All I End Up Doing is Making Her Clitoris Sensitive with No Orgasm

Wed, 07/20/2016 - 07:04
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hey Betty,

My girlfriend and I met the first week of college and have been going out for about half a year now. She is amazing and very giving in bed. She has had her share of sexual partners in the past with a couple of boys and one girl and she tells me that they had never been able to help her reach an orgasm. Only she herself on her own has reached an orgasm. I am also the first person she has had sex with and of course I want to help her feel a great deal of pleasure and help her reach an orgasm.

Every time I am performing oral sex on her or rubbing her clitoris she says that I am hitting the right spot but I always stop just at the final moment and she doesn't get the orgasm we very much crave. All I end up doing is making her clitoris very sensitive but still no orgasm. I hope I'm on the right path since her legs are always jerking and shaking and her body trembles when I give her oral sex or when I finger/rub her. but even after all that I still cant help her achieve an orgasm and that cuts down at my own sexual performance.

The issue could be related to my stamina for which she told me before last month that she was able to come twice within the ten minutes we were talking on the phone. is there any advice you can give me that can help me help her reach an orgasm. Thank you.

F

Dear F,

First off, I believe we are each responsible for our own orgasms. Don't get caught up in the male trap of thinking YOU are the one who will succeed in getting her off. Since she knows how to orgasm with masturbation, all she has to do the next time you get together is to reach down and do her own clitoris while you are fucking her sweetly.

Be sure to have some organic massage oil handy. All those good feelings will just get better with slippery fingers and a well oiled nice erect penis. Enjoy.

Dr Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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