How I Stimulate My Clitoris in Every Sex Position

Wed, 10/06/2010 - 09:22
Submitted by carlisleorama

I love to stimulate my clit during any kind of penetration. Don't be afraid to do it! Many men find it hot and will love to see and feel you getting off. If he wants to help, show him how to do it. Let him do it for a little while and gently take over if what he's doing isn't working for you. Here are some positions I like for clit stim during vaginal intercourse:

Missionary- but not the style where he's laying directly on top of you and humping away. He has to be either on his knees or on his feet, squating, with his torso in straight up as in a standing position. If you have a bed frame (I don't, only a futon) this can sometimes be achieved with you on the edge of the bed and him standing by the bed, if it's the right height.

Doggy- no laying flat on the belly, it's best if you can be on all fours, or on your knees with yours arms and head down. Standing also works very well.

Reverse cowgirl- it can take a lot of work to get this position so it's feeling right, not to mention a lot of work in your thighs! It allows for some of the best clit access of any position though.

Regular cowgirl- if you can get to the point where rubbing your clit on something in a humping motion works (or if you're already there), have him tilt his pelvis up into you while in this position and grind the hell out of it. You can also reach your clit in this position with your hand, but it can be hard to strike a good balance between the hump mostion and stimulating your clit.

While I was writing that last one, I also remember a nice trick I like to do when someone is fingering me. Have them finger inside of you and hold their palm on your clit, and then just hold their hand still. You do all the work in this position, either riding the hand like you would a penis in cowgirl, or humping up into it if your on your back.

Hope some of that helps and good luck! Remember, practice makes perfect ;)

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Discharge

Sat, 01/29/2011 - 09:13
Marie2710 (not verified)

I am only 17 and I've been dating for 2 months. To me that's not long enough to have sex, so my partner and I agreed to wait at least until April (5 months). He is already going crazy and having all kinds of dreams, but I just can't do it! As you know there is a reason behind everything. For some odd reason I have white clumpy discharge that taste sour. I went to the GYN and she said I was fine, so did the rest of the doctors I told. Basically, I don't feel comfortable having sex with him because of the way I taste and the fear of me getting too nervous and not getting as wet as I could...what can I do? Please help meeee! lol

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