 01/22/2010 - 11:50
Eric Amaranth

 An addition, I have heard and experienced that smaller areolas tend to be more sensative than larger ones because the nerve endings are spread over a wider area, if I'm not mistaken. It's one of the advantages of smaller breasts. I'm going to write an erotica piece with Mei-Long describing how her small areola and breasts were electrifying for her and without clit play, created a small series of uterine contractions that had orgasmic sensations accompanying them. Olivia had a similar expereince as you'll read in part two of this series. It shows that for some women, her breasts are part of her erotic system and certainly, as Sherri Winston said in her book, the breasts are part of a woman's reproductive system, not separate from what's below her navel in terms of connection. That refutes the claims that have been made that breasts are not erogenous zones, just milk producing glands that heterosexual males lust for. Not all women feel that way though. My lover Billie has no erotic appraisal of breast play whatsoever. Not interested in breast massage, and, it's interesting to note that her areolas are quite large. So, it depends on each woman.

Divine Swelling

Sat, 01/23/2010 - 02:18
Anonymous (not verified)

Yes. The swelling is diviiiiiiiiiiiiiiine. I love getting aroused and feeling my breast push out of my bra. It is a beautiful feeling. Especially in public because it is one of the few ways as a woman you can notice a change in your body due to arousal and still be within the realm of "public decency". I have largish sized breasts and small nipples. The small nipples I thought were a curse, but after reading this I see maybe they are the key to my pleasure. Hmmmm. Now you are making me think. ;)

Anon