I must admit I have no idea how to express my problem. My friends masturbate a lot and as friends always do we share our experiences with each other. But I never felt any lust or desire while masturbating. I tried several times but It did not seem to be my cup of tea. I cannot imagine what it feels like for my friends ,but it never felt well.
The main reason for my lack of lust is that there is nothing or no one who turns me on. I tried to fantasize about men who look really great, but for my pity does not exist (Thor, men in video games), but this was also fruitless...I am never turned on, wet and so on...
But I don't know what is wrong with me and it frustrates me.
Dear C, Your problem is just basic sexual repression. Quite common actually but most do not admit it.
You must be your own lover. Selflove is the highest form of sexual expression and must come first. Think of practicing masturbation similar to a dancer learning a new routine. Or an athlete just learning a new sport. It's not about being "In the mood" or having some "hot sexual fantasy" that isn't there. It's more like going to your health club and working out. The information you need is inside the website with our topic listed in the left hand column. It's just fun, so enjoy yourself!