I Fantasize About a Woman Biting My Penis. Is This Normal?

Tue, 02/02/2016 - 12:50
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Dr. Betty.

I am a 29 year old man who is also virgin and I must say I like your website. And my question has to do with a sexual fantasy I have. In my fantasy a woman is performing oral sex on me and while she has my fully erect penis her mouth she bites it. What I am saying is I want a woman to bite my penis. Is there any advice you can give on this and is this a normal fantasy?

I think I would like it If a woman did bite my penis.

Dear A,

One of the best things about sexual fantasies is that they never need to be acted out unless we so desire. A lot of my fantasies remain just imaginary. Others are a way for me to test out things I might like to try while playing it safe. At some point you could ask a GF to apply pressure on your dick with her teeth VERY slowly.

Also make it clear that when you say "Stop" she will. Read around our site or google "KINK" where people agree to experiment with "intense" sensations while playing safe with upfront agreements.

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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Wed, 02/03/2016 - 04:24

There is no such thing as "normal" when it comes to sex and that's a good thing. No one in this world should aspire to be average, least of all when it comes to sex.

Almost by definition, the things we each fantasize about must be outside of our own "normal" else why would we bother with them. There is absolutely no obligation to carry through on any of our fantasies in real life.

Betty's advice is spot-on as usual. Enjoy your fantasies. Build a bigger repertoire, a selection of fantasies that you can visit at will and enjoy. Maybe at some time in the future, you can explore carefully some of those fantasies. Maybe you will never want to.