Multiple Orgasms for Men & The Million Dollar Spot

Wed, 10/08/2008 - 05:30
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

I'm finally reading the book, "The Multi-Orgasmic Man" by Mantak Chia. When I started my sex studies, I disregarded anything that discussed chi or energy as the equivalent of Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny. Things are different now, and in addition to the energetic principles for ejaculatory control in Multi-Orgasmic Man, there are a few methods for experiencing multiple orgasms without ejaculating. 

One of them deals with pressing in against what's called, the "million dollar spot" during penis stimulation, effectively closing off the vas deferens as it makes its way out and becomes the urethra in my penis.  The "million dollar spot" is about an inch above your anus - it's that little indentation you can feel when you press in along the area between your anus and your penis.   Read More

You won't feel it or see it unless you press in at different points within this area and find it.  It feels like a slight indentation separating the area between your ass and your dick.   

If timed correctly, you can move through the uncontrollable, autonomic portion of ejaculation, enjoying your orgasm without shooting. I'd heard of this technique years ago, but it never worked for me. The force of the ejaculate filling the base of my cock and the urethra would always force its way past any roadblocks i set up by pressing in with the fingers of my other hand. With the book's more specific instructions, I sat down one morning to make it happen.

While one almond-oiled hand moved over my cock, I placed my other hand on the "million dollar spot" and pressed in about 3/4 inch, just shy of painful. I knew when to press in because I'm very familiar with the small inner sensation of semen moving down toward the base of my perineum. My playing hand kept pumping and in a few moments, my orgasm sensation began to build steadily. Kept working my cock, kept the pressure on at the spot, all the way to watching my erection flex hard with the pleasure surging through, but without the pearly ejaculate. It was the first time I'd experienced a genital orgasm without shooting since I was a kid. The climax sensation was a little less powerful than when I ejaculate.

Now my thought was, if the semen was still present inside my tract, I'd be able to keep stimulation going and go to the next orgasm and the next. Didn't work that way. I went into hypersensitivity and a refractory period that came on faster actually than when I ejaculate. It's said that I will spend less energy this way because my body will reabsorb my semen and recycle it where if I shot, the energy that my body took to manufacture that load would be spent. At the least, I could play with using it as a great way to stop ejaculation during orgasm for extra pregnancy prevention or while receiving oral sex, she can keep the stimulation going without having to skip a beat in response to the load filling her mouth, if that's an issue for her.


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The Multi-Orgasmic Man is a

Thu, 03/14/2013 - 06:43
An Elf (not verified)

The Multi-Orgasmic Man is a great book. Finger lock wont do much, you need to learn to control the PC muscle by itself if you want to have multiple orgasms/last longer.