My lover is very disappointed that I frankly don't care how much semen he ejaculates. I have tried to explain that it makes no difference to me. how much. I am more concerned about the intensity and satisfactions of his orgasms.
Surely the amount of come is based on how long since his last ejaculation not the quality of our fuck?
I'm 63 and can't remember this being an important issue to lovers in my youth. Is this yet another case of men being persuaded that women love 'come' via porn sites. Please, let me know how you all feel, perhaps I'm the one with a problem?
You are correct in your assessment. As men age they often become obsessed with the hardness of their erections and the amount of semen coming out of their "manhood" symbol, the almighty penis. Unless you are trying to conceive which is ludicrous in your sixties, you answered your own question.
Yes, it's most likely porn influencing his concern. The porn industry has always used male ejaculation to represent orgasm. They call it the "Money Shot." Now they also include female ejaculation to prove a woman has had a climax. What's so sad is that neither a male shooting a load nor a female squirting a bucket has anything to do with actually experiencing orgasm! While it's true both can be present at the time of orgasm, it is not proof positive.
Between commercial porn and Big Pharma meds, the American public barely stands a chance to enjoy sex these days. Fortunately you nailed them.