Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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A short 2 and a half minute dry light touch wank with sometimes a 20 min arousal period, sometimes not, just a quicky 2 to 3 mins from a standing start, is the healthiest for my foreskin owning penis. I think the arousal period for me is what determines the quality of the orgasm at the end of the 2 to 3 mins. If I've spent several hours writing erotic fiction the wank and orgasm at the end of that is usually really good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)  Occassionally I'll edge simply because I'm enjoying the wank soooo much I don't want it to end yet. But I've never gone long enough to give a woman a vaginal orgasm with my penis and I don't really want to keep going for 20 minutes. I have no problems sharing billing with a dildo or/and a vibrator and my 2 to 3 mins has a place in her up to 40 min routine. I think a natural curiosity that results in variety is the best. Might one day want to go a long time using slow hand with lube but I'm not doing anything that needs effort, I have to flow into different sexual experiences pleasurably.  

Too many things about his two websites that annoy me.  Typo errors and calling your genitals "Privates" is anything but frank talk. 

I am a circumcised male, though after a few dozen partners over my thirty-year lifetime, I've come to discover that apparently, my circumcision was either partial, or at the least done sparingly. My penis has the appearance of being uncircumcised when flaccid, but the circumcision scar is clearly visible when fully erect. As a result, I never learned to masturbate with friction as a child, only believing that masturbation involved gripping the skin of the penis and using it as a sort of sleeve to stimulate the shaft underneath. It wasn't until I started watching a greater variety of porn as an adult that I realized many men stroke their cocks by using the friction of the skin of their palms. This cleared up many confusing sly references to hand lotion and other forms of lubrication in popular culture that I had never needed because there was never any friction between my hand and the outer skin. what I am curious about is whether there's been any kind of study done exploring the percentage of men who masturbate the way that I do, or at least always did (I've since opened my repertoire a bit after finally finding a partner that seems to be able to communicate well enough with me to make the way she masturbates me pleasurable and not painful.) also, I wonder if I did any of the same damage using my instinctual method of masturbation as a child. I definitely know that I actually *increased* my sensitivity, especially because the method I used to masturbate never really involved the head of my cock, only really as pulling sensation from the skin along the shaft as I used it to stroke. This definitely made my first few encounters with intercourse very very brief, as I had never really had the sensation of something warm and wet enveloping the glans.

Thanks for the food for thought, and for giving me some questions for self exploration. If anyone has any thoughts on the above, I'd love to see you chime in!