I'm 64 years old and just found this site last night. Where were you 30 years ago?
I had a radical hysterectomy when I was 50. Before then I was never able to orgasm in my 30 years of marriage. I did find myself waking up at night with a clitoral orgasm which was great but I never figured out how I got there. I now am in a relationship with a very loving man and feel there may be hope.
My question is, is it too late. I noticed after my hysterectomy that my night time orgasms slowly left. I don't have them any more. My lover really arouses me and I am wondering what I can do to help myself become more responsive.
Thanks for your help.,
As long as you are breathing there is always hope. At 64, I would suggest you get my book Orgasms for Two (Amazon) and the Eroscillator vibrator or the Magic Wand rechargeable. If your new lover is really "loving" then he won't care how you get your orgasms. Share the book with him too.
All of our orgasms are "clitoral" so you were stimulating yours in your sleep. That was quite sneaky but effective, yes? So now you can consciously get your clitoris involved and share your orgasms with your new lover for a Happy New Year.