Dear Dr. Betty,
I'm 17 years old and I'm a virgin.. But I've been very self-conscious about my long inner labia.. It looks so gross it doesn't look normal at all. Its like dark and wrinkled.. It makes me feel used...
But I read the article on this website about how she got the labiaplasty done and she wasn't happy about the results and that makes me think twice and makes me think "maybe I shouldn't even get it done."
I wonder what my boyfriend in the further will say when he actually sees it.. Will he get grossed out? Will he not have sex with me? Since I'm not sexually active yet, I'm scared to loose him because what will he say when he sees it..
My friends, well one close friend told me that my boyfriend won't mind at all and that I'm perfectally normal but I always second guess it can you help me get over this ... Do you have probably other articles for me to read about?
Please help me ... :(
You are being a foolish girl who needs to get a grip on what is normal, acceptable and beautiful about the vast variations of our labia. Those dangling inner lips are part of your sex organ that responds to sexual arousal just like your clitoris. They too get engorged when we get turned on.
So getting them cut off due to some imaginary ideal created by porn to please some imaginary boyfriend is beyond sad. You turn yourself into a victim. Please go onto the website and read the topics listed in the left hand column. Also look at my drawings of different vulva styles. And learn to love yourself before you do something as foolish as elected surgery for a non problem.