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For the Love of Labia

I love my labia. And I renewed my love for my labia yesterday during an oral sex session. For the most part, it's always a race to the vagina....a race to the clitoris and sometimes we forget just how sexually sensitive our labia are and how much pleasure they bring us as women. They're so soft and tender to the touch. They fold and undulate between our legs carrying with them lubricating juices. I love the way they feel when I part them and run my finger past their smooth center and into my vaginal opening. I love to feel them plump up with pleasure...pulling open...ready to receive whatever I may slide past them.
They're so sensitive when stimulated in just the right way. Sucked up together in a lover's mouth, licked up and down their length, massaged with a lubricated finger, pinched ever so tenderly as I get excited: I would never cut them away from my body. NEVER.
Their beauty lies in their simplicity. Such a small slip of skin so delicate and subtle yet powerful and responsive should be revered. Their image should adorn works of act, monuments to humanity, and altars of worship. But we are conditioned to see them as perverse. Every time we pull them up into a pair of panties we shudder. Every time we look up at a lover between our legs we hold our breath. If only our mothers helped us understand the wonders of our bodies.
Yes, I love my labia.
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Lovely
Beautifully written. xxx
Interesting how Labia = Foreskin
I have often read that the labia minora are constructed from the tissue (during development) that would make up the scrotum in a male fetus. However, When I hear labia discussed in our culture, they seem to remind me much more (in public perception) to the ideas we have about the male foreskin. Interestingly, the labia and the foreskin play the same role, protecting the urethral and reproductive tract.
In your love letter to your labia.. I was immediately aware of my love for my foreskin.. I could almost replace every use of your word "labia" with the word "foreskin". I felt I was able to completely understand what you meant, and the way you immediately jumped to the line "I would never cut them away from my body. NEVER." I get that.
I totally agree with you about the beauty of labia. They are beautiful. People often fail to understand how beautiful delicate folds of skin can be. They are unique and oh, so sensitive. Without labia... a vulva loses so much of its personality. To completely lose the labia is to make the vula robotic, cookie-cutter, and boring. That isn't to say smaller labia are not appeciable, because they too are unique. If every woman had the same size labia, that too would become boring. There is not just ONE beautiful.
I loved this post. I am so glad when I read women who know how to appreciate an often misunderstood, misrepresented beautiful part of themselves. I hope you can inspire many more women to appreciate their natural, whole, and intact labia. If only there were more men writing publically about foreskin too. Too many boys are growing up ashamed because they are natural, whole, and intact. That must change.
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24 - M - Critical Relativist and Feminist (Equalist) - Canada
I love my inner labias too!
I love my inner labias too! :) I start masturbate at 10y.o. and try pulling and tugging my inner lips when I play with my body. Wow! Feels are so good! I play with it many times every day before asleep in my own bad, and I pleasure every times! Labias are very sensitive and I have one ore more orgasms every time. I may simply hold my lips with strong stretch condition and feels been very intensive and good!
Late my boyfriend do it with me. My inner labias are my main sensitive zone! And more important for me even clit! I love my labias, my sexy ''flower" and my husband like it too! :) He like to play with my inner lips by his mouth and suck my "wings" every time when we have sex.
Labia envy
Reading these posts makes me think I have labia envy...
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