Orgasm by Fantasy

Mon, 09/30/2013 - 11:09
Submitted by Carlin Ross

Dr. Barry Komisaruk and Nan Wise have been doing MRI scans of women's brains to determine whether or not spontaneous orgasms really happen...and they do.

What I love most about their research is that they're refuting the whole evolutionary byproduct theory of female orgasm (that women don't need to orgasm to get pregnant so female orgasm doesn't serve any evolutionary purpose) by proving that women can experience orgasm by fantasy alone - they don't even have to touch their genitals. It's basically the equivalent of nocturnal emissions in men.

They're research started in the late 90's spurned by a book by Susan Crain Bakos:

"A 1996 book, “Sexational Secrets,” described a workshop on spontaneous orgasm and featured a how-to guide.

At Rutgers, Dr. Komisaruk expanded his research to brain scans. In 2003, the first images confirmed the earlier study. Pleasure centers lit up more or less identically whether the women reached sexual highs by hand stimulation or by erotic thoughts.

Dr. Komisaruk had difficulty finding enough volunteers for a thorough study until he met Ms. Wise, the Rutgers doctoral student. A sex therapist, she turned out to have the right contacts as well as her own autoerotic skills. “It’s the least sexy thing in the world,” she said of having her brain scanned. “But I do it for science.” By early 2010, Ms. Wise and Dr. Komisaruk had succeeded in scanning a dozen volunteers.

Late that year, at the annual meeting of the Society for Neuroscience, the world’s largest group for brain research, the Rutgers team presented a surprise finding that suggested that the scientists were zeroing in on the phenomenon’s origins.

Women who simply thought about the stimulation of their breasts and genitals, the scans revealed, lit up the brain’s corresponding sensory areas."

Personally, I've never experienced a spontaneous orgasm. I have to stimulate my clitoris. But now I have a new orgasm goal :)

Editor in Chief & Keeper of All Things Betty Dodson

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"Spontaneous" Orgasms

Mon, 09/30/2013 - 14:55

Of course they exist! I have always had them, but I can only do it while dreaming/sleeping- the orgasm wakes me up. Guess it really is the equivalent of a "wet dream" in men.

spontaneous orgasms

Mon, 09/30/2013 - 17:39
Bila (not verified)

The mind is the foremost errogenous zone. Alongside its capacity for imagination and fantasy, it's the transformer of our sense stimuli, such as when touching the genitals, into suspended states of erotic euphoria. It's mind over matter...'what the mind can perceive, the body can achieve'. 

when I was younger

Mon, 09/30/2013 - 21:04

I used to have these "wetdream" experiences a lot when I was younger. I would wake up clutching my vulva, with my muscles spasming. Sometimes I could remember the dream, sometimes not. It was actually an unpleasant way to wake up, kind of an aching. Damn, if I had only had a vibrator back then! I would have gotten rid of that ache in a hurry.

thinking off

Thu, 10/03/2013 - 06:18

on a swinger site I am a member of, I have watched 2 different ladies think off. Granted they could have been showing off, but they were not paid of course, so who knows?

"spontaneous" orgasms

Thu, 10/17/2013 - 12:33

Almost sexually illiterate and at the grand old age of 42 I've recently started experiencing "spontaneous" orgasms - no touching involved (and while fully awake, though a couple of glasses of wine helps).  Spontaneous is a misnomer as there is a noticeable build up.  Long may it reign!

Spontaneous Orgasm

Mon, 06/13/2016 - 17:52

I have experienced orgasm in my sleep, being awakened to deep throbbing waves of ecstasy. In my younger years, I achieved extreme arousal and ultimately a throbbing orgasm and nipple erection and sensitivity from prolonged, deep kissing, but my most memorable orgasm was achieved dring an intense session of hand holding. My first hint of an orgasm, I was about 7-8 years old, and lying on my bed. My kitten pounced onto my pelvic area and began to kneed. I didn't understand the sensation , but didn't interrupt the arousal process. After that first time, I would do anything to entice my kitten to repeat her performance. That's when I first became aware that I had a pleasure button between my legs. I spent many nights holding and caressing my Yoni, but it wasn't until I was in my 20s that I got serious and used direct manual stimulation to bring myself to that place where fireworks go off in my head and I hear the ocean waves in my ears. I still retain the bad habit of tensing my muscles to help me over the edge. I need to practice luxuriating and letting it come rather than forcing it.