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Since it was Christmas recently, it seems as if a lot of talk about believing in God occurred in my life.
The BIG question was this: "Well, if you don't believe in God, or that the Bible is the Word of God, what keeps you from going out and raping, and stealing, and killing? If God doesn't exist, doesn't that mean that everything is permitted? You can't have morality with that as your basis." I have heard this question more than a few times! I didn't mind hearing it once again; in part, because the person who asked me that seemed sincere about it.
In replying, I turned the tables on the person and asked them almost the same question, but in a slightly different way.
I asked this person this question: "If you don't believe (as you just said you didn't) that the Earth on which we live is all that matters, because Jesus is going to come back and take all true believers with him to a better place, and that God is going to destroy the heavens and the Earth and create a "new" heaven, and a "new" Earth, you're the one with no real basis to care at all about such things as social injustice, pollution, global warming, suppression of human rights, disease, education, literacy in third-world countries, hunger, or better forms of energy use. For you, and your world-view, none of that matters. It's all going to be swept away. Better things are on the way.
The whole Rapture thing is a cop-out. You don't have do anything, because 'Jesus is coming!' In fact, if you take your beliefs seriously, then all that stuff about caring about the poor, and global warming, and injustice, and racism, and sexism, and economic inequality are just distractions. The real business is about 'saving souls,' and nothing else. Who really cares about the body because Christians believe they are going to get NEW bodies. Heavenly bodies!
Wow! Put like that, Christians who do care about this world and it's many troubles are wasting their time and energies on bogus concerns. So, the way I see it, it's only people who DON'T believe in God, or Heaven, or an afterlife, that have the best reason of all to care about the worlds problems.
Why? Because I believe that this life IS all there is! By not believing in God, I care about the suffering of others in a way that is cheapened by religious talk about the hereafter. I don't believe in "by and by Lord, by and by," for the simple fact that we need to think about here, and now, not some imaginary future world with God and the angels. Right here, and right now IS all we have; and to spend our time on Earth waiting for "something better" is, well--- damned close to evil."
It was quite a rant, I confess. I probably shouldn't have gotten so worked up. I didn't raise my voice in anger at the person (though I was pretty excited as I spoke). I doubt that I did any thing to change their point of view, either. Still, that whole tired question of "If you don't believe in God, what keeps you moral?" pissed me off a little. Moral is what people are, for the most part. It's The Golden Rule. If you want to live in peace, then fucking with your neighbor is not going to help you get it. It's that simple, really.
Before my conversation was over, I had to ask this person one last question: "Did it really take 40 years of wandering in the desert for God to finally reveal to the Jews that it was NOT alright to murder, or steal, or lie? Really? You mean people hadn't already figured that all out before? Come on. Believing that the Bible is the only basis for morality is asking to get hit with a lot of uncomfortable questions about the patently immoral commands God gave to his people. Slavery. Women were property. Rape was okay. Taking other peoples lands and goods were fine. That sort of thing. Be careful. The Bible is no basis for morality."
That was the end of the conversation. I hope not the friendship. Time will only tell.
Have a great New Year everybody
Yeah it's largely controling
Yeah it's largely controling twaddle. Telling someone they'll reap their rewards in heaven if they do everything you say in this life is taking the piss really :)
What I find interesting though is that at the limit of our knowledge the universe is possibly holographic and resides on a 2 dimensional membrane and beyond that is so much more amazingness we don't know. I keep an open mind about wether any of that unknown has manifested itself on earth and if experienced by us how it was interpreted (angels, gods) If I was alive 10,000 years ago my theory would be that if you travel far enough to the east you'll find the volcano where the sun rises from the ground and to the west where it returns and judging by eye how big the sun is and how far away it is you can estimate how far you have to travel to find the volcano's and each new sun looks about 20 acres across. Anyway traveling to find these places is not a waste of time because I can see each new sun rise from the firey earth and then return every single day with my own eyes.
Excellent Post
Something I like to point out in this situation is that it isn't moral if one is doing something because of reward or punishment. If a person engages in a behavior because of the promise of a reward or avoids a behavior out of fear of punishment, morality isn't an issue, it is simply a business decision. This entire question posed by christians is faulty from the start.
I don't really think it's
I don't really think it's necessary to make a counter-argument at all. From the state of the world and looking at it's rich variety of people and cultures, it's very evident that christian people have no better ethics or good hearts than people of any other faith, or of those who claim to not believe at all. Simple as that. Ask them to prove otherwise and they will fail.
It's worse than a cop-out.
There are faiths that have nothing to do with Christianity and profess no belief in a supreme being, and yet are arguably far more compassionate in their teachings. Buddhism predates Christianity by 500 years, yet Buddhists try to live by a strict moral code that calls for unconditional love, universal compassion, and ultimate salvation (in the Buddhist sense) for EVERYONE, not just for an "elect". Unitarian Universalism and Reform Judaism are also faiths that teach, as I understand them, that there is no such thing as hell and that human beings are basically good. I would personally argue that the Christian teachings of Original Sin and eternal torture have led to centuries of misery, cruelty, blood vengeance, and callousness. If God really kills and tortures as the Bible teaches, he's worse than any human monster that ever lived---and a supremely poor example of how to conduct one's own life.
You nailed it!
Brilliant post Edgerman. I think I may be completely inlove with your mind.
Re:Budhism
...it's a shame buddhism still considers women as lesser than men and not able to acheive enlightenment in their lifetime because of their gender.
Buddhism and women
Sexism unfortunately is not confined to one faith or era, and it's certainly and sadly been found in Buddhism. But I don't think that what you say is predominantly true of modern Buddhism. There have been many modern Buddhist women teachers, such as Pema Chodron, Cheri Huber, and the late Ayya Khema, who are both feminist and Buddhist, and who would never have chosen Buddhism if it were an inherently sexist faith. In Taiwan, the Fo Guang Shan Buddhist temple and monastery has 1,200 nuns versus 300 male monks, and the heads of the order are women. These women would not be wasting their time and years of meditation on a tradition that excluded them. The link below leads to a page of talks and writings by women teachers of Theravada Buddhism:
http://www.enabling.org/ia/vipassana/womenAuthors.html
Re: The Rapture is a cop-out
Thank you, Liandra, for the reply to this last post. I know that lately I have shifted focus quite a bit from sexuality to (yuck, politics!), but, I have because politics, and especially the sort of crazy politics that's currently going on here in the U.S. demands it. Ever since I came across the story of Martin Niemoller's painful experience in Nazi Germany (having to do with being worried about the direction Germany was going, but not speaking up until there was no one left to speak up for him), I have felt that none of us can be complaicent. Silence is a form of assent, in otherwords. Secularism is under determined attack here in America, with an entire industry in rewriting history so that it will accord with the lies the theocrats want the rest of us to believe!
Europe is facing a lot challenges, too, but this one is significant, and could spill over into politics across the Pond. Indeed, it already is! Sex is much more fun to talk about, but for now, well--- I'll get back to that, eventually.
Edgerman58
I am a Christian, and I believe the Rapture is a Crock
I am a Christian. I do not share the views of the "Fundamentalist" Christian groups, who are unfortunately what most people picture when they think of Christians.
God is a god of love. If someone truly reads the Bible and studies it and not the interpretations and skewings of human beings, they will see that God is loving, compassionate, and patient. He has shown discipline to his children at times, like any good parent, but he always goes back to love.
God's personification on earth, Jesus, demonstrated that love in a way that should be followed today by all Christians, but unfortunately is not. Jesus hung out with prostitutes, adulterers, the poor, the outcasts of society. He healed EVERY PERSON who asked him for healing. It was the over-religious, law-thumping "church leaders" of the time who condemned him and his compassion. And it is the same type of people since then and today who use parts of God's word that they have taken and twisted to their own ends of hate and control, who give Christians a bad name.
God did not create religion. Jesus did not create Christian denominations. People have done that. Many of those people have been corrupt. Some of them have not. Many have started on the right track, but then been led astray.
I did not become a Christian until my 30's, and the biggest thing that kept me away was the fundamentalist agenda that claims to be Christianity. It is NOT real Christianity. Real Christianity is love God with all your heart and love your neighbor (which includes all other people on this planet) as yourself.
I am a Christian who: votes democrat, masturbates, is pro-choice, loves gay people, cares for our planet, and believes "The Rapture" is a crock of shit, excuse my language. I'm sorry, but "The Rapture" is not in the Bible. It is an interpretation of the book of Revelations, which specifically says that we are not to add to or take away words from it (Rev. 22:18-19). There are some things that we are not meant to understand, and when we try to, we create all kinds of problems. The rapture camp is making up their own fiction and getting others to follow them.
God loves all of his children. Just as I hate to see my children fight and harm each other, He grieves to see us hate our earthly siblings. Let's love each other, people! God Bless You All!
Li I hope this actually
Li I hope this actually happens
kbmead you are giving all that's good about you to something that claims a monopoly on goodness. It's modern Christians who are twistiing the bible to meet their own ends. Paradoxically by doing that your rendering those parts of the bible you don't like obselete simp;y because they are. They were never written by Jesus and by ditching them your getting much closer to his/her original spirit. Whether he existed or not who ever wrote his words was enlightened. I tend to think he existed and was a humanist who would've been killed instantly had he questioned for a second any part of the Jewish faith, so was forced to include it. But when he talks about it he's very Tony Blairite in his inclusion of something his own morality rejects entirely. His assertioon is that people who have positively afirmed to be good don't need a law telling them not to kill because in situations where ther is no law and they're free to kill with impunity they won't and don't want to. It's a really good message but it's not unique to Jesus and it has absolutely no divine connection with some god that caused a devestating tsunami that killed thousand of innocent people. again the existence of such a god runs contrary to the entire spirit of jesus work, which is nature is cruel but we don't have to be.
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