Hello Dr. Betty,
I would like to start first by writing that I believe the Fountain of Youth must be somewhere in New York, you always look so radiant and young in your videos. Carlin is also so young and beautiful as well. You two are wonderful together.
I have a couple of reasons of why I am writing you. The first is a male's point of view of the results of your Body Work Shop. This is the first anniversary of my wife's visit to your "Body Sex Workshop" last November; she came back a different person in the most positive way possible. She was glowing and has only gotten brighter as each day passes. She is more confident and has expressed an interest in starting her own classes here in Ontario Canada. She just needs to find the women that are willing to experience the sensations. I thank the universe for you and Carlin and the fantastic work you do.
Your video regarding circumcision caught my attention and actually hurt me. I was circumcised at birth and knowing nothing else thought nothing of it...of course. My wife and I met when we were eleven years old became good friends which turned into sexual exploration which in turn resulted in a very young marriage. Barely turning sixteen we found ourselves at the alter. There was a child coming but it wasn't a "shotgun wedding" I personally wanted to marry the love of my life and in March we will be celebrating our thirty sixth anniversary. We have had three beautiful sons. Our oldest was not circumcised but under pressure from both my mother and father the two youngest boys were. Not because of religion but because I was told it would prevent them from getting infections. I spent quite a few sleepless nights worrying about my oldest son but he is a healthy young man now with three children of his own. My two youngest are also healthy young men, our middle boy also with three children.
We've had our ups and downs but I've been extremely happy both sexually and emotionally. My wife not so much she has always wanted more which I understand and support completely. I have never been interested in being with anyone else but her. By most of the things I have read and watched on your site I am not a normal male human, which I find both interesting and puzzling. But that is a topic for another time.
Back to the video. Like I wrote earlier my wife and I started having sex early we were both virgins. Within the first few weeks of our new adventures I was able to make her orgasm vaginally with my circumcised penis. What I found hurtful and disappointing is that the two most beautiful sex experts that I know were saying how mutilated and basically useless a circumcised penis would be to them and women in general. I wasn't able to finish watching the video and now I can't find it so that I can.
I don't want to sound negative; your site is very important to everyone that you have been able to touch but you and Carlin should try to be more sensitive to what you say and write. I will be fifty two years old in December. I have been with only one human being. I am very happy with her and very happy that she feels free to talk to me about her wants and needs. I have watched her have sex with other men and women but I still have no desire to explore that route myself. She has had multiple orgasms with the aid of my penis and other parts, she won't let me get away with not exploring. I have never thought of "cheating" on her and I have no urge to control her life. I just thank the Universe that I have her in my life and that she has you and Carlin in her's.
Thank you for taking the time to read my rant and I look forward to reading your reply.
Best wishes and love,
I hear you! In our enthusiasm to reach mothers about to have babies we most likely over did it again. We sometimes lose track of how many ears are listening while we are just in a casual conversation with nothing scripted.
So your comment is very valuable and we will pay attention.
The other comment we got broke us up:"Two dirty dyke feminists liberals."
In the future, Carlin and I will make an effort to always include men who are circumcised at birth and had no choice. Also to be aware of mothers who were not informed as so few are and the last excuse usually is: "I wanted him to look like his father." That's a self perpetuating loop that will never allow change.
At the end of the YouTube I do talk about my young lover who was circumcised and also a beautiful sex partner that I thoroughly enjoyed for 10 years. I'm sorry you didn't hear that part.
I loved the feedback about your wife after her Bodysex workshop. What good news. You're a hellova guy and I honor your feedback.