Most of your readers complain about them or their men not lasting long enough to enjoy sex. My problem is just the opposite. I enjoy sex and want to enjoy it as long as I can. This means that I can stay erect and have sex for over an hour on average. This has become a problem as my wife feels I take too long.
She says that sex with me is hard work and take a lot of effort. In fact, I am the one doing all the hard work while she enjoys it with her head in the pillows. To please her I try to cum earlier but thats not easy for me and leaves me unsatisfied.
Can You help me figure out how I can finish quickly and enjoy sex at the same time. is there something wrong with me?
Well this is different from what I usually hear. She just doesn't enjoy fucking and wants it to be over with. Reach down and stimulate her clitoris while your fucking. After you've done it a few times to show her how good it feels, you can ask her to stimulate her own clitoris while you're having sex. Or let her read her Kindle while you are fucking her. Too bad she didn't marry a fast ejaculator. They are everywhere. I married one years ago. An hour is just about right for a woman to have her own orgasm with additional clit stim. Try it.
You can also invest in some sex toys and spend more time masturbating. I'm told the Fleshlight feels as good as the real thing and in your case, it won't complain if you take too long. Also try masturbating and getting turned on right before you do vaginal penetration to speed things up for wifey poo.
Will wonders ever cease?