"So I Bought a Vibrator & Literally Got to It"

Sat, 06/25/2011 - 10:37
Submitted by Carlin Ross

We received this amazing email from Angie - it warms my heart:

I am not asking a question, I want to thank you for your website. I found it through your Youtube account and it changed me.

Before viewing your site, I had no interest in masturbation. I thought it was just silly and only guys needed it. I expected an orgasm to be mind blowing and given to me like a pretty present on Christmas morning. I waited and waited for my boyfriend to give me one yet it just never came. I always felt like he was bringing me to an orgasm but it always disappeared after I "hit a wall". When my boyfriend touched me, my clit would feel painfully sensitive. I honestly thought something was wrong with me and I even felt ashamed.

Then one day I found your site. I spent hours reading similar questions to mine. In the orgasm topic tab it seemed like question after question was the same. "Is this an orgasm?" "Why can't I orgasm?". You basically dismissed the romanticized version of an orgasm that women expected. You basically told the women to enjoy the feelings and keep practicing. Orgasms come in different ways so masturbate and just stop worrying.

"Hmm," I thought, "Why not?"

So I bought a vibrator and I literally got to it. I took a mirror and watched as I brought it to my clit. I could see my own juices and it felt amazingly personal and exotic. The experience was just amazing. I had to masturbate a lot in the begging to get my clit used to stimulation but soon enough it started feeling better and better. I mean who can make you feel better then yourself?

Then one day I got my first orgasm and didn't even know it. Yes it wasn't "mind blowing" but nonetheless it was very nice. My heart quickened and it felt like my clitoris was fluttering up and down. I felt light little spasms and pleasant pressure building. Yet for an odd reason I dismissed it as "build up" and I still was waiting for fireworks. After researching your site I realized that THAT WAS THE ORGASM! With knowledge comes power so knowing that I had reached orgasm helped me reach many more and more. Yeah they are short and light but what can I say, I rather have many short orgasms then no orgasm at all.

I continue to masturbate and I have a new resolution that I started when you began May is Masturbation Month. Every night before I go to sleep I have to orgasm at least once. Let me tell you, best thing Ive ever decided. At 20, I know that I still have a lot to learn and that I shouldn't rely on anyone to give me what I need. Without you I would have never wanted to masturbate because I just thought it was unnecessary. Consequently I would have never orgasmed. So CHEERS to you Betty and I dedicate all my new found orgasms to you !!

P.S. Ladies, please read through topics before you ask your own questions. Reading through them may answer your question and save Betty some time. Good luck!

Editor in Chief & Keeper of All Things Betty Dodson

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