"I Learned to Orgasm, Love My Vulva & Love Myself"

Thu, 02/16/2012 - 08:50
Submitted by Carlin Ross

9sunnydays made this comment on our last video podcast Our Valentine to You:

"Since beginning to watch your videos just under a year ago I have learned to orgasm, to love my vagina, to love myself more and to learn so much more about sexuality as a healthy, natural expression of one's self. I seriously would send a picture of my vulva to myself! hahaha.

Thankyou ladies so much for inspiring so many people, including myself to love myself and I hope you know how powerful the work you do is. Ps. You two look beautiful!"

*sigh* I read this comment to Betty the morning after our Yale Sex Week talk. Makes you glow inside.

Editor in Chief & Keeper of All Things Betty Dodson

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I love you too!

Thu, 02/16/2012 - 12:17
WildOrchid (not verified)

Betty's gallery and drawings taught me how to appreciate all female genitals - including my own. It was many years ago but I'm still reaping the benefits.

Betty's videos (mainly Celebrating Orgasm) taught me that women have an enormous capacity for pleasure. All we need is a bit of education, right tools and lots of practice. 

Roxy's appearance on Trekant showed me that sometimes putting it all on the line is the best thing yo can do.

You also continue to teach me that tension is not all there is to orgasm. I'm learning this lesson very slowly, but sometime I will get there.

More fan post!!

Thu, 02/16/2012 - 14:19

After reading almost everthing on this site and watching Trekant... I realised I've been having orgasms since I was a kid. I just taught myself to connect the quiet release with the feeling of guilt and shame - God was watching and I failed again, since I had promised I wouldn't do it any more... And I expected the "real thing" to be something totally explosive and eternally burning so going anywhere near had to be avoided... Until marriage, of course. 
Now, after quite some strugles (two not so good relationships, a lot of masturbation "just because Betty told to"), I've had two orgasms where I feel small sweet contractions of my vagina! I don't need to lure myself into masturbation with fruits and chocolate now!
The other day my therapist helped me notice an important thing about keeping my own limits with regards to my ex... Since then I also started to feel a tender resonance in the muscle to the right of my clit. During the day, every now and then. And after that I had those stronger orgasms. It's curious! :)

Sooo..... Greetings from Scandinavia and thanks to you Betty and Carlin! You're my heroes! I love to think about future now.

Don't You just love this?

Thu, 02/16/2012 - 17:10

Ladies..I'm experiencing the warmest feelings of joy reading your posts.  Seriously...I have this big, giant grin on my face. 
I just love this website and this community.
Thank you again Betty and Carlin for spreading all this joy and ecstasy around the world.

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