We have a workshop coming up this weekend and I'm so looking forward to it. You'd think that leaving Grayson home with Daddy and heading into Betty's at 10am on a Saturday morning would get old, or at least get routine. But that's not how Bodysex works.
Every workshop I learn something about myself - I remove another layer of shame and self-doubt. Even when you feel balanced and sex positive there's always a bit of something you can let go of because life happens. We move through events that weigh us down and bodysex brings me back to me.
Even Google is celebrating Hedy Lamarr's 101st birthday with an animated short of her achievements.
She was an actress who starred in Ecstasy, a film that included the firt female orgasm (during oral sex)
And she developed and patented broad spectrum technology which is the basis of all cellular and mobile applications that we enjoy today.
The US military patted her on the head when she offered them her technology as a means of thwarting German attacks on US submarines (which would have saved countless lives during WWII) and asked her to use her celebrity to sell war bonds.
Of course, she was ahead of her time and died penniless. She's one of the greats and on the list of women I'd like to go back in time and have a drink with...
I've been saying this forever - if celebrity women refused to sign off on photoshopped images of themselves we could put the whole negative body image nightmare to rest for young women.
Finally, someone had the clit to take on the fashion mags. Actress and singer Zendaya posted this image of her "retouched" body and negotiated with Modeliste magazine to pull the issue and re-release it with her natural images. She looks so much more attractive before they slimmed out her figure. Her real image - the image to the right - is far superior.
I'm hoping this creates a ripple effect and other celebs follow suit. We could all learn a great deal from this 19 year old.
Thank you, Alyssa Milano, for publishing this picture of breastfeeding in your Wonder Woman costume to #normalizebreastfeeding.
I can't think of a greater super power than nourishing new life. If only we placed the same value on people who nurture as we do on people who dominate to succeed.
I love a woman with unshaken armpits...especially when it's on the red carpet. Bravo.
We need an army of unshaken women having independent orgasms demanding equal pay and it seems like it's all starting.
We held our second certification workshop this weekend with 8 women training to run their own Bodysex groups across the country. We'll be adding Kansas, Upstate New York, Virginia, California, and Maine to our "territories". What excites us the most is the quality of women who will be carrying Betty's work forward. Their stories overlap yet each is unique and will put their own stamp on Bodysex.
Aniela McGuinness is a 32-year-old actress who was diagnosed with breast cancer. She decided to have a preventative mastectomy AND to document her experience with a little flair, and a little humor.
She starts with Rosie the Riveter pre-mastectomy...becomes the Bride of Frankenstein post-mastectomy and then a Fembot post-chemo when she went bald.
I love her spirit and that she held her head high and laughed at herself. If only we all could handle our ever changing bodies with the same courage and acceptance. This woman is brilliant.
This is a photo of an ankle contest. Maybe the woman's faces would confuse the judges but looking at this image, it's so fucking ridiculous that I can't believe it's real.
And we wonder why pundits commented on Hillary's "cankles". I would imagine that thicker ankles would be stronger and help you do useful things like run or lift things but why would a woman's body need to be anything but pleasing to the male gaze.
Thank you, Elle UK, for photoshopping the men out of these pictures of parliament and the G8 to show how women are barely represented in government.
A picture is worth a thousand words. Women hold roughly 14% of the seats in Congress (you need 42% to have an influence). And it's no better over in the UK. I have to admit that the image of Merkel kind of gets me hot. She's such a bad ass.
Change is coming.
Thank you, Alejandra Pino, for adding spanish subtitles to our video clip of Betty drawing the internal clitoris. Everything we do here at D&R is copyleft and Creative Commons.
We want people to take our work, translate it, and take it mass:
Things My Dick Does is officially my new favorite tumblr blog. His stated intention is wonderful:
I've always wondered what my dick does in the times he is up before I am. He must get so bored waiting for me to wake up. Happens EVERY day. Poor little guy :\ Feel free to say hello to the little guy via inbox message.
Adorable...brilliant...in love with the condom pics.
Meryl Streep put together these t-shirts "I'd Rather be a Rebel Than a Slave" to promote her new film Suffragette (as the great granddaughter of a suffragette I can't wait to see this movie). Unfortunately, it started a shit storm on twitter about race and feminism.
I'm so sick of these arguments that divide us as women. Yes, black women (just like lesbians) were marginalized and co-opted by second wave feminists and that was wrong. But let's agree on one thing: we're all fucked.
For the record, I love my menstrual cup. It takes a bit to learn how to insert it properly (just fold it in half, push out with your pc muscle, insert and let it open, then run your finger around the entire cup to make sure it's all set. And when you want to take it out just push out with your pc muscle).
Thank you, Buzzfeed, for making this video of women trying a menstrual cup for the first time. It's so easy and protects you from the carcinogenic chemicals found in most pads and tampons. And there's no risk of toxic shock.
If only we celebrated women who had sex, heading home the next day in the same clothes they wore the night before.
I remember being shamed when I would crawl home in the wee hours of the morning after a night of sex. Walking past my doorman and AM neighbors was the worst.
I love this clip:
I've spent the last few days out east with my parents in the home where I grew up. Daddy is on a business trip and I was nervous to stay home alone with Grayson. He's 6 months and teething so I need to be relieved here and there to take a shower or manage D&R.
It's been rewarding to watch my parents interact with their grandson. Somehow it heals the wounds of the past. Maybe it's because we have a new common interest, I don't know. But to watch Grayson and my mother growl at each other at breakfast reminds me of the happy times of my childhood.