Dear Dr. Betty,
my bf is straight so i always thought but we were talking about our biggest secrets and he said about 20 yrs ago he got drunk and high and had sex with a man. Ar first i was freaked out but i never stopped loving him and always stayed supportative he has brought it up a few times but last night he was telling me in details about him and the other guy and was getting himself aroused.
he made hints about wanting saying i would like to him see a man having sex with him? is that a hint that he wants to have a threesome with him and another man? Is he bi? or just really comfortable with his sexuality? He said hes been having wet dreams. idk what any of this means.
Dear J, Every question you asked me needs to be directed to your BF. He will explain what he means far better than either one of us guessing. I believe most everyone has the potential to enjoy same sex at some point in their sexual development.
Curiosity is to be encouraged not stifled. So chose a time when both of you are relaxed after sharing orgasms and talk about it. My preference has always been toward men who can have an open mind instead of being a fixed butch who hates queers. They are most often boring and limited individuals.