Eric Amaranth's blog

I have been getting a lot of feedback from a lot of different straight women along the way telling me they want the nice guy AND "bad boy" all in the same man. Clients have told me this, past and present lovers, their friends, my female friends, and their friends too. They're tired and angry with having to choose between one of two men. Door number one: he'll be a best friend, do the dishes every night, give you chicken noodle soup when you're sick, and key to it all, have the capability for open-hearted, sweet interactions, affection and hopefully father your children.

Door number two: he's hot, super-confident in every way with you socially and sexually, he makes his desire for you very clear in a deep voice and then backs it up when the time comes, and the key to this door is passionate, competant, devouring-you fucking of one sort or another.

Here is part two of my client Rachel's erotica, starting with my commentary and exchange we had via email after I read it. Here is the link to part one, which has the erotica she wrote in its entirety. We discuss below how her sex life coaching with me has transformed her marriage to her husband of around twenty years or more.

Amaranth: This may be the best you've written so far. Now, just step back for a moment and look back at how you and Oren were when you werent having this level of sex life. Before you started working with me. It seems like another life that's dead and gone, doesn't it? Like a dream maybe? Look at what youre doing together now! What do you think about that?!

This is Rachel's latest erotica based on the sex she's now having with her husband Oram after having been a client of mine for the past six months, once a month for an hour and a half or so via my Skype talk-teaching option. Here is a link to my last blog post on Rachel that also has links to all the other posts with her erotica. Again, I post clients' writings on their sex lives when they want it posted. I no longer post my own info about clients' sessions or progress (anonymously done when I did so). In addition to this piece of Rachel's erotica (which is her best yet in my opinion) I'm also including email responses we made back and forth, talking about the impact my sex life coaching has made on their lives; where they are now vs where they were. My commentary will begin in part two. Enjoy!

Here's part two of my first collaborative fantasy erotica writing between me and a big fan, "Claudia." For those of you who didnt read part one, here it is.

Then Eric's right hand came back around from my ass to my sex and went straight to my clit. I let go of her with my finger and his resumed. His finger brushed repeatedly against my already swollen clit as he said, “Pull your hood back”. It pushed the buttons of my submissive nature and made my vagina soak itself once again. I groaned a reply, eager to obey, and reached down under my skirt to pull my clitoral hood up and off my clitoral glans.

Here is what I have so far for my first unexpected experience of co-writing erotica with a fan of mine. We'll call her Claudia. She facebook messaged me one night saying she'd written the first part of a fantasy she'd had about the two of us having sex. However, she'd also included a bit of dress-up. Claudia would send me sections of our piece and I would edit a bit or add sections of my own. She'd then read and write from that and return it, back and forth. I had another fan on facebook tell me she could see an erotica book in my future of collaborative material like this. Enjoy: 

A velvety red corset top laid flat against my chest, forcing my breasts up and out-- full and commanding attention. Black accents and trim adorned the red bodice. My slim waist was met with a short skirt which flared up around my hips, thanks to the black tool skirt peeking out from underneath. My ensemble was complete with a little red satin cape and matching luxurious hood up over my long black hair.

This is an edited version of this post, removing details of my clients' sessions, even though they are anonymous. I want future clients to have absolute assurance that all details on their sexual development interests are omitted from public view to minimize to 100% any chance of their working with me being compromised. If, however, a client submits writings to me in the form of testimonials, erotica, etc. stated clearly that they are for me to post, then I post them as they are written with some editing if need be. What follows is a description of the format of specifically a Guided Sex session. Talk-teach sessions are also available for those not ready or interested in Guided Sex.

Below is part three of my sex life consulting client Rachel's erotica on her adult doctor-playing scene with her husband Oram. For those who didn't read part one, and part two, I advised Rachel on how to create her scene so her husband, a newcomer to scene play in sex, would have a great first time.

“Wider please,” spoken as she taps, then pushes at the inside of his thighs, insisting he move his knees apart a bit more. With width comes the necessary space to work between his ass cheeks.

She stands out of his sight, removes her coat and retrieves the Aneros Prostate Massager and the lubrication from the tray. Behind him now, where he can’t see her (as long as he maintains the requested position) she tosses the coat onto the bed and into his line of sight. He knows she is exposed. His rear cheeks tense and release in acknowledgement, as a fine mist of perspiration covers his skin.

Here's part two of my sex life consulting client Rachel's erotica based on her adult doctor-playing scene with her husband Oram. For those who didn't read part one, I advised Rachel on how to create her scene.

How nicely the coat falls open to each side, presenting her silk covered legs from the ankles to the bit of bare thigh just above the garter clips, as she lowers herself to sit in front of her charming patient.

Here is the first part of my sex life consulting client Rachel's erotic journaling on her fist foray into roleplay sex as a dominant woman doctor. The topic of one of our sessions was how to create a roleplay doctor fantasy she'd always had and surprise her husband with it. The help I gave Rachel was in how to make the roleplay realistic and believeable. It can be easy sometimes to get a little cheesy, which can disrupt the roleplay's erotic potency. It pulls you back to an awareness that it's not real. Not hot!

The night before last, I co-hosted Planned Parenthood's fundraiser, Summer Sex and Spirits with my mentor, Betty Dodson, and Carlin Ross. I chatted with VIP's before the main event began and had some really fun and interesting conversations about sex and learning sex skills, and also gave some individual sex advice.

Twice that night, and many times in the past, I had to deal with a cliche about me as a man teaching women about sex: that because I don't have a vagina and a clitoris and all the other parts and spots in-between, I allegedly can't possibly be as qualified as a female sex life consultant.

My complete answer to that is the following:

Here's the link to my blog listing. That's where you'll find parts one through three in this series titled, Awesome Sex and Orgasms With Kira parts 1 thru 3.

I was entwined with Kira's naked, curvy-toned body after her first oral sex orgasm with me. I asked her if she knew what she sounded like when she comes.

"Sex is a surprise for me every time. I don't remember my orgasms or the sounds I make. It's always seemingly new."

Here is the link to www.wellandgoodnyc.com and the new online article out about me written by a woman in attendance's take on my Wine and Chocolate Sex Salon for Women. It was a great night with all the women present, about eight of them, leaving happy and thrilled from my sex advice and learning some of what I consider my most important information on female sexuality and female orgasm in its different forms and new ways to use sex toys you may have never thought of before, alone or with your partner.

By the end of the session, one woman, who started out with a viewpoint of sex as "making love" to your beloved is the highest sexform to asking me with a coy-firey voice if I was available to play as non-monogamous lovers-- in the sexform readers of my erotica recognize. The reason I mention this is not to brag. It's to show how a woman sold on the superiority of "making love" became equally interested in high quality carnal sexuality after taking in my info.

My lover Kira and I just had her first orgasm with me via oral sex. She has a clitoris that wants a lot of direct stimulation. Right on the glans. No to the right or left of it, no avoiding direct clitoral stimulation till the end; it's straight on, rock on, and don't stop till she comes loud and proud. She told me she has a love-hate relationship with oral sex because while it feels good, even the best tongues don't have the stamina or strength to provide the required intensity level for her to reach her clitoral orgasm.

Here is a Facebook discussion between me and my new friend, Ines, on her experiences with eating a heavy meal and then being too bogged down and energy-drained for sex afterwards. I talk some on how to fix that:

Ines: After reading over the comments regarding the recent article you mentioned on organic eggs, it made think about sex and food coma. I am very particular about the food that I eat, but in the past I've had problems with experiencing food coma after a great meal and not being interested in sex.

www.filamentmagazine.com, a women-focused erotic photography and living magazine out of the UK, is running a story in their latest issue on non-monogamy and polyamory. They contacted us here at D&R for safe sex methods, which I took up to respond to. I gave all my safe sex info, most of the highlights are here in this past erotica blog post of mine, particularly of note, the use of nicely-fitting elastomer cock rings to keep condoms on tight and secure. I find the elastomer ones are the perfect level of tightness and never hurt after too long like the leather ones or ones made of other materials.