The Sex Born of Sexting, Part Four

Hello all. I often utilize my blog to write, with each lover's permission, on the sex I'm having in real-life. I do so of course for the sultry entertainment value and also to show the kind of sex I am having and doing. Ever wondered if a sex educator or therapist could live up to what they preach? Well, I have. My intention is for it to teach and illuminate as much as titilate. Imagine yourself feeling and co-creating with your partner the things in this blog. If you find yourself needing to learn how to make these things happen for real, I welcome you to schedule a talk-teaching or sex coaching session with me. Enjoy to the fullest. -E.A

I strode into my second playdate with Kristina. We kissed at her door once again, my hands at her narrow waist, my palms flat with fingers spread, just feeling her toned body under her thin houseshirt mingled with the pleasure our lips shared. We finished our embrace and said that she’d read the blog posts on our sex and having been a life-long erotica lover, ever since she was young, she loved having the experience of reading a published erotica piece with her as the star… based on actual sex she’d had with the writer. It was a totally new feeling. Surreal, but exciting and she felt very flattered by the piece.

Memories of that night are a mélange now, but highlights I have perfect clarity on:

I was between those strong thighs, my cock hard and curved, slid down all the way inside her. Kristina had me take her hair close to the scalp… I added in the rest: squeezed my hand into a fist and pulled. And fucked her to her limit of dying to play with her clit. That was after she’d told me she needed my cock inside her; after she had enough of my hands and mouth on her sex. My design was unique that night. Something I’d not done before. I sucked her clitoris into my mouth, worked it relentlessly with my tongue tip (she loves hard tongue action) while one index finger massaged her g-spot (or g-crest) at 12 o’clock inside her already wet cunt and the other index did the same to her PS-spot (perineal-sponge), which is just inside the vaginal wall at 6 o clock, pressing down toward her rectum. All three places engaged together. Both fingers making the trademark “come hither” motions while my tongue flexed relentlessly.

“Ohhhhh… that… that feels… awesome.”

It made me smile. That was the first time I’d ever heard anyone characterize rich, multi-leveled sexual pleasure as “awesome.” I watched her broad and very sexy hips bob softly of their own accord and it was then that my penis began to grow. She coasted and soared and eventually she said she’d prefer less pressure on her g-spot. Kristina gently requested different changes to how she took her pleasure from me. It had become an impromptu session of exploration sex. We tried two fingers instead of one to her drooling pussy’s north and south, but I couldn’t return my tongue to her clit due to my hands taking up too much space. I told her so, and went back to one. Eventually she requested penetration. Sliding. Pistoning. Gently. I joined that with her PS-spot getting pressed with my other hand's index and wondered to myself how this would work if she was doing her favorite clit massage. Or a dildo instead of fingers. Good things for the future….

Kristina’s body and groin loved the attention. It was a joy collaborating with her, mixing and matching what made her feel good. It was using the intellect, the mind’s focused attention on what I was doing to her. I set the intention to keep all the instruments playing at once: tongue-massage on her clit, pressing and releasing her PS-spot with one finger while her pussy slurped on the other hand thrusting fluidly into her. Keeping it all perfect is difficult. To do it all as easily and mind-free as raising a spoonful of cherry pie to your mouth takes invested practice time separate from flowing lovemaking. I plan to cover that in the book I'm writing. Good thing sex is some of the most fun practice on the face of the planet.

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