We included this picture in the new edition of Betty's memoir. Here she is vamping it up in black lace back in the 80's.
Would be amazing to go back in time and have a drink with this woman.
When I get ready for a workshop, I spend about an hour setting up the space so that we sit in a perfect circle. Each corner of the room is softly lit, the back jacks are evenly spaced apart, and all the trays have the necessary implements. As Betty says, we're sitting "in the temple".
For me, the week leading into the workshop was over-the-top crazy. I was definitely suffering from Mommy brain but felt a bit more at ease since we were holding a certification workshop. We already know each woman and it has a more celebratory feel.
This is our new favorite teaching tool for the workshops. The 3D clitoris in white bronze is in our etsy store for $75.00.
It's lifesize - 2 by 2 inches - and weighs 1.5 ounces. It includes the clitoral glans, the clitoral shaft and the bulbs and legs of the clitoris. When you hold it in your hands, you better understand the complexity of the female sex organ.
It's sitting on my desk and makes a striking accessory sure to provoke conversation. I love this piece.
I'm so inspired by Polish women. They quit work and turned out en masse to protest laws that would have completely banned abortion under any circumstances, fucking Catholic church. The result: legislators quickly changed position.
This is the kind of sweeping activism we are capable of; we do have the power. My heart goes out to our Irish sisters who face similar legislative efforts to control their bodies. Here's another image to give you the idea of just how many women joined the protest:
Yesterday I forced myself to watch Netflix's latest documentary Audrie & Daisy. To listen to their interviews...to hear their stories of rape and sexual abuse was chilling. It was the typical American scenario: athlete boys lure the girls over to their homes, ply them with alcohol, assault them, take video/pictures and post them on social media. There's an investigation but the boys get off scot free and the girls are slut shamed by their community (Daisy had her family home vandalized before it was burned down to the ground).
There's a part of me that questions the significance of Bodysex. Betty and I go back and forth wondering if we "drank the koolaid". Is independent orgasm for women really such a big deal? Running the groups has been a personal challenge, it's challenged our partnership but, after a workshop like this past weekend's, we know that the work is profound.
If I had to choose one word to describe this workshop, it would be thoughtful. All the women were so composed and reflective during group share. When someone reveals their most painful memory or hidden secret, the trust between everyone in the circle intensifies. The generosity of spirit in this group touched us. We felt honored to have been able to create a safe space for personal healing.
After watching Hillary verbally beat down Trump in this weeks debate, I think it's fitting to see Gigi Hadid physically beat down this deadbeat. Can you imagine walking out into that melee trying to navigate through all those people and have some psycho grab you from behind?
As a woman, you need to know how to throw a punch like Gigi.
I applaud Sara X Mills for blogging about why she removed her breast implants. It's not often that women display this sort of honesty with respect to their bodies and failed plastic surgery.
She confirmed what I always thought about implants - they're not forever. You have to replace them every 7-10 years even if you don't have any complications. Even saline implants are encassed in silicone and the new cohesive silicone implants CAN leak. Most importantly, you can develop a host of medical issues that aren't covered by your insurance like Sara experienced:
This picture of Jessie Graff at the Emmys is simply perfection. She's a stuntwoman on Supergirl and was the first woman to complete the course on American Ninja Warrior.
We need more women like Jessie displaying strength and power in plunging necklines. LOVE
The young girl in this picture was pulled out of class because she violated the school dress code in Kentucky by showing her collarbones. Upworthy has more pictures of girls pulled out of class and humiliated while missing valuable class time waiting for their parents to come down to school. From Portland to Kentucky, it's an every day occurrence.
I don't care what people say about Hillary. I fucking love her.
This week she penned a letter of support to Ella Dawson. We've covered Ella's blog on overcoming STI shame. She came out as a young woman - the girl next door - living with herpes. She posted her picture and her full name. God, she has clit.
Betty has herpes. I had a long term partner with herpes (We didnt use condoms. We avoided sex during outbreaks and I never contracted it). Almost all of us harbor the herpes virus. If you have a cold sore on your mouth, why is your life over is you have one on your genitals? Why do we shame young people?
This story completely shocks the conscience and makes my blood boil. A Chicago woman went to a Catholic hospital because she fell and her copper IUD became dislodged from her uterus. Who would want a piece of metal floating around their internal organs?
There are so many amazing projects being produced by women right now. No coincidence that it's all happening on the eve of our first female president being elected into office.
This is a photo from the Lonely Girls Project. They have a line of lingerie but instead of enlisting the same cookie cutter models to tell their story they had celebrity and regular women shoot themselves in their own envirnoments - no photoshop no pouting. The images are so appealing to me, so real, so erotic.
I love the image of the mom in the kitchen with her kid. I can so relate. It's so refreshing to see nipples, cellulite dimples and genuine sensuality.
A kind gentleman sent me the link to this tumblr blog - The Magic Wand Throughout History - and I had to republish it here. Nothing like classical art reimagined with adequate clitoral stimulation.
I've heard of the Large Labia Project but never clicked through the images until this morning when Emma emailed me for permission to repost our Trekant episode.
This is a great resource for women contemplating labiaplasty (please keep your labia intact). And I respect that Emma posted images of her own labia. There's such freedom in sharing our nudity especially for educational purposes.
Looking forward to watching Emma's career unfold.