Should I Go Back to Masturbating & Watching Porn?

Wed, 12/16/2015 - 09:29
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty,

I am 27 year old male. I have been enjoying masturbation since I was 18. But recently I came across this phenomenon called Nofap and its benefits. So to see how it works, I stopped masturbating and watching porn. Lots of changes I saw within me. I craved for women a lot than before. I could only hold on to it for 20 days max.

I thought masturbation was the reason for me never having a girlfriend. I have had sexual experience with women but not relationships. Only thing I wanna ask here is, should I go back to regular masturbation and watching porn?

Dear A,

You are on the right track dumping porn. Now you can do what I call conscious masturbation to learn "come control". Get my book Orgasm for Two where I talk in more detail about masturbation for men. (Available from Amazon).

Without the canned images of porn you can develop your own fantasies that will exercise your creative brain. After all, fantasy is at the heart of the creative process. Then write up your experiences and send them to me so we can publish your progress on becoming a first rate lover of women!

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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Be an intrepid choreographer of your own dalliance fantasies

Sun, 12/20/2015 - 22:00

Greetings A, From the little I've researched Nofap, I guess it's a type of detox for the porn and masturbation addicts. Both of the former taken to the extreme can drain the life force from you; however, in moderation, they really don't infirm the mind or body. There's porn that's aesthetically and erotically performed and there's porn that degrades sexuality and assaults the senses. Better be a discriminating viewer, best be an intrepid choreographer of your own dalliance fantasies. Masturbating and edging your orgasms gives you continuous jolts of energy to your brain and entire nervous system that leave you charged with vitality and vigor. Libido is strong, sensuality pervades your senses, you will radiate energy and happiness. A knowledgeable approach to sexuality opens up healthful dimensions to your solo and paired sex acts and generates a wellspring of self-love. Kudos on going Nofap for 20 days and feeling profound changes. Now try edging your orgasms for 20 days and let us know the differences you experience.

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