A Very Successful Client Phone Session

Below is the excerpted email from a client who'd heard of me from the Marie Claire article:

"I want to thank you again for our conference call this morning and tell you that it was a very beneficial start to my 'awakening,' shall we say.  You clarified the basic questions I had and helped me understand some new things.  I also appreciate your last statement about recognizing my own emotions within what I would call an energy exchange with someone new. I made a conscious decision when I decided to talk to you. It was scary because you are tied to sex and eroticism and I have never allowed myself to fully open up and stay in that place very long. But now I have spoken to you and it was fine. I can speak further with you sometime. So, thank you and until we speak again!" --Cynthia

Our session was on how to give oral sex to a man. For a long time she had bad but fixable experiences with it. Everything from feeling stupid with her head bobbing up and down, getting tired from doing that and her jaw aching. The embarassment of men pushing her head away and finishing up with their own selfloving. Longing to have the man explode in her mouth from her attentions. Wanting to feel the rush of control and power with strong technique and feeling turned on while doing it. While I have never gone down on a man, I know very well about how to create all the things I like that have ever been done to me, including ways to save energy and maximize pleasure while minimizing effort when it isnt desired in the moment.

I remember after describing my favorite combination of hand and mouth and how to coordinate them, she said how the approach, the technique, the focus on certain parts of the glans penis, had all never occurred to her and how marvelously exciting it was to learn sexual pleasure intricacies; how she couldn't wait to try them on a man. We also designed the session to use the Mr. Smoothie dildo which she bought and had delivered in advance of our session to use to practice the techniques and integrate them into a flowing cockswomanship.

I always love the voice-melt, as I call it. The transition over the course of the call where the client(s) shift from nervous and hesitant to smooth and enthusiastic. Cynthia went into other ideas she wanted to learn that included oral sex on a man. "You have lots on your plate now," I said. We'll go into that on your next session. And dont forget to practice!" An hour goes by so fast when it's about sophisticated sexuality.

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